Mercnbeth
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This “no-limits slave” topic seems to go the way of those other oft-mentioned themes: where are all the “real” _____________, why don’t people answer their e-mails or spell-check when they do answer them, what is the difference between submissive and slave, et al.
Master gave this slave the opportunity to serve Him at a semi-public(play party) as a "submissive" to a dominant couple. Before the scene, we sat down and they explained what they wanted to do, asked if there were limits to what they could do and if there were any questions about what was going to happen. It mattered not to this slave what the scene would entail…the only thing this slave desired out of that scene was to please Master. trusting that Master appreciates the level of health, functioning and mere existence of His slave, snuff, cannabalism and necrophilia would be out of the question. Master isn't into pedophilia, so obviously kids aren't going to be involved. Those appear to this slave to be universal, however there are the exceptions, such as the non-consensual one that escaped from an evil and ran into two girls who called the cops. when the police arrived they paid more heed to the evil man than the two girls. The evil man told the officers that the asian boy was 19 and was his lover, and convinced them they had simply had a lovers tiff. They agreed to escort the teenager back to the man's apartment and left them to it, despite the protestations of the two girls. The man was Jeffrey Dahmer, a depraved and psychopathic serial killer, cannibal and necrophile, and the boy was 14, the 13th of Dahmer's 17 victims. even though we are discussing CONSENSUAL submission/slavery, these are the types of horror stories that people bandy about and keep folks from getting out into their communities and enjoying their lives. To have set so many limits for yourself that you do not participate in your life is very tragic. To blindly follow a complete stranger into a situation where your life becomes an unsolved mystery or gorey crime-scene is just as tragic. Is there a happy medium? this slave believes that there are "no-limits" slaves and submissives "with limits".
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“Well, I've seen many mentions about people wearing big honking collars all over the place.. Although I'm sure I wouldn' get fired for wearing it, no matter how dedicated I am to my Master, there is no way I would go to work wearing one. Absolute hard limit”…orig:mystictryst
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“But if one day that dream master walked in the door and told me that he decided that he would like me to become a human toilet, my dream would have suddenly become a nighmare! For me at least, the idea of consensual slavery only works as long as our ideas remain "in sync".”…FLButtSlut
Not picking on these posters, just using them as an example and hopefully they won't mind. an example of what would not be considered by this slave to be a “no-limits slave”, but as a submissive end of a relationship. These have hard limits that apparently have nothing to do with physical health and safety, morality or even as a direct threat to the condition of one’s employment. Common sense aside that leaves us with merely personal preference, and there is nothing wrong with it, any Master they would have would have to comply with their limits.
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as a slave, i have no limits with my Master. and no it did not take time, trust, etc., to get to that point. the second i became his property, i lost all right to limits of my own. that does not mean that everything is pleasant for me, or something i will desire, or something that won't harm me greatly emotionally or physically...it just means that i no longer have a say in what i am or am not subjected to…orig:daddysprop247
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to belong to him so completely I'd never use a safe word with him. I do have a sense of pride in the fact that I trust my Master, and He's trust worthy enough to have no limits be something we share between us.
This is not something I extend to any of the other Doms I play with or something that should be entered into lightly in my opinion…orig:plantlady64
Not picking on these posters either, and hopefully their Master's won't mind but as examples of what this slave would consider to be a “no-limits slave”. They consider themselves slaves, though, and to some, it is a given that once you serve as a slave, your limits become the ones Master has FOR YOU. yet another reason why it is a real good idea to have open honest communication flowing between the two parties BEFORE the relationship moves forward.
for some folks, the fear of the unknown, or the fear of some "evil" keeps their limit list a page and a half long....but, the bottom line in our relationship goes like this: it's all about what does or does not please Master. At 36 years old, this slave's limits became Master's to decide, she has none of her "own", but if this slave was NOT Master’s property than she would have more than several and wouldn’t refer to herself as a slave unless she was prepared to be told what her limits would be, instead of the one doing the telling. some might consider that to be unsafe or inane or impossible(insert paranoid rant which concludes the only safe place is wrapped in the arms of Big Brother, in front of a screen), but it doesn’t matter to this slave what they think. this slave trusted 100% her instincts, her intelligence and the Heavenly Father when putting trust in Master to abandon any limits this slave had before becoming His slave and to trust Him to set limits, if any, with regard to His slave. Your mileage not only may, but will vary….no two relationships are the same.
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...thanks for saying that so well........ ^_^
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