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A micromanagement fetish...is there a name for this? - 2/3/2008 5:16:38 PM   
SophiaCorrupted


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Status: offline 		I hear the term "total power exchange" often, but from what I've seen it doesn't go far enough, or in the right directions for what's in my mind. I'm thinking of a scenario in which all details of a submissive are controlled. In particular, I mean nonsexual aspects, like clothes, shoes, nails, what to eat, when to eat, teeth brushing, workout times, speech inflections...pretty much anything.

Is there a name for this, or some sort of subculture that exists based on it? The closest name I can think of is micromanagement, but that's not a name that many recognize...
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RE: A micromanagement fetish...is there a name for this? - 2/3/2008 5:19:25 PM   
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RE: A micromanagement fetish...is there a name for this? - 2/3/2008 5:23:30 PM   
SophiaCorrupted


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Status: offline 		That's appropriate in too many ways...I got comments like that all through my youth...guess it's all coming full circle.

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RE: A micromanagement fetish...is there a name for this? - 2/3/2008 5:25:20 PM   
Alumbrado


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RE: A micromanagement fetish...is there a name for this? - 2/3/2008 5:28:04 PM   
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RE: A micromanagement fetish...is there a name for this? - 2/3/2008 5:29:02 PM   
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OCD/s?

Im OCD but only with me...not with others.....its too exhausting to deal with myself..>LOL
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RE: A micromanagement fetish...is there a name for this? - 2/3/2008 5:31:28 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SophiaCorrupted

I hear the term "total power exchange" often, but from what I've seen it doesn't go far enough, or in the right directions for what's in my mind. I'm thinking of a scenario in which all details of a submissive are controlled. In particular, I mean nonsexual aspects, like clothes, shoes, nails, what to eat, when to eat, teeth brushing, workout times, speech inflections...pretty much anything.

Is there a name for this, or some sort of subculture that exists based on it? The closest name I can think of is micromanagement, but that's not a name that many recognize...



Genuine TPE certainly could  include all the things you listed.

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RE: A micromanagement fetish...is there a name for this? - 2/3/2008 5:40:30 PM   
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RE: A micromanagement fetish...is there a name for this? - 2/3/2008 5:42:31 PM   
SophiaCorrupted


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ORIGINAL: SophiaCorrupted

I hear the term "total power exchange" often, but from what I've seen it doesn't go far enough, or in the right directions for what's in my mind. I'm thinking of a scenario in which all details of a submissive are controlled. In particular, I mean nonsexual aspects, like clothes, shoes, nails, what to eat, when to eat, teeth brushing, workout times, speech inflections...pretty much anything.

Is there a name for this, or some sort of subculture that exists based on it? The closest name I can think of is micromanagement, but that's not a name that many recognize...



Genuine TPE certainly could  include all the things you listed.


Yes, I'm not really interested in TPE though, so it's hard to really get my point across without a paragraph describing it...which might not be a bad thing.

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RE: A micromanagement fetish...is there a name for this? - 2/3/2008 5:46:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'd call it mircomanagement actually. I've seen the term used fairly often on the boards.

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RE: A micromanagement fetish...is there a name for this? - 2/3/2008 5:48:29 PM   
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RE: A micromanagement fetish...is there a name for this? - 2/3/2008 6:08:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ravennfyre

yep...

In Dominant terminology.... "My way or the Highway"

;)



 In a D/s relationship, the only way to be, IMO.

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RE: A micromanagement fetish...is there a name for this? - 2/3/2008 6:09:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SophiaCorrupted

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ORIGINAL: SophiaCorrupted

I hear the term "total power exchange" often, but from what I've seen it doesn't go far enough, or in the right directions for what's in my mind. I'm thinking of a scenario in which all details of a submissive are controlled. In particular, I mean nonsexual aspects, like clothes, shoes, nails, what to eat, when to eat, teeth brushing, workout times, speech inflections...pretty much anything.

Is there a name for this, or some sort of subculture that exists based on it? The closest name I can think of is micromanagement, but that's not a name that many recognize...



Genuine TPE certainly could  include all the things you listed.


Yes, I'm not really interested in TPE though, so it's hard to really get my point across without a paragraph describing it...which might not be a bad thing.



No, it might be helpful, as it all sounds confusing.

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RE: A micromanagement fetish...is there a name for this? - 2/3/2008 6:15:13 PM   
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RE: A micromanagement fetish...is there a name for this? - 2/3/2008 6:20:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		I like control. Lots of it.

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Let go it's harder holding on
One more trip and I'll be gone

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RE: A micromanagement fetish...is there a name for this? - 2/3/2008 6:57:44 PM   
SophiaCorrupted


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I like control. Lots of it.


Are you speaking to me?

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RE: A micromanagement fetish...is there a name for this? - 2/3/2008 6:58:54 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SophiaCorrupted


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ORIGINAL: Level

I like control. Lots of it.


Are you speaking to me?



No, I wasn't.

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RE: A micromanagement fetish...is there a name for this? - 2/3/2008 6:59:58 PM   
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RE: A micromanagement fetish...is there a name for this? - 2/3/2008 7:02:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Alumbrado

OCD/s?


*bingo*


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RE: A micromanagement fetish...is there a name for this? - 2/3/2008 7:03:37 PM   
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