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training on cam - 2/5/2008 11:16:55 AM   
BlitzXXX


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RE: training on cam - 2/5/2008 11:21:22 AM   
Jeffff


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Status: offline 		If distance prevents closer interaction and that all you've got, go for it. Whatever works for you is ok with me.

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RE: training on cam - 2/5/2008 11:26:05 AM   
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Status: offline 		yeah distance is very impotrant reason

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RE: training on cam - 2/5/2008 11:30:00 AM   
SoCurious2Feel


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Status: offline 		Would you not find it fake?  No disrespect meant, but I can't wrap my head around online D/s.  I NEED to feel the heat on my ass as he spanks it.  I could not very well spank my own ass and find it satisfying, nor giving me what I need.  I realize you aren't talking about spanking behinds...but it made my point simple.

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RE: training on cam - 2/5/2008 11:32:43 AM   
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Status: offline 		Or it could lead to them meeting and living happily ever after....:). I figured they are thinking more of the mental aspect of it, than the physical.

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RE: training on cam - 2/5/2008 12:05:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		I wouldn't and couldn't do it. I did try that once...but I felt like an idiot....I mean come on!....I was doing stuff to myself!?.....I don't know about anyone else...but I didn't seek this out to be alone....hell i can masterbate just fine. I came to this to have a partner.

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RE: training on cam - 2/5/2008 12:21:43 PM   
IrishMist


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BlitzXXX

what you think about this i mean  orders,  humiliation  etc. on cam

Sorry, but it's not my cup of tea. I perfer real life interaction; face to face, body to body....

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RE: training on cam - 2/5/2008 12:31:19 PM   
BlitzXXX


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Status: offline 		i know i feel like idiot when i wright this but sometimes i dont have choise and maybe someone like this

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RE: training on cam - 2/5/2008 12:32:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BlitzXXX

i know i feel like idiot when i wright this but sometimes i dont have choise and maybe someone like this

Why don't you have a choice?

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RE: training on cam - 2/5/2008 12:40:28 PM   
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RE: training on cam - 2/5/2008 12:43:37 PM   
goodgirl08


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RE: training on cam - 2/5/2008 12:45:31 PM   
Jeffff


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Status: offline 		According to your profile.....that is all you are looking for. I am not sure I understand the question. Are you looking for approval?

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RE: training on cam - 2/5/2008 12:50:37 PM   
loveNdevotion


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Status: offline 		Definitely does not work for me.  Aside from feeling pretty silly, I found it degrading and very empty.  It actually made me feel very sorry for myself....as I felt like I had sunk to a new low.  But, that's just me...and I recognize that ymmv.  Like anything else, it's up to the people participating in it to see if it works for them.  If it does?  Have at it *lol*... 

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RE: training on cam - 2/5/2008 1:03:46 PM   
felineone


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Status: offline 		I was in a relationship that started long distance, and he used to want me to do stuff on cam. I wouldn't call it training though. He just liked seeing certain things.;)
Sometimes online, you meet others who know very little and say things that sound all domly, like "training".  I agree that a lot of stuff is just silly to do to yourself. Kinda like tickling yourself. Find what works. Figure out what the goals are for both of you, and go from there.

*edited because I replied before I read the profile.


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RE: training on cam - 2/5/2008 1:18:20 PM   
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RE: training on cam - 2/5/2008 1:20:59 PM   
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I'm a visual person.  I can really get into seeing a man perform on cam for me if he pushes the right buttons (on me, not the cam).  For the most part, though, I have to also be on the phone at the same time, because sound/breathing are also important to me.  It can never be a replacement for real life, in the flesh bdsm, but I have that base covered in my primary relationship. When I crave something a little different, having a man submit to me on cam can be intense and erotic, if the pieces are in place.  I feel the same way about digital photos or videos though, and I almost enjoy videos more than cam play, because I can watch the videos over and over again (hehe).

I was a regular at www.flirt4free.com (I still go there from time to time) where you pay models about $6 a minute to cam.  I have a huge fetish for Russian men and a variety of other ethnicities...so I find the models over there to be incredibly hot. When I am in a particular mood, I will go there to have a guy perform on cam, but they genreally don't have toys.  At least subs on cam DO generally come with toys, or I can send them toys. 

But, like anything in BDSM, it comes down to chemistry. He has to have great eyes and know how to get me off.

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RE: training on cam - 2/5/2008 2:49:57 PM   
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beacause of distance

/sigh

Ok. Let's try this again.

You live in or around Chicago.
You only use cam.
The reason for only using the cam is because of distance.

Have I got this right so far? A little more help from you would be appreciated. Or are you unable to provide accurate information?

Just trying to see what's doin here.

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RE: training on cam - 2/5/2008 2:50:57 PM   
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LordVelvet

LMAO you should already know what I mean by that, but if needed, I can give you a more...in depth idea

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RE: training on cam - 2/5/2008 2:59:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		I would be worried that the footage would later be published on a website somewhere.

I've heard of that sort of thing happening in divorce cases.  A naughty movie made in privacy is put on a website out of spite.

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RE: training on cam - 2/5/2008 3:02:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		If the cam time was in addition to real time, I would consider it.  As a regular means of play, it is not my style.  I am a hands on kind of gal.
Sure a guy can follow orders on cam, but he can't be here doing what I want him to do.

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