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RE: What brought you to this lifestyle? - 1/30/2008 4:17:54 PM   
trueshadow


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Status: offline 		This is easy.  I was born a slave to the Superior Woman.  Some of my earliest memories are of a desire to kneel at the feet of a Woman, submitting to her power, letting her take me, control me, order me, own me completely.

Beyond that, I don't know what else to say. 

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RE: What brought you to this lifestyle? - 1/30/2008 4:53:53 PM   
ThundersCry


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Status: offline 		If your one your one....you need not *look* it will *find* you....
 
I don`t, like some others have said live this *lifestyle*...
 
It made me a much better man...once I found out and looked inside of...me. Was not an easy process for me and its far from being over.
 
Good luck in and on your...journey.

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RE: What brought you to this lifestyle? - 1/30/2008 6:38:22 PM   
Mercnbeth


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Status: offline 		at the MD's office, discussing smoking cessation therapies, the Doc emphasized that there would have to be a change of Lifestyle.  He actually said the word "Lifestyle" an inordinate amount of times and it stuck in this slave's head...she was far past ready for a change of lifestyle, so she "googled" the word "Lifestyle" when she got home, exploring all manner of alternative lifestyles.  this BDSM one seemed like it would fit to a T.
 
it was all downhill from there.

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RE: What brought you to this lifestyle? - 1/31/2008 4:17:12 PM   
vampchick88


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Status: offline 		 I've nearly always had the ability of telling others what to do and trying to get my way! I've always been dark, demented, and love pain, torment, goth girl with a love for vampirism from childhood and a thirst for blood that can't be satisfied. Add living my life the way most never could have nightmares about and thats pretty much it. Ok in high school I was the weird girl who wanted more than just handcuffs, whips, and chains. The first guy who handed me a knife and said I could draw blood somone ended up running around his house screaming to "get that crazy, psychotic bitch away from me!" eh...some people just don't know what fun is.

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RE: What brought you to this lifestyle? - 1/31/2008 9:19:09 PM   
kittengirl8


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Status: offline 		Um, I was a very precocious girl at the beginning of puberty? One really must wonder how I managed to remain so day shy and innocent to this day.

Sure will on my parent's part, probably. ;)

Erm, in other words - the internet is my friend! What? Researching is ever so much fun. (And I had some very odd fantasies when I was younger. They've just become kinkier as I got some people to talk to. Hehe.)

As for the submissive role. Kind of fell on me when i was younger, i attached to it. Growing older, I just see all the things I need to work more at. My friend (well, we don't talk anymore) always thought I was more of a Domme though...

~kitten~

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RE: What brought you to this lifestyle? - 1/31/2008 9:25:43 PM   
PrizedPosession


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Status: offline 		i've always been kind of submissive, even when i was little i thought when i had a husband i was going to be all his.
Master introduced it to me after He was introduced to a Domme. Then i googled my ass off. i got onto this site because initially He was looking for a girl who was willing to train me for play but that fell through so i hang out on the forums all day and night.

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RE: What brought you to this lifestyle? - 2/1/2008 4:43:08 PM   
greenearth21


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Status: offline 		Just kinda walked into it (years before I was legal) , everything about my wants/desires/preferences made sense, got comfy and just...never left.

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RE: What brought you to this lifestyle? - 2/2/2008 2:12:02 AM   
girlygurl


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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

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ORIGINAL: IrishMist

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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

I'm kinky.

It's other people who have the catholic guilt that makes them have to justify it as a "lifestyle".

LOL, I don't think I can even claim Kinky...I am just fucked in the head


Ahem.....don't you mean fiddlefucked in the head?

I too don't do the life style thing......Like popeye I yam what I yam. I think "lifestyle" is supposed to make people feel special. Either you are or you aren't, it has nothing to do with your........lifestyle

Jeff


Weeeeee Jeff said fiddlefuck

OP~ I think I understand your question, but I'm with Jeff, I am who I am. It wasn't until I met my Sir that I discovered the world of bdsm... what I mean by that is, I was clueless that there were many others that enjoyed the things I did... um, yea, I was a bit naive. I had no idea that my deepest and "darkest" fantasies were not so crazy after all

girly

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RE: What brought you to this lifestyle? - 2/2/2008 4:27:32 AM   
forevertheirs


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Status: offline 		I was always attracted to strong, older men.I think this is what I had been looking for in all of those relationship. I wanted a teacher, a leader, a dom but what I mostly got was a guy in a mid life crisis wanting to feel young. My first husband liked to play kinky and he would tie me to the bed and play dom but then he discovered that HE like being sub. The last few years of that marriage for me were spent dressing up in silly outfits and playing dom. It did NOTHING for me. My new husband and I have gone to a few clubs and met with couples and singles but that still didn't do it. I realize now that I want to be made to like it. I don't want to strut into a room full of people and choose my partner. I want to be taken into a room and told who or what I am going to do. I'm so happy that my husband finds that exciting to.

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RE: What brought you to this lifestyle? - 2/2/2008 5:05:15 AM   
sensiia


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Status: offline 		My first interaction with SM 25 years ago, quite by accident. Who knew it would take 20 years to finally taste it, now when I hear the swoosh and crack of a whip i get wet... *blush*

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RE: What brought you to this lifestyle? - 2/2/2008 8:30:59 AM   
TracyTaken


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Status: offline 		I wasn't really brought.  I had certain inclinations that popped up quite early in life.  I acted on them as best I could.  My marriage was very traditional when that was not at all cool.  We found out about kink the first time I booted up our first computer, and it kind of gave us permission to be what we really wanted to be and not what the current norms of society said we should be.

We've been through a lot of changes and hard times, but our "lifestyle" looks very similar to what it was when we first married.  We just have more toys now.     And we are less inhibited.

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RE: What brought you to this lifestyle? - 2/2/2008 9:06:41 AM   
slavekal


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Status: offline 		I was born like this.

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RE: What brought you to this lifestyle? - 2/2/2008 7:10:42 PM   
LPslittleclip


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Status: offline 		im fairly new to the lifestyle and i was introduced to it when i came back from the war by a couple of ladies who tied me up and spanked me. after that i just couldnt get enough and now im collared!

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RE: What brought you to this lifestyle? - 2/3/2008 2:02:05 AM   
Justme696


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Status: offline 		What brought you to this lifestyle?   luck


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