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RE: The meaning of a strap on--or not - 4/7/2008 10:16:22 PM

SubJordanTyler

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ORIGINAL: KindLadyGrey

For me, the power of using a dildo or a strapon is in the giving of pleasure. It is an incredible power trip to control someone else's pleasure, to drive them to outer-space and bring them back and then do it over and over again until they can't speak. Strapon/anal/dildo play is just one way to do that. If a boy did not enjoy having his ass taken, I would not enjoy it either. There are much better ways to punish a boy. Personally, I like spankings, but I don't think that's a big secret ;)

Nothing..........and I mean nothing.........is more pleasureable for me than to have my ass taken with a strap-on. I end up so deep in subspace.........going somewhere amazing that I can't even describe..........that gives the most unbelievable pleasures that I have ever experienced. And to have it controlled like described above.........wow. I just love it.

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RE: The meaning of a strap on--or not - 4/7/2008 11:50:29 PM

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I get the feeling some ladies see it as silly and stupid. If that's the case, they're gonna have problem with a sub eagerly awaiting such training.

Not silly or stupid. Just not my thing. I prefer to take my submissives "in hand." It's something I'm clear about when talking to prospective subs, and I've never had a problem. Just another thing a submissive has to sacrifice for the opportunity to serve me.

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RE: The meaning of a strap on--or not - 4/8/2008 1:16:13 PM

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...I prefer to take my submissives "in hand." ...

Is that like wearing them around your wrist...like a bracelet?

heh heh heh

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RE: The meaning of a strap on--or not - 4/9/2008 1:45:48 AM

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MsBearlee,oh c'mon.You know for sure we would be wrapped around one's finger do you not??..winks

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RE: The meaning of a strap on--or not - 4/9/2008 2:23:57 AM

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So My question posed is: What does the strap-on mean to you, if anything

It means that my knees are going to burn and a pain pill may be in order.
Seriously, I do not use "strap-ons" because I like the control I have by using my hands. Sheesh, I also think I would look ridiculous with one on. To answer your question, they mean nothing more than another way for me to have fun with my boy. That's it.

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RE: The meaning of a strap on--or not - 4/9/2008 4:00:17 AM

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love ladys who wear strapons

my mistress looks great wearing one and she knows how to use it quite nicely thank you

we use strapons kinda like fore-play ..once she thinks im ready out goes the strapon and in goes her fist

once she slides in that feeling is amazing

so far i can take up to her elbow

is that what you mean MoGa?

if it is then my mistress is more hands on too

love strapons but being fisted by her is even more amazing

because its actually a part of her that is penetrating me ..love me being so vulnerable to her

what a rush it is as she enters me

shes out of town until friday ..cant wait gawd i need to feel that so ..very addicting i must say ..going without it for over a week its tough ..when she walks in the door im like a kid in a candy store ..dont know what i want her to do first to me ..love a lady in control and i do what im told to get into any position she wants me in

have fun ..mal

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RE: The meaning of a strap on--or not - 4/9/2008 7:54:26 AM

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ORIGINAL: malloves69

love ladys who wear strapons my mistress looks great wearing one and she knows how to use it quite nicely thank you we use strapons kinda like fore-play ..once she thinks im ready out goes the strapon and in goes her fist once she slides in that feeling is amazing so far i can take up to her elbow is that what you mean MoGa? if it is then my mistress is more hands on too love strapons but being fisted by her is even more amazing because its actually a part of her that is penetrating me ..love me being so vulnerable to her what a rush it is as she enters me shes out of town until friday ..cant wait gawd i need to feel that so ..very addicting i must say ..going without it for over a week its tough ..when she walks in the door im like a kid in a candy store ..dont know what i want her to do first to me ..love a lady in control and i do what im told to get into any position she wants me in have fun ..mal

Alright mal, I gotta ask:

Do you have any hobbies? A job? What's your favorite movie? Favorite band? Political alignment? What do you and your mistress do together when she isn't up to her elbows in your ass?

Please, inquiring minds want to know.

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RE: The meaning of a strap on--or not - 4/9/2008 10:50:24 AM

pupofMoGa

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

quote:

So My question posed is: What does the strap-on mean to you, if anything

It means that my knees are going to burn and a pain pill may be in order.
Seriously, I do not use "strap-ons" because I like the control I have by using my hands. Sheesh, I also think I would look ridiculous with one on. To answer your question, they mean nothing more than another way for me to have fun with my boy. That's it.

MoGa

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And what control You have Mistress, i always need a helmet, because You blow my mind

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RE: The meaning of a strap on--or not - 4/9/2008 2:30:41 PM

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

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So My question posed is: What does the strap-on mean to you, if anything

It means that my knees are going to burn and a pain pill may be in order.
... Sheesh, I also think I would look ridiculous with one on...
MoGa

I didnt see this earlier and I nearly spit My soy beans, lol--they give Me another place to hang My jewelry! heh---something to be said for the color of a boys face when he meets Killa------

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RE: The meaning of a strap on--or not - 4/9/2008 2:48:49 PM

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ORIGINAL: MladyHathor

I didnt see this earlier and I nearly spit My soy beans, lol--they give Me another place to hang My jewelry! heh---something to be said for the color of a boys face when he meets Killa------

Killa? wooo...sounds big m'Lady. did learn to LOVE bigger and thicker, but there are certain physical limits, and strapons of a certain size that make me wonder if i can take that much, that day!

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RE: The meaning of a strap on--or not - 4/9/2008 3:03:15 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyHathor

So My question posed is: What does the strap-on mean to you, if anything.

It means my boy ain't gonna shit right for a week!

Seriously though, a strap-on is just a tool, in my opinion. It doesn't add to or detract from my domination. Although I have to admit, it's fun as Hell. Tiring though, I never realized how much work a guy does when he's the one thrusting. A few more sessions with my boy and I'm pretty sure I'll have the obliques of my dreams!

Now, addressing the part of your post about penis envy -- I have it. Not because of what it represents (masculinity, etc.) but because I've always thought that I'm missing out on having one. I want to feel what it's like to pee standing up, to cum like a guy does, to be able to do the thrusting and feel what a man feels... I'm never sure if it's curiosity or if I'm genuinely out of place in this female body. People who undergo sex changes talk about not feeling like the gender they were born with, well, it's tricky for me because I feel like both.

Try explaining that one to your therapist... wooo...

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RE: The meaning of a strap on--or not - 4/9/2008 4:27:18 PM

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Strap-ons to me are about as stimulating as a fake pussy would be on a dom forcing his straight sub into a "gay" scene and claiming said Dom had vagina envy. It's more for the sub than for the me.

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RE: The meaning of a strap on--or not - 4/9/2008 6:51:34 PM

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Strap on play is actually pretty edgy for many males. They see it as a sort of "gateway" activity... a first step toward possibly finding out they are bi or gay. So, yes, taking a strap on can be a bit of an "identity fuck" for some. For me, it's a great way to reinforce the roles... I'm the one who gets fucked, my Domme is the one doing the fucking. (i.e. she controls the giving of pleasure in this scene)

Sure. It's a toy. It's a peice of plastic. But, so are whips, or handcuffs, or collars, or pony tailed butt plugs... and all of those certainly have their own power and symbology too.

To the OP: you might try getting a copy of "The Strap On Book" (by an author whos name escapes me at the moment, sorry) I think by Greenery Press. Available online. It's a great overview and play manual for beginners with gender-reversed penetrative play.

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RE: The meaning of a strap on--or not - 4/9/2008 7:31:14 PM

LotusSong

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Understood.. but why is it that men feel power is only given if the woman does it in a "manly" way? Why is not the pussy acknowledged as powerful with its seduction?

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RE: The meaning of a strap on--or not - 4/9/2008 7:36:10 PM

MladyHathor

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Thank you for the suggestion about the book, actually I am quite in control of what, where, why and when--its all because I say so---and Killa never argues----

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RE: The meaning of a strap on--or not - 4/9/2008 7:37:44 PM

MladyHathor

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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

Understood.. but why is it that men feel power is only given if the woman does it in a "manly" way? Why is not the pussy acknowledged as powerful with its seduction?

Because Dear, the world, and I mean all the world allegedly spins on an "axis".

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RE: The meaning of a strap on--or not - 4/9/2008 7:40:59 PM

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To the OP: you might try getting a copy of "The Strap On Book" (by an author whos name escapes me at the moment, sorry) I think by Greenery Press. Available online. It's a great overview and play manual for beginners with gender-reversed penetrative play.

http://www.amazon.com/Strap-Book-H-Dion/dp/1890159107

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RE: The meaning of a strap on--or not - 4/10/2008 5:49:04 AM

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ORIGINAL: chezzy52

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ORIGINAL: MsBearlee

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ORIGINAL: Misstoyou

...I prefer to take my submissives "in hand." ...

Is that like wearing them around your wrist...like a bracelet?

MsBearlee,oh c'mon.You know for sure we would be wrapped around one's finger do you not??..winks

Actually, I was refering to a comment Sade (www.RaptureVision.com) made in a clip where she had her whole hand up a boy's butt: "I'm gonna wear you like a bracelet!"

I've never done that, and don't know if it even interests me...but it was obvious the boy liked it...even with two of her gal-pals joined her and there were three women's hands in his ass. Pretty amazing! (but definately NOT my thang)

MsB

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