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GreedyTop -> RE: Your physical appearance (1/30/2008 9:51:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia quote: ORIGINAL: InkedMaster eyesopened says she loves my appearance, personally I think she loves my incredibly huge tool and Harley, okay the Harley, I'm hung more like a can of cat food...short but wide! If it's not too much trubble, I think we ladies would like to see some proof[:D] I'd like to second that ;)

breatheasone -> RE: Your physical appearance (1/30/2008 9:52:02 PM)
quote: So if you find someone who truly loves you, you will be beautiful to them. I thought that too...I truly did...thats why it was so hurtful to hear "I love you, I'm just not physically attracted to you any more" especially after SO many years and having kids and now grandkids ....Heres the thing I have learned since I have read all the responses to this thread.... I do not get my self worth from what ANYONE else thinks of me...PERIOD and I can't thank everyone enough for helping me to see something that SHOULD have been painfully obvious

GreedyTop -> RE: Your physical appearance (1/30/2008 9:53:48 PM)
biggest hugs breathes :) Good for you :)

Feric -> RE: Your physical appearance (1/30/2008 10:23:59 PM)
It would bother me, especially if they had told me in the beginning that they liked how I looked. Then I would know they had been lying to me; the trust in the relationship would be gone, and without trust, it's over.

MissMagnolia -> RE: Your physical appearance (1/30/2008 10:59:23 PM)
breathasone, you have grown kids and grandkids???? Fark, you're the sexiest granny I've seen in a long while!!!!

breatheasone -> RE: Your physical appearance (1/30/2008 11:06:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia breathasone, you have grown kids and grandkids???? Fark, you're the sexiest granny I've seen in a long while!!!! BLUSHING hard.......omg...that just made my decade!...LOL and yes...my kids are 26, 23, and 22...and grandkids 6 years, the other 7 months. btw....being a Grandma is the single GREATEST joy I have EVER known....EVER......(my Masters love is a very close second! LOL)

MissMagnolia -> RE: Your physical appearance (1/30/2008 11:08:42 PM)
How did you manage that? Did you get married when you were three?

breatheasone -> RE: Your physical appearance (1/30/2008 11:17:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia How did you manage that? Did you get married when you were three? LMAO...hardly....I was 20 for a WHOLE ten days when I got married...I had my 1st child out of wedlock(whore that I was LOL) she was 2 when I married bill. He adopted her before she started kindergarten. I had my other two kids by the time i was 22..all by c- section. Its funny...my kids were almost "freaks" in high school....they were part of just a hand full of kids whose parents were still married to each other.....One of their friends even commented..."Wow, you mean you *ALL* have the same last name?" ....its kinda sad though.

eyesopened -> RE: Your physical appearance (1/31/2008 1:32:43 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop quote: ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia quote: ORIGINAL: InkedMaster eyesopened says she loves my appearance, personally I think she loves my incredibly huge tool and Harley, okay the Harley, I'm hung more like a can of cat food...short but wide! If it's not too much trubble, I think we ladies would like to see some proof[:D] I'd like to second that ;) Um..... the only resemblence to cat food....take it out and i'm on all fours rubbing my face on His legs and purring! Or was that too much information?

Aynne -> RE: Your physical appearance (1/31/2008 6:46:07 AM)
I agree, I want my partner to feel a physical attraction as intense as the emotional one. It would bother me greatly if my love did not find me beautiful, at least to him.

Justme696 -> RE: Your physical appearance (1/31/2008 6:50:36 AM)
For some reason when I like the persons thoughts and emotions...I never find them ugly....

lateralist1 -> RE: Your physical appearance (1/31/2008 9:30:09 AM)
Just a thought but do you think your husband could possibly be acting towards you as he thinks a Dom treats a submissive? Vanilla people can get funny ideas about the dynamic.

faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Your physical appearance (1/31/2008 9:47:07 AM)
how can anyone not like how i look? im hot [sm=mrpuffy.gif][sm=banana.gif]

gorgeous1 -> RE: Your physical appearance (1/31/2008 10:08:07 AM)
Physical appearance is important. I was/am physically attracted to my husband, and he feels the same towards me. Neither of us have bodies as hot as they were when we first met- I've had two children, and he's not as lean, but still a mean Marine! You know what though? It doesn't matter. When I look at my husband, my attraction to him is still locked into that first time I laid eyes on him in that tight black shirt with his gorgeous biceps and those tatoos. He wears glasses- I remember the first time he took them off and I stared into his huge brown eyes fringed with the most insanely thick eyelashes. It's like my physical lust for his body is frozen in time, and I don't see a man who is a little worse for the wear- I still see that fricken hot Marine! I know my body isn't as tight as it was- breastfeeding two babies will help speed up gravity, that's for sure, but even though I don't feel my body is as hot as it was, I actually FEEL sexier and more attractive today than I did 11 years ago. I know I still have the power to seduce my husband and make him forget his name.

HizBabyGirl -> RE: Your physical appearance (1/31/2008 10:15:53 AM)
And sadly that is more often the norm than not. I have a friend in the lifestyle (I still hate that terminology but anyway) he and his wife had been married in a d/s relationship for several years. She is a diabetic and somehow contracted flesh eating bacteria disease while giving herself an injection and the result of the whole thing, after nearly dying and being in a coma for a long time and several surgeries (and more to come) she is basically an invalid for the rest of her life and 3 years later she still has an open wound in her stomach the size of a large grapefruit so that needs extra care due to infection risk. Their lives were turned upside down but he is still madly in love with her and would never think of hurting her or leaving her. He works at his job all day to come home and care for her. NOW THATS A DOM!

gorgeous1 -> RE: Your physical appearance (1/31/2008 10:34:00 AM)
Wow, what a terrible thing to happen to them, but what a testimony to the power of love and how true love and working to keep it is what binds people forever. My husband and I have been married for almost ten years, and I would say about five of those were rocky as far as sex, because when I was pregnant with our first child, I was so sick and in and out of the hospital, and it took almost two years to recover from the pregnancy- it really screwed up my health and hormones. Then we had a few great years of sex, and then I got pregnant again. The second pregnancy destroyed my pelvic floor and bladder. I had to have two reconstructive surgeries. Even though physically I was capable of sex, I didn't want to because I was so emotionally devastated and I didn't feel like a whole woman. I didn't want to have sex, I didn't want him to look at me. He was lucky to have sex about every eight weeks, and when we did, it was fast and not fun. Looking back, I don't know how he managed it, or how awful it must have been for him, but he never made me feel bad or guilty about it- he just continued to love me. Fortunately, my surgeries were successful, and I feel great now- my gynecologist fixed me up and it's like I never had babies- pretty awesome! My sex drive is back and life is great now, but that could all change in a heartbeat. One of us could get sick or be in a terrible accident, so we cherish each day. If something were to happen to him, I'd still be there, no matter what. Our physical health is a gift that none of us should take for granted.

Aereci -> RE: Your physical appearance (1/31/2008 1:03:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 quote: ORIGINAL: Aereci I would not mind a bit if they did not find me attractive at first. However, I would feel greatly insulted if they could not come to gradually appreciate my appearance. I understand that personality is far more important, but it is true that partners should find more beauty in each others' looks the closer they become. If they did not find me attractive I would feel that I had let them down emotionally. uh...sorry, but anyone who did not find you attractive must have a seeing eye dog! Thank you very much!

xxblushesxx -> RE: Your physical appearance (1/31/2008 1:05:29 PM)
So beautiful, and so sad... Thank you for sharing that. ~Christina

subtee -> RE: Your physical appearance (1/31/2008 1:17:23 PM)
Okay but let's face it...things are going (literally) downhill pretty fast... Have you ever seen those anniversary posts in the newspaper where they show the pic of the wedding day and then the current one of their cajillionth anniversary? And you look at the current one and think, "Holy disfigurement, Batman, you can hardly see the original people in there." You think to yourself that it must have been a car accident or something, but you look at the next couple and it's the same thing... They look like they've been quadrupled in size but then sucked back down like a stretched out balloon, and then the women have all the same bluish short hairstyle and the men all have huge noses and ears with hair coming out of them... oh.my.god.

MidMichCowboy -> RE: Your physical appearance (1/31/2008 6:39:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl how can anyone not like how i look? im hot [sm=mrpuffy.gif][sm=banana.gif] I agree. I think you are gorgeous.

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