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what does a Master try and take another one slave - 2/1/2008 12:50:49 AM

slavekitty44

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Why is it that when you are owned

It my belife a Dom, Domme or Master that is willing to take another Master or Dom, Domme, sub or slave away is wrong for doing that. But it is wrong for the slave or sub to even do that. What make a Dom, domme or Master think they can trust a slave or sub that is willing to leave one Dom, domme or Master for another Dom, domme or master you cant trust them. Because if they leave him for you, they will leave you for another Dom, domme or master that can offer them more . So you really need to be careful in trying to get another Dom, domme or master, slave or sub because it will came back at you. The word is "krama "people!

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RE: what does a Master try and take another one slave - 2/1/2008 1:53:57 AM

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I'm going to try and reply, but I have no idea what your saying. I'm going to take a guess at what the statement says.

"Don't try and swipe someone's SO away because karma will bite hard if you do"

Sound about right?

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RE: what does a Master try and take another one slave - 2/1/2008 3:07:35 AM

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People by nature will sometimes covet that which is owned by someone else.
People will sometimes look at others as a conquest to show THEIR supremacy over not only already owned slaves and submissives, but that they are stronger than that other Dominant / Master that owns said sub/slave. A trophy slave...more about the chase and conquest than all else. These are not really abiding by code to respect other people's property.
Thou shall not steal, but to woo away might be stretching it...
It's a power trip and are not thinking that far ahead and the consequences of their actions: KARMA
A good sub/slave will stay with her chosen...and a sub/slave that is willing to be wooed away or leave another really wasn't that Dominant's property to start with...sad but logical.
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RE: what does a Master try and take another one slave - 2/1/2008 5:21:59 AM

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Applies to any relationship. If someone easily leaves/cheats on one partner, they'll likely do it to the next partner.

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RE: what does a Master try and take another one slave - 2/1/2008 5:23:27 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CNJDom

Thou shall not steal, but to woo away might be stretching it...

"Thou shall not covet thy neighbors wife." Is probably the more appropriate in this case.

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RE: what does a Master try and take another one slave - 2/1/2008 5:32:19 AM

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Once a cheat always a cheat is also a pretty popular statement. No difference in this lifestyle or another, you find one relationship while already in another, and you are going to lok for another as ou move on. Anyone who doesnt mind being the "other" guy/girl/master deserves what they get for taking an obviously disolyal person away to be their own.

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RE: what does a Master try and take another one slave - 2/1/2008 5:32:38 AM

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I have seen my neighbors wife. I have put a big cross on the lawn and I hope it works on keeping her on her side of the property line.

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RE: what does a Master try and take another one slave - 2/1/2008 5:59:21 AM

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OMG, this is the third place I have read this same post
Its also in Ask a Mistress, and Ask a Submissive/slave

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RE: what does a Master try and take another one slave - 2/1/2008 6:00:26 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: slavekitty44
The word is "krama "people!

Yep. Krama is a bitch.

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RE: what does a Master try and take another one slave - 2/1/2008 6:05:54 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ItalianSMistress

OMG, this is the third place I have read this same post
Its also in Ask a Mistress, and Ask a Submissive/slave

They will get deleted. Cross-posting is a no no.

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RE: what does a Master try and take another one slave - 2/1/2008 7:09:12 AM

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kitty,

Your post really needs a rewrite!

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RE: what does a Master try and take another one slave - 2/1/2008 8:09:25 AM

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Yeah - three posts all the same and I am still trying to work out what this has to do with a scarf.

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RE: what does a Master try and take another one slave - 2/1/2008 8:11:16 AM

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Why.. it shows their lack of respect and gives others a better idea of who they really are.

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RE: what does a Master try and take another one slave - 2/1/2008 10:04:10 AM

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Just throwing in my opinion....

i don't think that because someone cheats easily on one person that they will cheat easily on another and i don't believe that once a cheat, always a cheat.

i think it all depends on the person and the relationship....i WAS a cheat, on ONE boyfriend....for a few reasons but ultimately it boiled down to i wasn't having my needs met, sexually or in many other ways....then i met my ex husband, one of the 2 people i cheated on my bf with....i spent almost 10 years with my exhusband and NEVER even CONSIDERED cheating ONCE..When i knew that relationship had run its course i let him know before i started dating...and then i started to date my Daddy, who has been the only person i have been with for almost 3 years (except for the couple of times that we have played with others and he has had me be with someone else)

i think this is something though that happens across the board in relationships.....but i just took some exception with the assumptions that i responded to above.

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RE: what does a Master try and take another one slave - 2/1/2008 10:12:10 AM

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The "once a cheat always a cheat" line is a tad puritanical to me.

I've cheated in my relationships. I've since learned that I cheated usually when the relationship wasn't fulfilling enough. When I felt the desire to cheat since that time, I accepted that the relationship wasn't working and moved on.

I don't covet other people's SOs. I certainly can appreciate an attractive married woman, but no part of me would want to own someone who is happily involved with someone else; it'd be like seeing someone who looks great in a fine coat, and thinking "I'd look just as good in that coat." In reality, I probably wouldn't.

Now, someone who is clearly unhappy in their relationship, to me, is fair game. I don't owe her SO any loyalty or respect simply by virtue of his ability to breath. If he and I are friends, that's a different matter of course. It then means I wouldn't pursue her out of respect for him; something that he's earned. If they eventually did split for reasons unrelated to me, then I'd consider it again; but we're dealing with a whole buncha 'what ifs' at this point. Either way, the underlying point is that the woman isn't actually property, until she becomes my property.

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RE: what does a Master try and take another one slave - 2/1/2008 10:13:31 AM

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Cheating comes from the rationalization that things can change and stay the same-at the same time.

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RE: what does a Master try and take another one slave - 2/1/2008 11:31:25 AM

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i'd say that anyone can pursue anyone else...

but if you're the one being pursued, you can decline the invite. repeatedly. i've had a few "you can do better than that" emails, and a few "once you two break up, email me!" ones too. but it doesnt matter what THEY do, its what *i* do that matters to Daddy.

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RE: what does a Master try and take another one slave - 2/1/2008 3:58:27 PM

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Forbidden fruit is always sweeter.

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RE: what does a Master try and take another one slave - 2/1/2008 4:06:49 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: slavekitty44
What make a Dom, domme or Master think they can trust a slave or sub that is willing to leave one Dom, domme or Master for another Dom, domme or master you cant trust them.

Some think they are special and it will never happen to them.
In a perfect world a ring on a finger would also mean something

quote:

ORIGINAL: slavekitty44
The word is "krama "people!

Close but no cigar.

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RE: what does a Master try and take another one slave - 2/1/2008 4:07:18 PM

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ORIGINAL: Stephann

Now, someone who is clearly unhappy in their relationship, to me, is fair game. I don't owe her SO any loyalty or respect simply by virtue of his ability to breath. If he and I are friends, that's a different matter of course. It then means I wouldn't pursue her out of respect for him; something that he's earned.

So why is it, when I try to say something like that, I come off as a bitch? Is it the lack of a Y chromosome?

If you don't want to be taken, no one can steal you away.

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