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RE: what does a Master try and take another one slave - 2/1/2008 4:14:55 PM

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They have the ego to think "I'm stong enough to keep her" and plenty of subs out there are more than willing to be "taken."

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RE: what does a Master try and take another one slave - 2/1/2008 7:54:29 PM

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Some doms think they can take any slave away from anyone else, because after all aren't they the most domly of doms?

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RE: what does a Master try and take another one slave - 2/1/2008 8:11:46 PM

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The "once a cheat always a cheat" line is a tad puritanical to me

Yeah and pure bullshit on top of that. It may often be true but isn't always the case.

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I've cheated in my relationships. I've since learned that I cheated usually when the relationship wasn't fulfilling enough. When I felt the desire to cheat since that time, I accepted that the relationship wasn't working and moved on

Ditto. I've said this in posts before and don't seem to get much agreement. I know exactly what you mean and couldn't agree more, Stephann. Just because I've chosen to "cheat" in prior relationships throughout my life does not mean I always will in every relationship from there on out. I CHOSE to stray, there wasn't some uncontrollable force that MADE me. The thought of doing that now is the furthest thing from my mind simply because, as you said, I am fulfilled now where I was not in former relationships where I was unfaithful.........luci

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RE: what does a Master try and take another one slave - 2/1/2008 10:48:44 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: slaveluci
I CHOSE to stray, there wasn't some uncontrollable force that MADE me. The thought of doing that now is the furthest thing from my mind simply because, as you said, I am fulfilled now where I was not in former relationships where I was unfaithful.........luci

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RE: what does a Master try and take another one slave - 2/2/2008 8:59:12 AM

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Have heard it said before what happens when a Master marries his mistress? Answer: He creates a vacancy!

Same applies to all :)

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RE: what does a Master try and take another one slave - 2/2/2008 9:30:28 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Stephann

The "once a cheat always a cheat" line is a tad puritanical to me.

I've cheated in my relationships. I've since learned that I cheated usually when the relationship wasn't fulfilling enough. When I felt the desire to cheat since that time, I accepted that the relationship wasn't working and moved on.

I don't covet other people's SOs. I certainly can appreciate an attractive married woman, but no part of me would want to own someone who is happily involved with someone else; it'd be like seeing someone who looks great in a fine coat, and thinking "I'd look just as good in that coat." In reality, I probably wouldn't.

Now, someone who is clearly unhappy in their relationship, to me, is fair game. I don't owe her SO any loyalty or respect simply by virtue of his ability to breath. If he and I are friends, that's a different matter of course. It then means I wouldn't pursue her out of respect for him; something that he's earned. If they eventually did split for reasons unrelated to me, then I'd consider it again; but we're dealing with a whole buncha 'what ifs' at this point. Either way, the underlying point is that the woman isn't actually property, until she becomes my property.

The only sanctity within a relationships is that which the people within ascribe.

Stephan

Exactly. Why is it we always focus on the one that "took" the person and not the person that was obviously unhappy in the relationship, had the obligation to leave gracefully and didn't and how the hell do you "take" a human being? Unless it's your relative or friend doing this, I wouldn't be giving the aggression away so readily to the third party but maybe considering why the person is leaving me or how I ended up with someone that didn't have the ability to discuss problems or leave before they cheated.

By the way, the word is "karma" and yes, eventually and hopefully karma comes home to roost.

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RE: what does a Master try and take another one slave - 2/2/2008 1:57:14 PM

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If you're talking email, it's because they didn't read your profile. They just saw female sub in a geographic location they could handle. I've been getting ones damned near daily lately saying "Hi", "Let's chat", and for a real long sentence "Where in NYC are you". Just delete and ignore. If they irritate you that much, block sender.

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RE: what does a Master try and take another one slave - 2/2/2008 2:02:40 PM

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ahhhhhh logic... such a useful thing, even in the land of 2 dimension.

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RE: what does a Master try and take another one slave - 2/2/2008 2:04:32 PM

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RE: what does a Master try and take another one slave - 2/3/2008 5:10:40 AM

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Is this the same question as "why do people cheat"? I personally have a simple philosophy on that - somebody wants to do that, it is their problem, not mine. I often see profiles that state "If you're married or in a relationship, don't contact me", etc., and I never understand why anybody should care. As long as the rules are clear, there is no issue. If somebody wants to take my sub away, and they can, that is a good thing, she would not have lasted. If I am interested in someone else's sub, and she will come to me (I've had that happen), she is making a very clear statement about where she wants to be. It is a big free-for-all, out there, and you just live the way you want. As long as there is honesty, I don't see the issue.

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