mystictryst
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"i was just wondering how did you know you were a sub/slave?"
I can only tell you I was a bossy, dominant kid who always ran the show... I ran my early relationships (wore the pants), however, I was raised by my grandmother who taught me to be a lady of the house... And I detested it. I hated having to be domesticated, tied to the house and home...
And after my first marriage ended, I took up BDSM on whim.. Sounded like a good thing to try while figuring out my future, and although I can be a brat, I realized that I really was very traditional in what I wanted (D/s) and I am great masochist.. :)
"and also what does being a sub/slave mean to you?"
I don't really know. It means that Master is in control, but I always have a say... It means that I make someone happy, and that makes me happy. It means I am no ones dormat. It means that I am always in control because I've opted to relinquish my control. I think it means something different to everyone.
"and what does it do for you and make you feel?"
It completes me. Making my Master happy, whether its servicing him or baking him cookies, I make him happy, and for me, a people pleaser, it brings me endless joy to know he is happy and content.
"and whats the best thing you like about being a sub/slave?"
That no matter what everyone says, the sub is always in control. I've the power to give and the power to take back. For me, being submissive is liberating and empowering.
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