RE: Between Sir Gawain and Master John

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MasterTrader -> RE: Between Sir Gawain and Master John (2/4/2008 8:28:35 AM)
I really don't see any conflict here, I don't see anything wrong with being polite and showing good manners toward your sub. I would think that this type of attention would be in their best interest. However I think it would be a mistake for the sub to interpret this as a sign of weakness in her Dom

nwcutie102 -> RE: Between Sir Gawain and Master John (2/5/2008 7:16:12 PM)
a Dom who is a gentleman is most attractive.... to me respectful, intelligent.....yet, in charge, attentive to my discipline

CelticPrince -> RE: Between Sir Gawain and Master John (2/6/2008 10:30:22 AM)
TracyT, It does not have to be a struggle, their is no losing of the "D" persona simply because their is an element of gentleness and politeness. CP

BikerDomRealTime -> RE: Between Sir Gawain and Master John (2/6/2008 6:41:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TracyTaken I was wondering if any resident Dominants have struggled with the idea of chivalry as an opposite to dominance. Mine has and it has taken/is still taking some effort on both sides to overcome it. By chivalry, I don’t mean beheading green knights and slaying dragons, but: The idea that a gentleman is to serve a lady, and after her all other ladies. Most especially in this category is a general gentleness and graciousness to all women. (Wiki’s general definition, but it works) If so, how did you/do you deal with it? I don't have any struggles about being chivalrous towards my slave or other women and being Dominant. If I want to open a door for my slave or any other female I will, but that is because I want to. Then again if I don't feel like it I won't. I personally don't feel like I am serving any female by being chivalrous. M

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