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slave rights vs subs 2 - 1/27/2008 3:57:46 PM

selena123

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for those of you who read the first slave rights I will clarify.1 I posted my own answer just for kicks it's my first time on the site. 2 the women who call are calling regarding dating him, either past or hoping to be future dates, he flirts to pass the time away when bored 3. His slave contract says he is not allowed to do this. Since I discovered he was breaking that rule I started checking the phone and he agreed to that until he was going to be caught again. 4. he is supposed to date no one but me.
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RE: slave rights vs subs 2 - 1/27/2008 4:01:22 PM

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If he is bored, sounds like he needs more work to do.

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RE: slave rights vs subs 2 - 1/27/2008 4:01:44 PM

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Then I would suggest you have some house cleaning to do.

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RE: slave rights vs subs 2 - 1/27/2008 4:04:15 PM

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Why is this thread "part 2"? This thread will make no sense to anyone who didn't see the original thread question.

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RE: slave rights vs subs 2 - 1/27/2008 4:09:53 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: selena123

for those of you who read the first slave rights I will clarify.1 I posted my own answer just for kicks it's my first time on the site. 2 the women who call are calling regarding dating him, either past or hoping to be future dates, he flirts to pass the time away when bored 3. His slave contract says he is not allowed to do this. Since I discovered he was breaking that rule I started checking the phone and he agreed to that until he was going to be caught again. 4. he is supposed to date no one but me.
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It's clear who is the slave in the relationship

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RE: slave rights vs subs 2 - 1/27/2008 4:26:28 PM

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I TOTALLY concur Irish.

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RE: slave rights vs subs 2 - 1/27/2008 4:30:33 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: IrishMist

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ORIGINAL: selena123

for those of you who read the first slave rights I will clarify.1 I posted my own answer just for kicks it's my first time on the site. 2 the women who call are calling regarding dating him, either past or hoping to be future dates, he flirts to pass the time away when bored 3. His slave contract says he is not allowed to do this. Since I discovered he was breaking that rule I started checking the phone and he agreed to that until he was going to be caught again. 4. he is supposed to date no one but me.
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It's clear who is the slave in the relationship

Agreed....and further more what the "slave" is doing to me would be considered cheating and would be a deal breaker.

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RE: slave rights vs subs 2 - 1/27/2008 4:50:08 PM

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Maybe she doesn't realize that you can delete the record of certain incoming, outgoing, and missed calls. Not all of them, that would be too suspicious, but just the ones he doesn't want her to know about. If she really wants to know, she should get a detailed bill on his account or log into his account online every day.

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RE: slave rights vs subs 2 - 1/27/2008 4:59:36 PM

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Sounds like issues of commitment- your issue has nothing to do with flirting with other girls, and all about making commitments they honestly want to hold to.

I'll also add that this isn't necessarily an Ms issue. I can and do ask for my partners cellphone all the time, to look up a number or check something else on his phone. There's no problem at all. He can and does do the same on mine. We're not Ms with eachother.

"lack of privacy" isn't some great sign of slavery, it's just one piece that some people enjoy and some don't. When I talked to my partner on the phone in front of my sister she said "Jeez, you're like a stalker, why don't you ask about his bathroom schedule?" and I replied "Well I already know that." and she was minorly disgusted while my partner and I laughed- it's just something we share and know about eachother. My manner of thinking is why WOULDN'T you want to know about that when it's someone you love and live with?

So again, this issue has nothing to do with Ms, or even really privacy or rights- it's about working together in a cohesive relationship with everyone working towards the security and betterment of the commitment involved.

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RE: slave rights vs subs 2 - 1/27/2008 7:26:44 PM

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Sounds to me that this guy is playing you and your letting him. Ask him this question Do you want to keep that collar around your neck? If so, you do what I say otherwise hit the road...Why would you want to waste your time on someone who obviously doesn't want to live up to your expectations?

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RE: slave rights vs subs 2 - 1/27/2008 7:35:14 PM

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i third the nomination of more housework, or give him a rubiks cube or one of those 3-D puzzles, those take a while.

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