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ORIGINAL: QueenVamp

Just for your FYI MasterHyde I am NOT cheating on my husband and if you read my profile you'd know that.

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ORIGINAL: TexasMaam

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ORIGINAL: kc692

I tend to agree with the majority.. a vanilla gift that shows they have been paying attention to my likes and dislikes since we began communication;flowers, candy, or a book about an area of interest of mine. Gifts/tribute are never required, but i do love them, and i would rather know they considered me a human and a woman before a Domme. If he had brought something play oriented, I agree, he would have taken that home, and the meeting would have been very short.

kc692,

I'm always impressed by your posts. They are a pleasure to read.

I was most impressed by a sub's introductory gift of a single red, boxed rose, a new CD from an artist we had previously discussed, and a newly released paperback by one of My favorite authors. The CD and paperback were thoughtfully presented in a pastel gift bag with matching ribbon and matching tissue paper. He presented the gift bag upon his self introduction and included a cheery 'so nice to meet you' greeting card, then waited until we had struck a mutually agreeable interest in one another before he excitedly asked My permission to go to his car to bring Me something. Upon his return, the boxed rose was presented with a gentlemanly bow on one knee. Had he arrived with a dozen arranged roses in hand I might have been put off, perhaps, but in his case everything he does is done with class and careful attention to detail.

Our second meeting he chose some inexpensive new toys, still in their packaging, from and Adult shop that again, were geared to interests I had expressed. In the coming weeks he presented Bondage tape, body paints, washable crayons, wax for waxing sessions, hosiery (a treat since I'm so tall and difficult to shop for), all offered with consideration, forthought and effort.

His small gifts, and sometimes not so small gifts, whether shower gels, perfumes, soaps, candles, books, christmas ornaments or other seasonal decorations, trinkets picked up at antique shops, vases, paperweights were all carefully chosen with My interests and hobbies in mind and continue to this day.

Like you, I delight in knowing that he pays attention to My interets, likes and dislikes. I came away from our first meeting Most Impressed and very flattered.

In contrast, I once met a sub who presented a brown paper bag filled with approximately 8 lbs of chain in hand for our very first meeting. My kneejerk reaction was 'ewwww, DO ME'. I don't know why I was so put off by it, I suppose I've been spoiled!

Texas Maam

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ORIGINAL: Padriag

LOL... I seem to have a knack for finding women who like purple. Last painting contract I bid was for a woman who wanted a purple bedroom... several shades in a color wash. Now all I have to do is figure out where in the world I'm gonna find purple orchids this time of year! I never did care for being ordinary.

That is because you are not ordinary, sweets, and to let you in on a scary secret, the rest of my house is "normal" colors, but, my bedroom is a deep royal purple, and my office is a light purple. I think I need a touch up on the home colors, I just had a paint party at my office,,,did you want to come pick up those cookies?? lol. I need to patch some holes in the ceiling (it's cream) where I moved some eyebolts, lol.


Edited to add: mmmm, orchids, I havent been given even one of those in decades...you do know how to make me smiles!!!

Edited again to add: the picture on the left was taken in my bedroom...see the wall???

Hehe... I'd wondered which room that picture was taken in, you looked quite comfortable so my guess was the bedroom. Nice to know I haven't lost my touch.

A deep royal purple, you know I could do that in a color wash that would give it an almost velvety texture... trim it with some white... no... cream colored crown molding and a low wainscoting with decorative insets trimmed in gold highlights and it would look just stunning. Convert your bed into a four poster with purple velvet drapery and gold, translucent curtains. Add some decorative wall sconces for mood lighting... can you say palatial? Tad expensive though, how's your budget?

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Why on earth would I read your profile? LOL I'm joking somewhat, but seriously we're not compatible so I wouldn't have any reason to read your profile. I responded based on the information you provided. Should I have to do a background check before I answer messages here? I know this sounds harsh, but it isn't meant to be. I'm laughing here. I hope the readers are, too.

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I'm glad to hear you're not cheating, but I don't think the conclusion I came to was far-fetched. Your message indicated that you were married, and that you didn't want any to start asking questions. MOST poeple who are married and seeking discretion are doing so because they're cheating. You're not. That's good. But do you realize you're the exception to the rule?

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

I just wanted to say that having had an enormous bouquet of lilies delivered to me today from "the right guy" put the hugest smile on my face. This was perhaps the last thing I expected today and it simply took my breath away. Believe it or not, it made this Lady blush huge. He is truly a wonderful, wonderful boy.

- LA