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juliaoceania -> RE: Submissive Mistress (1/29/2008 10:08:24 PM)
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ORIGINAL: DoctorYale
There appears to be so much vitrol directed toward married men looking for a submissive, that I have been forced to consider the notion that American woman are relatively unsophisticated in their appreciation for enjoying the role of a submissive mistress to a married man. This is quite acceptable in other societies, both European and Asian. Therefore, I am left to ponder the fact that while submissives proudly proclaim they are not bound by conventional sexual mores, they are still constrained by conventional patters of relationships. Those seeking a 24/7 relationship or a LTR seem, at least to me, to be wanting a marriage although calling it by a different name. Where are there truly open minded, sexual and sensual American woman who would proudly serve as their Dom's mistress ?
I read most of this thread, and I have to say that I do not know where you get the idea that because women are kinky and like to give up control over our lives to our significant other that we have no designs on living a traditional sort of life that is similar in some ways to vanilla counterparts. Yes, I want to be married again one day. Yes, the longer I am with my Daddy, I sometimes think about it being him that I do marry.
There have been many others that have stated why they would not want to be with a married man. I do not understand your hostility and disrespect of those who want a different existence than you can offer. I do not understand why you need to put down women that do not want to be a party to wrecking your home, hurting your wife, altering the life of your wee ones. I can only express the deepest pity for not only your wife, but any woman that would be unfortunate enough to become your submissive. You have very little respect for women overall, and you basically show a lack of respect for yourself in the way you choose to live your life.
I have a very good friend that is cheating on her husband with her dominant lover. I feel badly for her situation. I have never heard her express the things that you have..she hates that her life is inauthentic. What you are stating is that if we are unwilling to live inauthentically with you, then we are unsophisticated rubes. Perhaps I am unsophisticated, I am from a small town. I was produced from a traditional sort of family. i was taught cheating was a bad thing.
I am also a scholar, I am also on the short list to get into one of the most prestigious universities on the West Coast to study anthropology in their graduate program. Why should a woman like me (unsophisticated or not) settle for less than my emotional, intellectual, and ethical equal?
I didn't settle for anything less than what I deserve... and I have it. And he isn't hiding me from his wife.
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