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RE: sad girl - 2/4/2008 5:52:43 PM

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My heart goes out to you. Even if a relationship is all sunshine and roses, just living far a part from one another can be heartbreaking in itself.

i have been where you are. The cryng the waiting, all the negative feelings one person can have. i thought i would die without him, but i didn't.

It was the end of the world for me when we decided to just be friends. How would i live? i certainly never wanted to date again or trust my heart to anyone again.

Then a little over a month later (still crying and tearing my heart out) i found Collarme. i just joined so that i could post on the forums. i had no intention of ever dating again, and suddenly there he was.

He is now my Owner and we are deeply in love with somethng that's real and true that goes beyond BDSM.

So it wasn't that the other guy was bad. To me he was perfect. It was just that we were not meant to be. i was meant for something better and greater and i found it. You will too.

If the good outweighs the bad down the road, don't chain yourself to that reationship, for the one you are really meant to be with may be searching for you right now.

i wish you happiness and the courage to do what's best for you.

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RE: sad girl - 2/4/2008 5:58:19 PM

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The heart can really do a number on you, no matter what your head says. Espeially if you are a romantic/ The romantic heart is not aware o ftime, distance or quantity. Unfortunately. :)

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RE: sad girl - 2/4/2008 6:24:02 PM

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Sounds like he isn't being honest about some things. Sounds like he is stringing you along and you need to talk to him and find out what it is you want out of the relationship and what he wants.

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RE: sad girl - 2/4/2008 8:57:51 PM

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If he wanted to meet with you again, he would. He would be the one trying to set up a meet.

You're being strung along. You're upset because you have the semblance of a relationship but it is lacking in what you need.

Pretty true. Ur already 100% commited to him, and he isnt that commited to you. thats a recipe for pain. try to distance urself from him and allow him to come back if he acctually wants to commit himself to you/.

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RE: sad girl - 2/4/2008 9:08:37 PM

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I know long distances can make things very hard on a relationship, but you met only once in person? A year ago? Even if he lived in Iceland, he could have found a way to see you more than once a year.

I'm so sorry that you feel this way and I really think that you need to look at this logically. This man/situation is doing your head in. You obviously have a lot of love to give. Why not find someone to love who actually loves you too? It's the very least you deserve.

Turn it around, if it helps you to think more clearly. You're best friend in the world is in this exact same situation. What would you advise she do? Stay with this man, or move on?

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RE: sad girl - 2/4/2008 9:10:21 PM

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RE: sad girl - 2/4/2008 9:21:47 PM

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well...i am in a long distance relationship...we spend 7-10 days a month together and He has never once cancelled on me for any reason...He came to me just last month...but the time between visits is so difficult so we spend alot of time on the phone together....if your relationship were important to him, he would have made the visit a priority...i feel sad for you...(((hugs)))

when the time is right, the right person is on time...let this one go and seek the one who will value you...

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