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RE: Some insight,please - 2/2/2008 7:13:14 AM

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i now see the paddle that you're referring to.

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/2/2008 7:42:02 AM

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i am in Heaven when i see and feel how excited and happy my Owner is by owning me. i think he feels as fullfilled and content of owning me as i do about him owning me.

As a Dominant do You feel the same happiness, joy and contentment in owming your sub?slave.property?

Your questions always leave a sour taste in my mouth.

This is such a no-brainer. Of course I feel happy to have my boy, why wouldn't I? You act as though it is shocking to you that other Dominants can feel the same as your John.

Oh and congrats on your new paddle. Makes all those posts worth it, yes?

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Please feel free to ignore my questions anytime you'd like. i do believe that this question was offered to the Masters of this board. All of whom gave me nice, decent and respectful answers.

As far as a paddle. i have no idea what you are talking about. Do you have me confused with someone else, maybe?

Actually you said Dominant and to many people a Domme is also a "Master" and there are no guidelines here by the admins or mods that require certain people only to answer.

To answer the thread (even though the OP wouldn't deem me a "Master") on the D side, I don't go to the extent of referring to someone as "owned." However, that may be terminology without a distinction because I believe the same sentiments of having someone go out of their way to please you and be there for you and accept your guidance are certainly something I personally experience joy over.

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/2/2008 7:46:53 AM

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i do believe that this question was offered to the Masters of this board.

Anyone is allowed to respond to a thread. And also, you may want to note that she identifies as a dominant.

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/2/2008 8:42:55 AM

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Thank you for your imput,. but i do believe that this is ask a master not ask a dominant. If my questions make her sick as she puts it. Why bother answering? i don't forvce her to. So it makes no sense to me.

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/2/2008 8:45:39 AM

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Anyone can reply to anything i write, but if you tell me my questions make you sick. Why would you answer them and then complain about having to answer them.

If you know the reason and logic for that, please let me know.

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/2/2008 8:49:37 AM

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Take it at face value. She is trying to communicate to you exactly how she feels about what you post.

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/2/2008 8:53:21 AM

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Ok. So why does she go ahead and answer the question if it makes her sick. She should of just said her feelings and ended it there. i would of understood that.

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/2/2008 9:02:55 AM

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Ok. So why does she go ahead and answer the question if it makes her sick. She should of just said her feelings and ended it there. i would of understood that.

I'm not trying to be snarky at all, let it go, you're derailing your own thread here. Anyone can post in any section or on any thread, this debate is not new. Regardless of role, everyone can have valuable opinions on a subject. Sometimes the way we say things can make a big difference in how they are responded to. Try more neutral thread starters and see how it goes if you truly want to know the answer. Now back to the topic.......

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/2/2008 10:13:39 AM

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~~~Your questions always leave a sour taste in my mouth.

This is such a no-brainer. Of course I feel happy to have my boy, why wouldn't I? You act as though it is shocking to you that other Dominants can feel the same as your John.

Oh and congrats on your new paddle. Makes all those posts worth it, yes?

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Damn! i think i love you MoGa! will you be my message board mentor, pleassssssssse?

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/2/2008 10:34:54 AM

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ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

i am in Heaven when i see and feel how excited and happy my Owner is by owning me. i think he feels as fullfilled and content of owning me as i do about him owning me.

As a Dominant do You feel the same happiness, joy and contentment in owming your sub?slave.property?
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Thank you for your imput,. but i do believe that this is ask a master not ask a dominant.

Answering as a submissive...
If the answer upsets you why take it personally?

As a submissive who is not "property" the place I have in my partners' hearts is very special to me.

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/2/2008 11:02:57 AM

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Thank you for your imput,. but i do believe that this is ask a master not ask a dominant. If my questions make her sick as she puts it. Why bother answering? i don't forvce her to. So it makes no sense to me.

No, I did not say your questions make me sick. I said that your questions leave a sour taste in my mouth. A distinctive difference. Why bother answering? Because I can. Anyone can post in the Master's forum (You did) whether they identify as a Master, Mistress, sub, switch or slave. Just as anyone can post in the other forums. You can not determine who answers your threads, simply because you are the OP.

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/2/2008 11:06:55 AM

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~~~Your questions always leave a sour taste in my mouth.

This is such a no-brainer. Of course I feel happy to have my boy, why wouldn't I? You act as though it is shocking to you that other Dominants can feel the same as your John.

Oh and congrats on your new paddle. Makes all those posts worth it, yes?

MoGa~~~

Damn! i think i love you MoGa! will you be my message board mentor, pleassssssssse?

Of course I will. But we must not derail this thread :)

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/2/2008 11:39:57 AM

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yes Ma'am, of course not.

sorry taken

, couldnt resist

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/3/2008 5:11:50 AM

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I would probably use different words, but.. sure.

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/3/2008 6:15:35 AM

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This is a rather odd question.. OF COURSE they are happy.

Notice what you said: i think he feels as fullfilled and content of owning me as i do about him owning me.

You might want to check that out.

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Is it possible that the OP's owner is not giving her the level of "I really love owning you" statements that she wants to hear? And honey, please don't get your panties in a twist about my question... It's a reasonable question ... and you opened the door for it by asking such a ridiculously needy question. What are they gonna say? No, I hate being a Master/Dom/Top/Owner. Come on...

Now if you'd asked something like... um.... let's see:

What ways does owning your slave/sub make you happy? How do you show it? In what ways is your life better?

Those are more realistic and informative. Sounds like you might need a little more positive reinforcement from your Domly. i'm just saying...

peace.

< Message edited by sunshinemiss -- 2/3/2008 6:19:41 AM >

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/3/2008 6:26:57 AM

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Because that question has been asked a million times that way and the Moderator does not like anyone to repeat a thread.

i never asked him a thing. He actually shares his feelings with me as i do with him. If you don't have that type of relationship, don't try to second guess mine.

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/3/2008 6:28:42 AM

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:)

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/3/2008 7:47:19 AM

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Sighs............. the answer is Yes

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/3/2008 9:51:55 AM

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Sighs............. the answer is Yes

Jeff

Funny... I always thought it was 42.

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/3/2008 10:24:27 AM

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