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OK..I admit it. - 1/26/2008 7:04:29 AM   
patwi


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Status: offline 		I can finally, -finally- admit it after months of internal struggle.


I am a submissive. 

I know this thread doesn't really have any relevance to the rest of you, but this is a new thing for me, publicly admitting it. Seeing it in type and whatnot, so I'll just get back to my coffee now.

*edited to rid my post of a mysterious 1 which somehow snuck in there.*

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RE: OK..I admit it. - 1/26/2008 7:40:57 AM   
Littlepita


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Status: offline 		It is always good when you can embrace who are meant to be.

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RE: OK..I admit it. - 1/26/2008 7:42:35 AM   
Dari


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Status: offline 		Having watched your struggle for a while now, I'll say - about damn time, girl!

<cheers>

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RE: OK..I admit it. - 1/26/2008 7:49:28 AM   
softness


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Status: offline 		welcome to the dark side

plus ... our accessories are cuter

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RE: OK..I admit it. - 1/26/2008 8:00:48 AM   
proudsub


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RE: OK..I admit it. - 1/26/2008 8:04:12 AM   
sunshinemiss


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Status: offline 		*reminds you of Bounty's coffee shop that is under the Random Stupidity section (or something like that)...

*hands you a slice of pie to go with your coffeee.... and blows you a kiss.

It is really hard to admit who and what we are when it goes outside the norm.  And you are right, it can be amazingly powerful to see your truth in black and white.

Congratulations on finding, accepting, and speaking your truth.  We are lucky to be able to bear witness.  Thank you for giving us that gift.

peace. 

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RE: OK..I admit it. - 1/26/2008 8:45:38 AM   
Tigrita


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Status: offline 		I'm very glad you've found peace with yourself, or begun to.  I have a feeling you'll be able to find a lot more fulfillment in life now embracing your desires rather than struggling against them.  Kind of like finding out that chocolate isn't bad for you (I wish). 

Best,

~ J


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RE: OK..I admit it. - 1/26/2008 8:45:54 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		And I can almost bet in the next five years you'll go through at least two more periods of serious internal struggle to decide if that term fits you, if your definition of the term still applies to you and where you see yourself going.

But that's good- that means growth.

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RE: OK..I admit it. - 1/26/2008 8:49:31 AM   
ProlificNeeds


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Status: offline 		Just remember labels do you an injustice. As you explore yourself, focus on what you feel, not what others tell you to feel. I'm happy for you.
Wishing you all the best. 

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RE: OK..I admit it. - 1/26/2008 9:19:44 AM   
rubberpet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: softness

welcome to the dark side

plus ... our accessories are cuter


Damn, skippy, we have the cuter accessories!  Locks go good with everything!  Plus, here on the darkside, we have cookies!

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RE: OK..I admit it. - 1/26/2008 9:24:18 AM   
breatheasone


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Status: offline 		I won't say welcome to the dark side....I don't feel WIITWD is "dark" ...just different. When I discovered what and who I was, it was actually very enlightening. So I will say welcome to the truth....I'm sure it has set you free.....The truth has a funny way of doing just that.   Life is not a dress rehearsal....this it. So live it....ALL of it, and NOW.

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RE: OK..I admit it. - 1/26/2008 9:27:51 AM   
littlebitxxx


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Status: offline 		What everyone else said - ditto.  Congrats and welcome.  Feels good, don't it?  Kinda freeing.

Chocolates all round!  Let's celebrate, need a party.

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RE: OK..I admit it. - 1/26/2008 9:31:01 AM   
ShaktiSama


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quote:

ORIGINAL: patwi
I am a submissive. 


Yum.   

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RE: OK..I admit it. - 1/26/2008 1:38:55 PM   
patwi


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Status: offline 		Thank you all for the words. :) My personal life is somethign of a mess right now, so it's rather nice to have something be resolved, rather than fall apart.

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RE: OK..I admit it. - 1/27/2008 4:04:41 AM   
sunshinemiss


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quote:

ORIGINAL: rubberpet

quote:

ORIGINAL: softness

welcome to the dark side

plus ... our accessories are cuter


Damn, skippy, we have the cuter accessories!  Locks go good with everything!  Plus, here on the darkside, we have cookies!


You TOTALLY forgot about the devil's food cake, dude!

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RE: OK..I admit it. - 1/27/2008 6:04:00 AM   
fullofgrace69


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Status: offline 		we have cookies? damn i never got any cookies :( but congrats. its scary when ur unsure of everything :) x

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RE: OK..I admit it. - 1/27/2008 7:27:49 AM   
kittengirl8


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Status: offline 		My bad fullofgrace... someone put out the cookies and i just couldn't resist.

Congrats to patwi, though, and take the advice already offered by others. I'm not feeling profound enough. I can offer cookies, though...

Edited to add: On, and softness is right. Our accessories really are fabulous.

~kitten~

< Message edited by kittengirl8 -- 1/27/2008 7:28:49 AM >

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RE: OK..I admit it. - 1/27/2008 8:17:30 AM   
Justme696


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quote:

ORIGINAL: patwi

Thank you all for the words. :) My personal life is somethign of a mess right now, so it's rather nice to have something be resolved, rather than fall apart.


YEs a good start. It is eassier to solve other problems when you feel ok about yourself


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RE: OK..I admit it. - 1/27/2008 9:03:53 AM   
domahpet


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Status: offline 		~~~And I can almost bet in the next five years you'll go through at least two more periods of serious internal struggle to decide if that term fits you, if your definition of the term still applies to you and where you see yourself going.
But that's good- that means growth.~~~

Congrats! Now, listen to LA because its soooo true

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RE: OK..I admit it. - 1/27/2008 9:14:43 AM   
fullofgrace69


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kittengirl8

My bad fullofgrace... someone put out the cookies and i just couldn't resist.

Congrats to patwi, though, and take the advice already offered by others. I'm not feeling profound enough. I can offer cookies, though...

Edited to add: On, and softness is right. Our accessories really are fabulous.

~kitten~



takes all the cookies ta very much :)

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