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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/4/2008 6:52:22 PM   
pregnavygirl


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Status: offline 		Thanks... as for child support... in Virgina If i Seek it.. he gets parental rights..... im almost to the point where i dont even want his name on the birth certificate and want him to have no rights...... when my CO called his CO he said that it wasnt his kid... well i had a heart to heart with my CO and he ended up faced with the facts of hmm... ok we know its yours........ you are the only person she has ever been with... and all he could answer was :"uhhhhhhh" but the worst of all this was his lies..... he wont be able to support much.. he has two other children from a marrage he is seperated from but not divorced... i never even knew about them or the marrage

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/4/2008 6:54:26 PM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		*hugs* hon... I'm so sorry that happened to you. FWIW, though..not all men are pigs :) It's unfortunate that you fell for one that IS.  

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/4/2008 6:54:42 PM   
PrizedPosession


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i won't tell you what i'm drinking though because i don't want to make you jealous.

But what luscious said. And to this whole thread i'm sorry you had to endure such harshness over such a small question. People read into things and get frazzled but really the board is a wonderful place to learn and discover so many things. i wish you the best and your future lil one, and keep to your convictions like you have.
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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/4/2008 6:56:24 PM   
pregnavygirl


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Status: offline 		you evil woman.... you said the R word... i miss my rockstars....... And to Greedytop. thank you...... anyways... I have found that the dole sparkiling twisters are pretty good........ Plus ive got a toooooonnnn of cranberry juice.. (easily gets uti)

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/4/2008 6:59:43 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: pregnavygirl

Thanks... as for child support... in Virgina If i Seek it.. he gets parental rights..... im almost to the point where i dont even want his name on the birth certificate and want him to have no rights...... when my CO called his CO he said that it wasnt his kid... well i had a heart to heart with my CO and he ended up faced with the facts of hmm... ok we know its yours........ you are the only person she has ever been with... and all he could answer was :"uhhhhhhh" but the worst of all this was his lies..... he wont be able to support much.. he has two other children from a marrage he is seperated from but not divorced... i never even knew about them or the marrage


You get a free attorney, I would talk to them about this before the issue of the birth certificate etc comes up.  I'm glad you came back and glad to see you chatting with others.  You'll be ok, it won't be easy, but hell being a female in the navy ain't all that easy either is it?

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/4/2008 7:02:43 PM   
pregnavygirl


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Status: offline 		Well I may discuss an attorney later... but right now theres sooo many other things on my mind.... sooooooo many things......

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/4/2008 7:04:21 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: pregnavygirl

Thanks... as for child support... in Virgina If i Seek it.. he gets parental rights..... im almost to the point where i dont even want his name on the birth certificate and want him to have no rights...... when my CO called his CO he said that it wasnt his kid... well i had a heart to heart with my CO and he ended up faced with the facts of hmm... ok we know its yours........ you are the only person she has ever been with... and all he could answer was :"uhhhhhhh" but the worst of all this was his lies..... he wont be able to support much.. he has two other children from a marrage he is seperated from but not divorced... i never even knew about them or the marrage


If at all possible children need both parents. They have a big loss of self esteem if a parent doesnt want to know them or they feel like there is a peice missing if the mom keep them away from the dad.

You are young. You will start to be more cautious and recognize red flags. from now on make them prove their worth to you and this is someone elses line.......never make someone a priority that has you as an option.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/4/2008 7:08:21 PM   
PrizedPosession


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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/4/2008 8:39:08 PM   
domahpet


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im so glad i came back to take a look!
im just feeling all uplifted and warm and fuzzy allll over
Well done navygirl!!!!!!
i had a feeling you had it in you

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/4/2008 8:51:42 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

It means that the moderator has to approve the post before it can get posted.
The person awaiting approval has done something that is against the rules of TOS, and such. 


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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/4/2008 8:55:56 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		For a ny one who don't like water  If you don't like water is it just cause it's pretty boreing? I get crystal light to go packets for 16 ounce water bottles, no caffine and you can get kind with no sugar if you're not supposed to have sugar. I LOVE them. I go through two or three boxes of 10 a week.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/4/2008 9:06:22 PM   
SubinMaine


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quote:

ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

For a ny one who don't like water  If you don't like water is it just cause it's pretty boreing? I get crystal light to go packets for 16 ounce water bottles, no caffine and you can get kind with no sugar if you're not supposed to have sugar. I LOVE them. I go through two or three boxes of 10 a week.


Agreed....i'm on limited caffeine intake myself (same reason as you navygrl) and i drink a lot of the sugarfree/caffeine free iced tea and try to "trick" myself into thinking it's caffeinated....kinda works and it's MUCH better than water *shudder*


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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/4/2008 9:30:05 PM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: pregnavygirl

I hate water.. I used to drink water joe.. which was caffinne in water... ha.... anyways.. im Methodist.... and Ive already seen the chaplin... right after this happend... I got some resources.. I mean im good.. Im keepin my head above water.. looking for a place now.. I have to move out of barracks.. but cant move into family housing.. until i have the baby then get on the wait list.... stupid military...... but im all good..... plus out of all of this....... I found out my local CVS pharmacy was having a scrunchie sale when i went in to buy water... so i wasted 20 bucks and now have like 5 billion scrunchies!


I hate water too. See if you can jazz it up. Ask if you can drink tea, try the flavored waters, and try some different crystal light flavors.

I know it's rough but you might want to talk to a lawyer sooner rather than later. Things are going to work out. I wish you my very best!

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/4/2008 9:38:29 PM   
GreedyTop


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quote:

ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

Or they've been such assholes repeatedly the mods shut them up lol.
quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

It means that the moderator has to approve the post before it can get posted.
The person awaiting approval has done something that is against the rules of TOS, and such. 




LMAO!! Well, I was trying to not say that (I just got spanked by ModXI, didnt wanna do it again LOL)

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/4/2008 11:12:50 PM   
Owner4SexSlave


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Status: offline 		Dearest Pregnavygirl,

I read your words about craving contact and being hard to put all this down... I suspect (I'm going out on a limb here) you are feeling very much along and lost without direction in the world right now.   There is nobody there to give your life shape direction and meaning. 

You have a child on the way, you need to focus upon your child you are bringing into the world.  I would wait or postpone your active search for awhile.

Learn more about the lifestyle and the different types of Doms/Masters there are.  Trust me, we are all not one in the same!  Actually there are people in this lifestyle, that are a bit fucked up and crazy and not right in the head.   There is Good Crazy and Bad Crazy.  

You need to take your time getting to know somebody before submitting to them, this person has to earn and gain your trust.   It's import that you make a wise choice in your submission, because this will effect your child. 

I suggest you make friends that are in this lifestyle.   They will become your sanity in your quest for a Dom/Master.   Make freinds with other submissives, Dom, hell even Dommes or switches.   You will learn a lot of different perspectives.  Don't listen to any one person.  Make a small circle of lifestyle friends.  Be leary of anybody who want to shut you out from having friends, especially lifestyle friends.

I would suggest making friends while you casually start looking for a Dom/Master.  anybody who expects for your instant submission is a red flag (There are a number of reasons why this is a red flag).

Hope this helps you some.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/4/2008 11:28:16 PM   
MistressOfGa


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quote:

..... Its people like me.. who pregnant or not... get up at 5am and work till 8pm..... to preserve democracy and give the right to say the stupid things you do.... If it wasnt for those soldiers, sailors, airman and marines pregnant or not....... you wouldnt be able to say the dumb stuff you do.... too bad its not russia where you would have already been taken out and shot for your stupidity.




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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/4/2008 11:31:00 PM   
MistressOfGa


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if a Dom/Domme (which im considirng more and more daily as i hate men)


Aww girl, please don't think that all Domina's hate men. There are a few out here that actually like um
 
MoGa

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/4/2008 11:31:38 PM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		Yeah, MoGa.. this girl ROCKS :)

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/5/2008 5:06:25 AM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		It's nice to see you've returned to the thread.  You are a tough girl and it's nice to see that you stood up for yourself here.  I hope all goes well with your pregnancy and that you can sort things out with the dad.  If not, remember there are all sorts of family dynamics and they can be successful, not everything in life has to be traditional.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/5/2008 5:56:28 AM   
camille65


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

ORIGINAL: pregnavygirl


quote:

..... Its people like me.. who pregnant or not... get up at 5am and work till 8pm..... to preserve democracy and give the right to say the stupid things you do.... If it wasnt for those soldiers, sailors, airman and marines pregnant or not....... you wouldnt be able to say the dumb stuff you do.... too bad its not russia where you would have already been taken out and shot for your stupidity.



 I too, am very glad that you've stuck it out here through some incredible bs. That shows that you have strength. There are some amazing people here at CM and as you've found out some not so amazing, but I think the majority will welcome you. I hope that you feel the support that you're getting and yeah.. blow off the nutjobs.

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