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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/6/2008 10:01:58 AM   
RingMe


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Status: offline 		Firstly i would like to say, it is amusing how all of the Men on here who posted about what women go through during pregnancy honestly believe they have a clue...i mean really!!! 
*sweet smile*
 
i feel that it firstly would be impossible for you to honestly commit and surrender 100% to ANY Dominant/Master/Sir/Daddy...whatever title is claimed.  you need to take this time to enjoy your pregnancy and to form a bond with not only your baby, but your mind, body and emotions.
you also need to empower yourself and become strong within, as being a mother is not easy.
The lifestyle will always be there waiting if you decide that is still what you want once you have grown  in mind, body and spirit...and not forgetting strength.

Until then there is a lot you can do to educate yourself about the lifestyle, there are so many online forums, and websites that have good information or links to other information sites..such as: 
 
Journey Into Submission
http://www.leathernroses.com/submission/journeysub.htm

Alt.com
http://alt.com/go/g235120.subaaa

Leather and Roses
http://www.leathernroses.com/lnrhome.htm
 
Domsub.info
http://www.domsub.info/

submission
http://www.altsubmission.com/main.html

i hope that gives you some help to grow and learn more about the lifestyle and yourself..
 
i wish you and your baby all the health, happiness and best of luck for your future.
Dont rush things, everything will be there waiting.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/6/2008 10:03:14 AM   
kittinSol


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ORIGINAL: xBullx

I should have most likely, being outside of the Gorean section used more openly inclusive, less definite terminoligy, but I wasn't up for a bunch of PC. I was simply offering the girl my perspective and she is welcome to ignore it or treasure it, as are you.



Of course, but it's not about political correctness, it's about reality, and offering a balanced perspective to a woman who is embarking on one of the most decisive journeys of her life. To predict she'll have raging hormones that will drive her insane and all that is pessimistic bull (no pun meant).

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(...) when Natalie was pregnant and yes she had days she felt less than pretty, and while you are inclined to deny those days, I'd love to poll the people that knew you then. 



You know very well that it's probably impossible to judge how 'pretty' someone feels from the outside, so your challenge is a little ridiculous. I agree with you however that nobody ever feels great every single day of their lives.

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As for my experience with Natalie; I never seen anything beyond a stunning woman through her entire pregnancy. That is also one of nature's gift to make a woman appear extra appealing  to men during this time. It inspires his desire to defend her. If you are needing these terms to have a more political correct format, use your imagination.



And that's all to your credit. 'Tis a pity that not more men think like you.

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P.S. as far as the insane comment, while it wasn't all inclusive either, it is the common perspective of men that have survived the pregnant woman, to hear her wake up ballinga nd laughing at the same time, to actually have to run to the 7/11 for two of those super sour dill pickles and a 1/2 gallon of Rocky Road ice cream ,the to watch her dunk the pickle in the ice cream to eat it. ARRRRRRRRRRRGh, you don't find this border line insane at the very least?



It's a little out there, so as Katy said, it sounds as though your woman had a particulary mind-challenging pregnancy. It certainly isn't like that for all of us (I never had cravings for example), and it might well not be for the original poster of this thread. Perhaps in the next life, you'll be reincarnated as a woman and you will understand this from direct experience  .


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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/6/2008 10:32:29 AM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		In my opinion alt.com is NOT a good place to learn about bdsm. The place is over run with men just looking for sex, most the men are clueless at that,and the forrums are the same over run with horny men looking for a quick fuck, and chat is mostly the same. It's very rare to find good quality conversation in chat, plus most rooms are very clickish, and ignore people quite a lot.

It's also a pay to use site, so if you want to speak to any one else,  one on one on the site you have to pay for that. And the site owners frown on you giving out contact information. And now a days they're banning any and every one for any little thing in chat.

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ORIGINAL: RingMe

Alt.com
http://alt.com/go/g235120.subaaa


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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/6/2008 1:07:11 PM   
GreedyTop


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ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

In my opinion alt.com is NOT a good place to learn about bdsm. The place is over run with men just looking for sex, most the men are clueless at that,and the forrums are the same over run with horny men looking for a quick fuck, and chat is mostly the same. It's very rare to find good quality conversation in chat, plus most rooms are very clickish, and ignore people quite a lot.

It's also a pay to use site, so if you want to speak to any one else,  one on one on the site you have to pay for that. And the site owners frown on you giving out contact information. And now a days they're banning any and every one for any little thing in chat.

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ORIGINAL: RingMe

Alt.com
http://alt.com/go/g235120.subaaa




Not like here, you mean??  LOL

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/6/2008 2:54:08 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		No, here you have to do something wrong like not listen to the mods when they tell ya to stop acting like an ass, or you have to violate the TOS a ton of times. on alt chat you can be kicked out simply for posting URL's to other sites an stuff.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/6/2008 3:02:49 PM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		LOL I meant the part about men looking for sex ..sorry, shoulda edited that a bit....*grin*

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/6/2008 6:31:33 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		oh lol. yeah men here are looking for sex too, but the me horny come fuck me cave man attitude doesn't overwhealm and pervade every inch like on alt.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/6/2008 11:01:25 PM   
ForeverOwned


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ORIGINAL: pregnavygirl

Yeah the missed my date horribly wrong.... today was my first sonogram so the actually did the measurements and calculations.... before they went of LMP date....... As of Today I am 11 weeks 3 days is what there saying


Were you shocked when they told you that they missed by almost four and a half weeks? Leaving you with less time than you thought you had?

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/7/2008 4:33:43 AM   
KatyLied


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Were you shocked when they told you that they missed by almost four and a half weeks?


They missed it?  It's not always an exact science.  A physician can only go on what the woman reports regarding her last period.  Also some women do bleed when they are pregnant, which can confuse the entire "missed period" issue.


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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/7/2008 7:46:48 AM   
pregnavygirl


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Status: offline 		I was a little shocked.. but they said its not a big deal... it was confirmed by the ultra sound.... so im ok with it.....

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/7/2008 9:11:43 AM   
ForeverOwned


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Status: offline 		i was never regular my entire life, so they went by the ultra sound that they did at the hospital. What happened was the ultra sound was read wrong, but they didn't know it until my Doctor did other tests on me. The Doctor that read the Ultra sound eventually left the field about less than a year after i gave birth.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/7/2008 9:13:09 AM   
ForeverOwned


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Status: offline 		It's true. The baby will know when to come out and that's all that matters. :) .

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/7/2008 9:26:00 AM   
domahpet


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Status: offline 		hi navygirl, pratter aside, youve got a little bit less time to make your final decision.
but maybe youve made it already?

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/7/2008 11:15:42 AM   
pregnavygirl


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Status: offline 		well... i know... im still seeking.. but actually i do have a Domme In mind... im going home in a couple weeks and gonna meet her...... but im still open.... im so surprised people want a preg girl.. wow.... more people want me know then when i wasnt preg.. ha ha

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No Matter how much you hurt me. NO matter how much you make me cry..I will still wake up and stand a post tomorrow.. Not beacuse im a submissve..Not even because im a woman...Because white, black, male, female. Im a Sailor.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/7/2008 11:40:56 AM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		It is a fetish for some people.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/7/2008 2:01:33 PM   
swtnsparkling


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    Does anyone but me get the feeling of  "Smile your on Candid Camera"?
Tis why I have stayed away. I have a gut feeling mz navy is some onnnnnnnnnne else

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/7/2008 2:47:29 PM   
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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/7/2008 3:09:20 PM   
domahpet


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Status: offline 		i got a feeling someone is someone else here too,
but it aint navygirl.....

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/7/2008 6:01:23 PM   
fluffyswitch


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ORIGINAL: swtnsparkling

FR

   Does anyone but me get the feeling of  "Smile your on Candid Camera"?
Tis why I have stayed away. I have a gut feeling mz navy is some onnnnnnnnnne else


why...oh why...would it even matter?


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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/7/2008 7:13:58 PM   
kc692


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ORIGINAL: domahpet

i got a feeling someone is someone else here too,
but it aint navygirl.....


You are right, when I figured out she had a new nick and was back on site, I knew she couldnt stay away from this thread.....

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