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RE: Best way to give/administer oral sex (for everybody) - 2/1/2008 1:52:53 AM

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ORIGINAL: subtee

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I tease the insides of her thighs with my tongue, lips, teeth, hands. My mouth moves up to the pussy, at first concentrating on the lips, nibbling licking, eventually my tongue finds the clit where it will stay close too for quite a while. I go between licking, and biting, based on reaction. I use 1-3 fingers to massage the G-spot, depending on the person. My free hand will explore the body to find places that bring better reactions.

After having cu--come back and thoroughly read this, oh, around 30 or 50 times, I would say that you are ~cough~ spot on...

(anyone have a wet nap?)

*passes subtee a wet nap*

I am glad that you enjoyed my discription, I am always open for a hands on demonstration.

*grumbles something about one more hot sub halfway across the country...*

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RE: Best way to give/administer oral sex (for everybody) - 2/1/2008 6:57:04 AM

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...I usually end up climaxing when she does.. so both of us end up collapsing in a tangle.

I love giving oral, using all the above techniques and more. I'm very interested to know, though, based on your quote above: how do women feel when, after having a man give them great oral and reaching a nice orgasm (the woman, that is), does it feel UNcomfortable when the man says "I'm really fine just as I am!"? In other words, does stopping at that point feel not quite right to you?

I ask this because I find this practice to be immensely satisfying. But I also have sensed that at times it makes my female partner feel somehow uncomfortable, like there is this obligation to give me a blow job or fuck me... neither of which are at the top of my list at that particular moment.

It's a lot about the energy play (talked about at length in another thread)

I'd love to hear views on this, esp. from women who receive oral.

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RE: Best way to give/administer oral sex (for everybody) - 2/1/2008 10:53:13 AM

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If they are fine I am fine.... I have not read the energy thread as of yet (memo to me) but as women a lot of us are "givers" so we think it is impolite~ or a score card some where will get ticked off under the box of us being bad if we do not reciprocate. Some of us are just damn horny and do not wish to stop there. *shrugs*

I believe in a nice break or nap if a lot of energy has been exchanged, and then onto round ( what round are we on? 12, 23? )

usualy after oral sex ( for either of us) we need a break of some sort. *smiles*

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RE: Best way to give/administer oral sex (for everybody) - 2/1/2008 10:59:16 AM

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the best way to give oral? whatever ends with mutual satisfaction, total exhaustion and that big smile afterwards. usually performed beginning slowly and increasing in speed until it ends in a big sweaty heap of gasping and quivering bodies. adjust to suit your own preferred techniques and enjoy.

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RE: Best way to give/administer oral sex (for everybody) - 2/1/2008 11:03:05 AM

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Thanks!

always good to switch it up depending on what each partner needs. *smiles*

Sorry it was a rough week Prinsexx...

and Suessub I completely agree....

My spot is One o'clock ( if you are looking at it dead on) hit that, and I hit a high note. My Girl's spot is Six o'clock... go fig. We are all different.

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RE: Best way to give/administer oral sex (for everybody) - 2/1/2008 11:22:49 AM

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Gwyn spoke of the pleasures of shaft, and Sammie spoke up for attention to the balls. Great stuff, all.

So limited...one of my play partners loves having his balls tormented just that tiny bit...micro-slaps with the tips of fingers, even flogging with the lightest of his tickleweight braided leather toys (I usually shorten up on the falls when we're really going). And there is so much more to the shaft than what actually sticks out! All of the shaft loves attention, from the root between the hip joints, beneath the balls, and all the way up to where it actually protrudes from flesh. And those bits are so often ignored by the uneducated (or unadventurous).

Another partner adores face-sitting, and women are not the only ones who can enjoy having hair stroked on sensitive skin. He'll warm me up and take my mind to naughty places, and then I think of things to do with and to him....

...sigh...and I usually need to wash my hair later, to get the ejaculate out...

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RE: Best way to give/administer oral sex (for everybody) - 2/1/2008 11:42:21 AM

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I love giving oral, using all the above techniques and more. I'm very interested to know, though, based on your quote above: how do women feel when, after having a man give them great oral and reaching a nice orgasm (the woman, that is), does it feel UNcomfortable when the man says "I'm really fine just as I am!"? In other words, does stopping at that point feel not quite right to you?

I ask this because I find this practice to be immensely satisfying. But I also have sensed that at times it makes my female partner feel somehow uncomfortable, like there is this obligation to give me a blow job or fuck me... neither of which are at the top of my list at that particular moment.

It's a lot about the energy play (talked about at length in another thread)

I'd love to hear views on this, esp. from women who receive oral.

With a partner who enjoys giving oral and everything that goes with it? When he's got that big foolish grin of success on his face? I concentrate on breathing, and making my mind and my voice produce anything more than additional giggles and aftershock shudders. vtviceversa, you have the center of the issue in your crosshairs...if the energy exchange was satisfying to both partners, then there is no obligation. It ain't all a one-way street!

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RE: Best way to give/administer oral sex (for everybody) - 2/1/2008 11:52:32 AM

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Gwyn,

afine post especially your comment about just an accommodation.

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RE: Best way to give/administer oral sex (for everybody) - 2/1/2008 9:39:36 PM

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I do it all with a cock. I love cock.
I love to take it all down my throat and swallow hard... shoving it all the way in and trying to swallow more...
gawd. I want one! sux being single... (no pun intended)

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RE: Best way to give/administer oral sex (for everybody) - 2/2/2008 2:39:22 PM

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ORIGINAL: creatrix

I do it all with a cock. I love cock.
I love to take it all down my throat and swallow hard... shoving it all the way in and trying to swallow more...
gawd. I want one! sux being single... (no pun intended)

I bet alot of people looked at your profile after you posted that...

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