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the thrill of breath play - 7/11/2004 11:22:08 PM   
rain


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Initially i was greatly turned off by the thought of breath play: too dangerous!

But, i've recently been introduced to it....and now i really enjoy it!

Just wanted to get more creative ideas for my play partner and i. He's held my nose and covered my mouth, briefly, and we've also used a collar made of rope- which was fun- though the rope really wasn't that tight, it was more the threat of it getting tighter that occurred.

What have others tried that they found to be fearful, intense, and amazing? (the more descriptive, the better)

thanks,

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RE: the thrill of breath play - 7/12/2004 12:06:24 AM   
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Status: offline 		Wow rain you've come a long ways in a short time. Please be safe, breath play scares me.

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RE: the thrill of breath play - 7/12/2004 12:07:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		I like pinching my slaves' nose closed as she services me. Not sure if that is part of your play or not.

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RE: the thrill of breath play - 7/12/2004 7:23:59 AM   
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Status: offline 		Congrats on your new found play!

I prefer using my hand on a girl's throat to gently close off the airway, but PLEASE remember, go slow...do it little by little until you are able to really get the feel of how much pressure to apply. To hard..and you've got some serious problems to deal with.

Estring... outstanding idea. (Although..I personally want her to stay down there for as long as possible without having to stop and get her breath back.)

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RE: the thrill of breath play - 7/12/2004 5:47:15 PM   
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if you will contact stormi off board, she can put you in touch
with a couple of folks here local that do extensive breath play.

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RE: the thrill of breath play - 7/12/2004 5:55:46 PM   
rain


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Status: offline 		We do go slow, i've only tried it twice so far, and yes we are careful.

My playmate says that he's done breath play underwater, and that might be too much for me....

Thanks for your input thus far.

i'll keep ya'll posted, but don't hold your breath! hahahahaha

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RE: the thrill of breath play - 7/12/2004 6:08:48 PM   
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ORIGINAL: rain

What have others tried that they found to be fearful, intense, and amazing? (the more descriptive, the better)


I love breathplay, in a variety of forms. Probably the most effective way is a CPR mask with the breath hole covered - the mask gives a good seal, so I really can't breathe. I have a weird reaction to it though; I wave my hands in the air, but i never try to get the mask off. Strange. (Suz can likely tell you better than me, since she's the one holding the mask in place.)

I like hands around my throat too (carotid pressure), because of the rush, and the "in your face" feeling it gives me. I'm not such a big fan of a hand over my mouth/nose, simply because it never seems particularly effective.

There's a huge rush in breathplay, for me - the fear combined with the physical reaction to lack of oxygen can really push my buttons. But, for it to work, it has to be "real". I really have to be unable to breathe, or it's all just playing pretend which doesn't do much for me. I think that's why I like the cpr mask so much. The top can see clearly, because the mask is see-through and doesn't cover much of the face, so s/he can watch for physical signs of danger; my eyes aren't obstructed, so I can maintain some connection with him/her, and I really can NOT breathe around a well inflated mask.

Carotid pressure isn't really breathplay, but it gives me a similar rush. By exerting pressure on the carotid arteries, a skilled top can control the flow of oxygen bearing blood to the brain. I find it's a nice addition to a sedentary scene like needles. It adds to the rush, but doesn't break the mood.

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RE: the thrill of breath play - 7/12/2004 6:20:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		Now I'll be forthcoming that my experience with bc is not very trained though perhaps it is also due to my desire of expounding the idea of breath control to it's fullest percieved levels. I have of course went through standards of choking, strangling, removing air via pinched nose or grasped mouth, up to even gas masks and the like...but my desire is to gain such a control that I can change a subs entire speed of their body at my will. To gain such precise knowledge and control over their breathing that I can bring them to a feeling where it's like their body is to explode straight down to a bitter cough. To literally control every breath they inhale and exhale.

I've read of this through hypnotism, but again hypnotism is a relative farce and can provide nothing more than what most Doms have already learned in their experience with emotional and psychological controls.

Next likely step is to add in the oxygen tanks I have from my scuba diving setup. I've been wanting to try that out for a while and have tested it on myself previously but that is not something that I would be willing to try with any sub before knowing a bit more of their medical history and gaining the proper level of mutual respect and trust.

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RE: the thrill of breath play - 7/12/2004 7:24:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		a cpl safe ones are arm around mid drift to hender the the breathing,, arm braced behind neck elevate head slightly and the bycept and wrist will cut off blood flow also depends on the sub of course you can use hand on throat slowly applying pressure you can bend the sub over an object and use the object much like a hymnic just a few safe manors of course when you get more into it remember to have a fail safe {like slapping thigh 3 times means fast release} always have a way to get out in a hurry dont need to have to explaine to a judge no we were just having sex lol

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RE: the thrill of breath play - 7/12/2004 7:32:01 PM   
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ORIGINAL: afmvdp

I've been wanting to try that out for a while and have tested it on myself previously but that is not something that I would be willing to try with any sub before knowing a bit more of their medical history and gaining the proper level of mutual respect and trust.


Thought I'd just throw my nickle in for the uninitiated that are reading this thread

http://www.fetishexchange.org/breath1.shtml

And

http://www.fetishexchange.org/breath2.shtml

Just to play safe

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RE: the thrill of breath play - 7/12/2004 8:43:23 PM   
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Status: offline 		Here's an old thread on the same topic:

breath play

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RE: the thrill of breath play - 7/12/2004 9:18:05 PM   
rain


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Status: offline 		Thanks for the links everyone, very informative!

i thought there was a discussion on this before, but couldn't find it, thanks proudsub!

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RE: the thrill of breath play - 7/12/2004 10:22:27 PM   
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thought there was a discussion on this before, but couldn't find it, thanks proudsub


you're most welcome

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RE: the thrill of breath play - 7/12/2004 10:59:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		ok, i have experienced some breath play and it was thrilling...think it was more intense and exhillerating. my husband has sensed that i like his hand around my throat during sex and once he pulled my collar tight against my thoat (when i had one).

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RE: the thrill of breath play - 7/13/2004 9:03:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		Oh...just thought about this...

Check out some military surplus stores and see if you can find an old style NBC mask (er...gas mask) You can make an airtight seal with the mask and cover the filter hole to control the Oxygen. Plus...it looks creepy as hell...AND you can black out the lenses for a blindfold.

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RE: the thrill of breath play - 7/13/2004 9:51:09 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm all for breath play. The first time was with a nilla girl, in fact - she liked to be choked during sex. What I took away from those experiences, was that it wasn't about actually stopping the breath, but rather restricting it. That the bulk of the enjoyment for her, was -feeling- like she couldn't breath, even if I only constricted her throat a small bit.

Just my two cents

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RE: the thrill of breath play - 7/18/2004 3:18:42 AM   
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Status: offline 		mmmmm breath play *fans self*

I have only ever had it done 'hands on'. Dont know how much I would trust a bag over the head or a choker chain etc. I feel safer with them using their hands, as they can feel how much pressure they are exerting.

My fave is the hands around the throat with the thumbs pressing the airway shut. Love that inital rush feeling in your head as your body realises its not getting enough air. Love the rattly gasp in the throat as you struggle to breathe and the look of pride and power on the Dom's face, as he feels your small struggles under his hands.

But yes, would only ever do it with someone I trusted completely. Not a novice trick.

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RE: the thrill of breath play - 7/18/2004 10:11:05 AM   
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I like pinching my slaves' nose closed as she services me. Not sure if that is part of your play or not.


I can pretty much state that you pinching my partner's nose as she services me is not part of my play.

Just me, could be wrong, yaddayaddayadda

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RE: the thrill of breath play - 7/27/2004 12:53:31 AM   
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Status: offline 		Be aware that with strangulation as breath play you are playing with fire. ALL constriction of the oxygen supply runs the very real risk of cardiac arrest -- that's a HEART ATTACK, people. No matter how experienced someone is, there is no objective way of determining if a cardiac arrest is imminent and it does NOT happen only to those who black out completely. A person can go into arrest even at high altitude so don't assume that "a little" constriction of the airway is safe. Yeah, it's a serious high, but NO it isn't safe -- EVER. Play at your own risk.

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the thrill of breath play - 7/27/2004 2:07:43 AM   
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Status: offline 		The most fun I've ever had with this was actually for a website. We did three sets. In the first, I choked myself by pulling on each end of a piece of rope. I toroughly enjoyed pushing myself to that limit!! Second, he did the same. And lastly, he used his hands.

I love it, but my problem is that after a certain point, I feel my legs and arms tingle--though not in that "where has my blood gone to" type of way. Instead it's in a "they're about to to everything possible to make this stop, and I have lost control of my limbs!". Rather alarming for me. So, I've wanted to bound and taken to that point....next on the aggenda!

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