SweetDommes
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ORIGINAL: lonewolf05
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I dunno what kind of people you were contacting that they were checking out your income before you met.
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say what? EVERY domme i have talked to asks how much $$ is in my pocket....in the first emails...ALL of them have...i figure it is just a female thing since females ARE miore hung up on "security" than males are. even my 3 wives did it..ya know?
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Anyone who's in a 24/7/TPE damn better well make appropriate provisions. Otherwise, the person has no right to lay claim to a safe, responsible relationship.
Since all D/s relationships are consensual/negotiated, it's up to the sub to make sure that "provisions" are negotiated into the relationship if the dominant doesn't happen to bring up that topic on a timely basis.... as in before any contracts are signed, committing to a TPE.
Just my opinion in Ti-Land...
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and i suppose You are entitled to that. but, "I" have nothing being put aside for me from my new Ms here nor did i from my 1st Ms either...and i was with HER 15 months..and all She had left from the $50K i gave Her was under $1k......when i left..
what domme(s) actually put money away? i have never heard of it..
wolf
I do appreciate that you have had some really bad encounters but please keep in mind that NOT EVERY DOMME IS LIKE THAT!!!
We have NEVER asked for any kind of net worth or yearly income numbers - all we ask is that they have a job that is stable, and preferably that they like. We also know many who do, indeed, set aside money for their pyls, which you have repeatedly questioned - and now you say you have never heard of it, even though GDG just said that she does it, and so did at least one other Domme who replied on this thread (and to anthrosub - part of that financial preparation is for the possibility that they will not still be owned at that age, so that the pyl is not just cast out with nothing - maybe not exactly what you were getting at, but not to be ignored either).
wolf, you need to understand that your experiences are not the be all, end all of experiences, which you repeatedly claim (or seem to). Anything that is outside of your direct experience, you say doesn't exist/can't exist/etc. I'm tired of it. There are lots of people here and on another board that you frequent that do set aside money for their subs/slaves but because YOU have never experienced it, obviously, it doesn't really happen  . Let me tell you, emphatically, you are wrong. Things like this (a Domme actually making sure that a pyl has money should something happen in the future) happen all the time - just because you ran across a money grubbing bitch doesn't make all of us fall into that catagory, in fact, I would say that most of us don't.
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On topic, we aren't really the best to answer this, because we do intend to marry our boys - but I know of many who have contracts set up that they are only owned for x number of years unless a new contract is signed (and it's the same number of years every time, no matter the age of the submissive), and/or they discuss the future at regular intervals. Dominants that are worth their salt DO think about these things, and discuss them with their pyls what will happen should something happen to one of them (and keep in mind that most Dominants aren't looking forward to being alone in their 'Golden Years' either ...) or if one of them ends up needing extensive medical care for some reason ... or any number of other eventualities that only would occur if they were still going to be together when they are 50 ... 60 ... 70 ... 80 ......
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