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RE: Some insight,please - 2/3/2008 10:33:18 AM   
OldBastardly1


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ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

i am in Heaven when i see and feel how excited and happy my Owner is by owning me. i think he feels as fullfilled and content of owning me as i do about him owning me.



Are you sure that he is really that elated by owning you? Could he possibly be taking a lot of drugs? IF he is , really, that ecstatic about you....how does he feel about your posts? you do realize that you are a direct reflection on him, with your actions.....right?

I hope this was helpful.  

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/3/2008 10:35:56 AM   
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ORIGINAL: OldBastardly1

quote:

ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

i am in Heaven when i see and feel how excited and happy my Owner is by owning me. i think he feels as fullfilled and content of owning me as i do about him owning me.



Are you sure that he is really that elated by owning you? Could he possibly be taking a lot of drugs? IF he is , really, that ecstatic about you....how does he feel about your posts? you do realize that you are a direct reflection on him, with your actions.....right?

I hope this was helpful.  


Is there more room on the I love OB1 train?

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/3/2008 10:39:56 AM   
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c'mon lauren!

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/3/2008 10:39:59 AM   
OldBastardly1


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Status: offline 		I am flattered. I think there is room, but not sure....Mod 11 seems to have developed a huge man-crush on me, based on the messages he sends me, LOL.

I guess I should drop my pants and be prepared for the spanking I seem to be destined to get.

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/3/2008 10:41:15 AM   
OldBastardly1


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RE: Some insight,please - 2/3/2008 10:49:25 AM   
Padriag


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ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

i am in Heaven when i see and feel how excited and happy my Owner is by owning me. i think he feels as fullfilled and content of owning me as i do about him owning me.

As a Dominant do You feel the same happiness, joy and contentment in owming your sub?slave.property?

Frankly.... no.

Owning a slave, and I'm very particular about who I would even consider owning... brings me a certain degree of pleasure, yes.  But it does not give me the same sort of "heavenly" exstacy you seem to experience.  Owning a slave is a part of my life, one piece to the puzzle.  Its one I can live without, though I would rather not.  There are moments when they bring me greater joy, specific instances when I feel particularly proud or pleased or content.  But in general, while they do add some happiness and pleasure to my life, its not overwhelming compared to all the other wonderful things in my life.

I think an interesting observation is to place all this in a larger context.  I don't seek "the One".  For me a slave isn't some rare unearthly creature come to fulfill my life... rather a slave is a servant come to add to comfort, pleasure and happiness that already exists in my life.  She isn't the One... she is simply... one, and possibly one among several.  She has her own unique qualities and traits, things she brings to the relationship... but then so do others.  Nor will I perish without her, or languish in torment at her absence should she go... I will, in fact, carry on... and I will, in fact, replace her.   I have done so before, I can do so again.

So no... owning a slave doesn't "fulfill" me... it does not thrill and chill me to the bone... it does not make my life heavenly.  It does make my life nicer and more comfortable.  Its nice having someone bring me a cup of tea just the way I like it, or fix me breakfast, or rub my back, or read poetry of my choosing to me, or sing for me, or any of the many other things a slave might do for me to bring pleasure to me with her service.

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/3/2008 11:01:59 AM   
domahpet


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Status: offline 		some of us would do well to remember youre words, as im sure many many other Doms feel exactly the same way.
thank you.

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/3/2008 11:08:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		Padriag"So no... owning a slave doesn't "fulfill" me... it does not thrill and chill me to the bone... it does not make my life heavenly.  It does make my life nicer and more comfortable.  Its nice having someone bring me a cup of tea just the way I like it, or fix me breakfast, or rub my back, or read poetry of my choosing to me, or sing for me, or any of the many other things a slave might do for me to bring pleasure to me with her service."

This is pretty much how I feel,Would my life change much if she left,No for another is there to fill her shoes..Slaves that I chose are chosen because they please me ,not make me all giddy...Bounty 

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/3/2008 1:01:02 PM   
LordShadow


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Status: offline 		The different perspectives on this post are interesting....I agree with you and Padriag, I own a slave because she pleases me. But in the one I currently own there is something that is irreplaceable, any slave can serve me the way I wish. But only aaminah can do it as she does. The slave can be replaced, but the heart within the slave is unique and irreplaceable.


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RE: Some insight,please - 2/3/2008 1:02:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: OldBastardly1

I am flattered. I think there is room, but not sure....Mod 11 seems to have developed a huge man-crush on me, based on the messages he sends me, LOL.

I guess I should drop my pants and be prepared for the spanking I seem to be destined to get.


Heh it's most definitely a "she" if that helps you any.

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/3/2008 1:17:48 PM   
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the Moderator does not like anyone to repeat a thread.

Is that right? I don't see that in the TOS. Or is it just a preference that the moderator shared with you?
 
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RE: Some insight,please - 2/3/2008 1:19:30 PM   
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Funny... I always thought it was 42.

43


You are so argumentative.
 
 

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/3/2008 1:23:39 PM   
MistressOfGa


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Slaves that I chose are chosen because they please me ,not make me all giddy...Bounty 

Bounty,
I have a hard time imagining you "giddy" lol

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/3/2008 1:31:49 PM   
MissHarlet


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Now Bounty my image of you Giddy .. definately involves a pink tutu lol ... pleaseee dont chop up my chair by the fire for that remark ...

I dont feel giddy about owning a slave or submissive but do feel a deep feeling of satisfaction and completeness.... Do I think there is only ONE that can or will make me feel that way? NO.... But I do think that each one brings me satisfaction and completeness in their own unique way.

< Message edited by MissHarlet -- 2/3/2008 1:32:55 PM >

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/3/2008 1:42:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: IrishMist

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ORIGINAL: Valyraen

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

Sighs............. the answer is Yes

Jeff


Funny... I always thought it was 42.

43



I'm fond of 24 myself.

*runs off before she gets smacked* 

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/3/2008 1:48:06 PM   
IrishMist


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Status: offline 		Nicely said Padriag

edited because for some reason, I can not spell today

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/3/2008 1:50:11 PM   
IrishMist


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You are so argumentative.

Nahhhhhhhhh...I am just always right

LMAO are you swallowing that line of BS?

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/3/2008 1:58:10 PM   
OldBastardly1


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Status: offline 		Thanks laurell3. I noticed that in the next message I got. I think I might be the one developing a crush, instead of it being Mod 11, lol.

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/3/2008 2:06:14 PM   
KnightofMists


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ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

As a Dominant do You feel the same happiness, joy and contentment in owming your sub?slave.property?


On the whole... this is how I feel and think about my relationship with Alandra and Kyra.  If I didn't... they wouldn't be in my life for long.

However,  Just because I am extremely happy and content about my relationship doesn't mean that I will not have moments of dissatisfaction.  The happiness just has to significant overwhelm those few moments of dissatisfaction.

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RE: Some insight,please - 2/3/2008 3:40:12 PM   
takenbyjohnr07


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Status: offline 		Of ciurse, i definitely agree with that.

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