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Sirsinini -> RE: The Characteristics of being "property" (1/27/2008 3:57:31 PM)
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Let me begin my addition to this thread, by admitting 3 things ~~
1. While I was with a dom who didnt call me property, I felt (from about the 5th month on in our "relationship") much like your response to Lashra CP ~~ "can you further question that sub as to her feelings if she were set aside like an old car, there but no attention paid!" ~~ something used, abused,and then paid no attention to.
He called me slave. I felt imprisioned and nearly died in that shame.
2. I did not want a man who would capture my mind and then my body only to be put in the same position. So as your profile indicates CP, I took much longer healing, which consisted of screaming my bitter misery, denying my pain and the truth, until finally I took my place in the course of things and found myself. (Much thanks to my sister and therapist.)
I took my time getting to know him, as I seemed to have a tendency to drop into situations. If I were to be in relationship again.... I wanted and needed a man
who could find characteristics in me and I in him ~~~~~~~~~~~~
Characteristic = A feature that helps to identify, tell apart, or describe recognizably; a distinguishing mark or trait. (Elaboration would greatly lengthen this post!)
Property =
1. a. Something owned; a possession.
b. A piece of real estate: NOT!!
c. Something tangible or intangible to which its owner has legal title: NOT !! but maybe eventually
d. Possessions considered as a group. NOT !! No poly or swinging as I knew it.
2. The right of ownership; title.
3. An article, except costumes and scenery, that appears on the stage or on screen during a dramatic performance. NOT !! My life is not a play/drama or theater
4. a. A characteristic trait or peculiarity, especially one serving to define or describe its possessor. Submissive
b. A characteristic attribute possessed by all members of a class. See Synonyms at quality.
5. A special capability or power; a virtue
Qualities =
1. a. An inherent or distinguishing characteristic; a property.
b. A personal trait, especially a character trait: submissive
2. Essential character; nature: He finds many in me that please him.
3. a. Superiority of kind: an intellect of unquestioned quality.
b. Degree or grade of excellence: He tells me I am an excellent submissive
4. a. High social position. not ! lol
b. Those in a high social position I am high in his social agenda.
3. I had no need to identify myself as other subs/slaves need to or to be given a name that I felt did not equal who I know I am.
Sir and I have both struggled in the relationships arena, and if I were to say that being his has been a bowl of black raspberry custard, I would be knowlingly lying.
That being said, I dont give a flying leep if people question me if I have "a high level of conscienceness or is it a growing fashion on the path be refer to the relationship as property?" Fashionable is not what I, nor my Sir is about. I will admit to a higher level of concienceness about who and what I am.
I am Sirs devoted property. I am wanted and fully aware that I am his ONLY want.
He desires me and only me to satisfy his needs. I am his prized precious possession, words I have been assured of more than I ever was before. I am his submissive. When reading blogs of others, I seem to fall into their category of "slave", but I am his property. Nothing more nothing less.
When his cat gets cold and lonely without him, he could care less. He cares of those needs in me. When his sofa gets damaged, it is not his couch that worries him, it is me. When his oak table shines to a wonderful gleen, he doesnt find it nearly as supurb as myself.
I do as he requests, whether it be to rest, go home from work before the snow slows me down, bend over or wait for his bidding for my desire to swallow his cock, his control/my submission are the elements that make us D/s.
He knows his property so well that he could not use me to entertain his friends with their shabby use of me. We are exhibitonists and to that end we have some private fun. Others have requested use of me, they have not met his requirements.
There are requests I am allowed to make and he weighs them heavily for periods of time, I am submissive to his control.
The owner and the property are both loyal, committed, open with each other, honest, mindful, trustworthy, faithful and unlike any man before, a promise does not escape his lips if there is chance for take back.
I am his secluded "cabin" property to which he finds his rest, satisfaction and enjoyment. He is my owner, who knows where his property is at all times and knows that the door to his property is open to only himself.
He is a serious owner, mindful of how he keeps his property. I am his devoted property who takes the control of her owner seriously.
When responding to any public message, I am Sir's _____ property. I am allowed to use the adjective.
Sir's totally devoted proudly owned property
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