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Red Rose - 2/1/2008 8:28:29 AM   
submissfifi


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Status: offline 		Hi Everyone,

I was just wondering if anyone here can remember the story that surrounds presenting a dom/domme with a red rose as part of your submission. I'm having a mental block as to where I read it...and how it goes.

Apparently you present the rose at the feet of your dom/domme...and if they place it in their left shoulder (peruming they are wearing a jacket..) it means your under consideration...if they place it in on the right shoulder your not what they seek/desire.

I know its a bit vague but I'm sure its quite a famous/old story. Any links to it would be really helpful.

Thanks,

Submissfifi
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RE: Red Rose - 2/1/2008 8:29:12 AM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		It sounds Castle Realmish to me.  Just saying.

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RE: Red Rose - 2/1/2008 8:33:14 AM   
Jayxkes


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quote:

ORIGINAL: submissfifi

Hi Everyone,

I was just wondering if anyone here can remember the story that surrounds presenting a dom/domme with a red rose as part of your submission. I'm having a mental block as to where I read it...and how it goes.

Apparently you present the rose at the feet of your dom/domme...and if they place it in their left shoulder (peruming they are wearing a jacket..) it means your under consideration...if they place it in on the right shoulder your not what they seek/desire.

I know its a bit vague but I'm sure its quite a famous/old story. Any links to it would be really helpful.

Thanks,

Submissfifi


I've heard of  a few variations on this.  Th etrouble is, the sides change in some of them!!
Personally I prefer the good old talking type communication ;)

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RE: Red Rose - 2/1/2008 8:36:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		Sounds too complicated to me. I'm in favor of just asking and having them respond, that way you don't have to run to Google to figure out where you stand.

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RE: Red Rose - 2/1/2008 8:38:57 AM   
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Cermeony of the Roses


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RE: Red Rose - 2/1/2008 8:40:59 AM   
KatyLied


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RE: Red Rose - 2/1/2008 8:56:28 AM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		I see making it part of your collaring ceramony but if I have to bring him a rose to figure out how he feels about me... it's not going to work out. Just tell me or move on.

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RE: Red Rose - 2/1/2008 8:58:27 AM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		You don't like the roses, thorns, blood play, fire play, chain ceremony?  It's like they went crazy trying to fit a bunch of stuff into a ceremony.


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RE: Red Rose - 2/1/2008 9:04:49 AM   
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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

You don't like the roses, thorns, blood play, fire play, chain ceremony?  It's like they went crazy trying to fit a bunch of stuff into a ceremony.



If I ever found myself in the midst of a roses, thorns, bloodplay, fire play, chain ceremony I would be laughing much too hard to ever consummate the thing.

I must not be, errr... romantic?

< Message edited by lauren0221 -- 2/1/2008 9:05:32 AM >

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RE: Red Rose - 2/1/2008 9:05:26 AM   
Rover


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Status: offline 		Why not make up your own ceremony?  After all, all the stuff floating around the internet is just what other folks have made up.  It might as well be personal to you.
 
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RE: Red Rose - 2/1/2008 9:06:42 AM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		So would I.  I don't understand why so many trappings are necessary.  Instead of using that I'd rather do my own thing.  Heck the one time I was collared it wasn't even a ceremony.  I was bound and he put it on my neck.  But then we weren't the most traditional people you are likely to find.

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RE: Red Rose - 2/1/2008 9:06:47 AM   
thetammyjo


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quote:

ORIGINAL: submissfifi

Hi Everyone,

I was just wondering if anyone here can remember the story that surrounds presenting a dom/domme with a red rose as part of your submission. I'm having a mental block as to where I read it...and how it goes.

Apparently you present the rose at the feet of your dom/domme...and if they place it in their left shoulder (peruming they are wearing a jacket..) it means your under consideration...if they place it in on the right shoulder your not what they seek/desire.

I know its a bit vague but I'm sure its quite a famous/old story. Any links to it would be really helpful.

Thanks,

Submissfifi


Is that from a story as in fiction or a story as in a reported event?

If you can specify that maybe it will trigger more memories.


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RE: Red Rose - 2/1/2008 9:09:54 AM   
Aileen1968


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Not my cup of tea.  Unless he was gonna poke me with the thorns.

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RE: Red Rose - 2/1/2008 9:11:20 AM   
sexyred1


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they have an adorable vomit icon. I cannot find it though.

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RE: Red Rose - 2/1/2008 9:13:18 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		Mmmm Katy you are giving me Ideals.

AquaticSub thanks for the google tip. I will go there to see where I stand. Apperently  where X marks the spot isn't enough.

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RE: Red Rose - 2/1/2008 9:13:23 AM   
MissHarlet


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Status: offline 		Ritual can be beautiful .. but only if it means something to those involved ... if I have to look it up somewhere it obviously wouldnt mean much to me and I would probably screw it up and scar some submissive for life <wink> .....

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RE: Red Rose - 2/1/2008 9:16:29 AM   
sexyred1


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lauren0221

quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

You don't like the roses, thorns, blood play, fire play, chain ceremony?  It's like they went crazy trying to fit a bunch of stuff into a ceremony.



If I ever found myself in the midst of a roses, thorns, bloodplay, fire play, chain ceremony I would be laughing much too hard to ever consummate the thing.

I must not be, errr... romantic?


Roses, thorns, bloodplay, fire, chains? Typical day in the NYC corporate jungle.

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RE: Red Rose - 2/1/2008 9:34:17 AM   
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How about one of those?

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RE: Red Rose - 2/1/2008 9:35:43 AM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		those are ok, but .dark's was livelier!

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RE: Red Rose - 2/1/2008 9:44:59 AM   
daddyncherry


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Status: offline 		i'm with what Rover said, about making something up of your own...and i could never personally do the cermony of the roses because i absolutely DETEST those damn things and dont want them anywhere near me.....

Maybe...the ceremony of the Hibiscuses.....hmmmmm goes to write it up


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