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RE: Dressing the Dominant - 1/28/2008 2:12:14 PM

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Yes I do indeed enjoy doing this for my Master. He requires it when we are together, and its my pleasure to do it. I don't actually put His clothing on Him per se....however, I do put His socks and shoes on Him and take them off as well...I ADORE being at His feet ...and this is one more reason I get to do that.
p.s. I also wash Him head to toe in the shower every morning when we are together...Its FUCKIN AWESOME!!!

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RE: Dressing the Dominant - 1/28/2008 3:13:32 PM

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A service orientated mindset is the correct one.

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RE: Dressing the Dominant - 1/28/2008 3:16:49 PM

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My Masters idea of putting His socks and shoes on, is sticking out His foot. :)

One of my daily tasks is to set out Masters clothes. i set them in the same place every time, not only do i put His clothes out, i also put out His pocket knife, His belt, His watch, ipod, and laptop.

One of my other daily tasks besides bathing Him, is to have His night clothes out and ready for Him when He gets out of the shower.

These things you talk about are not foriegn to me, and i can't imagine not doing them. a service orientated slave can make a Masters day alot smoother.

As long as you look at these things as a labor of love, they never seem like a chore, infact i have come to love ironing His shirts.

Many years ago, i would have put my nose in the air to the idea of having to iron a shirt, and said "that's what maids are for", :)

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RE: Dressing the Dominant - 1/28/2008 3:25:26 PM

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I think it is easier to find female submissives to do this than male submissives and yes I will get flamed for the generalization ... but my experience is that fewer males have the training or patience for this meticulous service.

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RE: Dressing the Dominant - 1/28/2008 3:42:04 PM

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ORIGINAL: MissHarlet

I think it is easier to find female submissives to do this than male submissives and yes I will get flamed for the generalization ... but my experience is that fewer males have the training or patience for this meticulous service.

i think you are probably right, but if one wants to be in service and that is what their D wants then it really isn't their place to lack patience, it is service like any other (which is not, or should not be limited to those which the s feels they want to do), so even tho i see your point, i think gender need not apply.

When it comes to my own things i am far from meticulous with them. my drawers, closet and dressing area are the last thing i take the time with. If i fold the laundry, i pay much more attention to his things, his closet etc. When i pack my things to go somewhere they will start out having been done carfeully, but that will change because i just don't take quite the time or effort for myself.

my point is, basically, it is about him, what i do for myself as a woman is far less than what i do/ would do for him. If i had my own place it would be picked up when i felt the need but it wouldn't be cared for as much....It is all about serving him and trying to do it the best for him. In taking care of the place, even in the things that he could care less about, it becomes caring for that which he has made possible in a way that shows my gratitude.

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RE: Dressing the Dominant - 1/28/2008 3:49:47 PM

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A service orientated mindset is the correct one.

"Rolls eyes". Correct for YOU, not for others. If you are going to preach onetruewayism, please use spell check.

It is oriented, not orientated.

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RE: Dressing the Dominant - 1/28/2008 4:14:22 PM

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Generally it's more a service I provide to them in helping pick out their wardrobe, more than a control they have over me. I have far more clothes and much better sense of style and fashion than most so it's just a lot more practical for me to do it myself and help others.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_1300897/mpage_1/key_clothing/tm.htm#1301759
clothing selection

http://www.collarchat.com/m_87660/mpage_1/key_wear/tm.htm#87660
Clothing Chosen

http://www.collarchat.com/m_132182/mpage_1/key_wear/tm.htm#132182
Attire

http://www.collarchat.com/m_509500/mpage_1/key_clothing/tm.htm#509610
clothing choices for your sub

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RE: Dressing the Dominant - 1/28/2008 4:16:28 PM

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Dear kyraofMists, Ladies and Gentlemen;

I do enjoy the services that are often associated with a valet. In the 'spirit' of service, it has been often a case where my slaves have selected clothing for the parties to which the invitations have been specific as to the level of dressing, e.g. white tie, black tie, formal, etc.
I will also add, one of my slaves was a Aide-de-Camp to a military General, where he often worked with the General's personal valet. He learned much from the Sergeant Major who was the valet to the General and we have taken full advantage of such.

Lengthy parties and formal dinners, there might be a need for a spare change of clothing. The first choice attire, my slave added a second set of clothing, should one be soiled. The same for shoes, so should a heel fail, a second set of high heels would be ready as a spare. Gloves, were packed two sets to each suitcase. Undergarments, hose and garter belts were also in the spare attire case; as well as spare jewelery. So, if I had a run in my silk stocking, I could have it replaced in quick order. I lost an earring when the back popped off--so my slave got the spare set and went on. Gloves for me soil easily, especially if they are bright white. So, my gloves in this color are given extra spares--especially if in a receiving line, dinner and theater.
My slave has also packed complimenting tops, should sleeve lengths be an issue as it relates to my comfort.

I really do miss this type of service.

Just some thoughts.

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RE: Dressing the Dominant - 1/28/2008 6:17:09 PM

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ORIGINAL: MissHarlet

I think it is easier to find female submissives to do this than male submissives and yes I will get flamed for the generalization ... but my experience is that fewer males have the training or patience for this meticulous service.

Not only that...but we really do suck at ironing. My mom tried to instil in me the skills to iron a dress shirt before I went to college. No go. I still can't for the life of me iron a shirt and NOT iron in more wrinkles. I'm not saying women are meant to do household chores but do you females have a gene that makes ironing easier? lol.

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RE: Dressing the Dominant - 1/29/2008 5:24:00 PM

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I help with the lacing of boots, doing up clothes, but not choosing them, Which is probably a very good thing :) I have bad taste lol, I'm eiether in a uniform for work or jeans and a t-shirt. I'm very lucky that I am with people who do have good taste :) and help me pick out clothes. I seriously need to go clothes shopping tho, I've lost thirty pounds in the last four months so my pants are looking even worse than before, baggy-butt jeans, just not sexy :) lol

I do enjoy helping both of them get dressed, there is something very meaningful about it. Rob will ask my opinion on clothes but he agree's with them when it comes to my taste

I like doing laundry, it's a weird thing I know but I do, I just have to work on the whole putting it away once it's folded and put in the basket.

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RE: Dressing the Dominant - 1/30/2008 8:21:05 AM

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i enjoy all forms of service doesn't really matter what it is, He could have me cleaning the bathroom and i would still love it.
No i'm not kidding either.

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RE: Dressing the Dominant - 1/30/2008 5:55:47 PM

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i didn't dress him per se during his visit here however i did pick out clothes (and wedding suit tux) for my SO

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RE: Dressing the Dominant - 2/10/2008 12:23:58 PM

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been dressing myself for years.. and when I am comfortable in what I wear.. people seem to recieve me well.. however, ever peroson and every situation has it's own fit for the occassion.

I've always appreciated a woman that could pick a tie for me, etc., and I don't tend to keep up with the current styles. My last submissive on occassion helped guide me through some clothes selections.. as a birthday present. This pleased me becuase she had excellent taste. If she said this looked good...then I knew without a doubt that she was correct. Then again, I had complete faith in her. It amazed me how at my age.. I had come to despise the concept of even picking out a pair of sunglasses without her opinion. I simly grab a few pairs try them on and settle for the ones that look least ridiculous. When she was a part of that.. she dissected and analyzed the process.." you need some that don't have a sharp corner to fit your face.. polarized makes a difference on the water... "... " black and white shirts look good against your face"...In the end.. all that mattered is, despite anyone elses opinion.. she was proud to be on my arm.

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