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RE: The hardest to understand - 2/6/2008 5:14:31 PM

LadyHibiscus

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Whoa, now that I think back, there are LOTS of lines that get utterly ignored..... LOL Desertrat is right, just scrawl your CV on the hooters with a Sharpie...

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RE: The hardest to understand - 2/6/2008 5:50:35 PM

darchChylde

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I am a submissive, not a Dominant.

i still get people, mostly 18-24 year old female submissives looking for me to dominate them.; half a dozen this year

I am not available for anything more than friendship.

let's see, just this year:
-2 invitations to head cross-country to join a poly family
-3 requests to meet someone locally, one supposedly from a woman coming to the area for business
-one demand to give my YIM so the person can dominate me online

Your graphic depictions on the things you want to do with me will never make me even consider leaving or betraying Ma'am.

-i get an average of about one highly detailed (usually well written) scene a month

All of those blue parts are at the very beginning of my profile, set up so that they are easily seen in the "list" profile view, yet that seems to change nothing. The funny thing is that most of these emails come from people who have apparently read my profile.

Now, i seldom get people getting abusive when i point this all out; one clarifying reply from me and they go away, sometimes with an apology.

The majority of emails i get are nice comments about my hair or the pic of the domikitty in my profile, or condolences and admiration for things in my profile.

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RE: The hardest to understand - 2/6/2008 6:09:07 PM

DominaJayde

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Regretfully I have to announce that I can no longer accept any new Boys

And yet I still get messages begging me to take on just 'one' more boy..

DJ

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RE: The hardest to understand - 2/6/2008 6:42:06 PM

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Perhaps they beg because you said regretfully, and don't sound serious about not wanting any more boys, but then again maybe their just desperate and will beg any one lol.

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RE: The hardest to understand - 2/6/2008 6:44:23 PM

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quote:

I said that no one that has a penis (that is not easily removed) need apply...

Geeesh!! I can see every castration fantasy freak running to your door from here...*chuckle*

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RE: The hardest to understand - 2/6/2008 6:52:51 PM

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Are you a SINGLE (no wife or girlfriend) male submissive in the local Ottawa area? Are you between the ages of 40-60,

Needless to say I get the young lads from everywhere but local and many local who are married but cannot stand to live a strictly vanilla life as they have denied their submissive side for too many years.

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RE: The hardest to understand - 2/6/2008 9:08:33 PM

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My age requirements.
Single.
Sadist, no feminization.

I never thought in a million years that I'd have dozens of 60 year old married sissies or 21 year old panty boys with girlfriends. Lucky me.

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RE: The hardest to understand - 2/7/2008 5:09:44 AM

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I think pretty much everything but "I am a Dominant woman in the DC area" gets ignored in my profile, hahaha. Although surprisingly, my football posts get the most thoughtful responses, and it's clear that those people writing have really read my profile. Go figure!

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RE: The hardest to understand - 2/7/2008 6:15:12 AM

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Two things in my profile gets ignored all the time, " No Men and local females only".

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RE: The hardest to understand - 2/7/2008 6:45:46 AM

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The "I'm heterosexual" part gets overlooked pretty frequently for me. Something like 10 guys for ever 1 female that views my profile.

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RE: The hardest to understand - 2/7/2008 6:55:04 AM

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I'm 23 and I feel that I should mention that I am looking for someone closer to my age and walk of life. I'm not really into older men, so if you're over 30 or have kids, then we probably won't hit it off too well.

Do you know how many men over the age of 40 are on this site?? I do, because they view my profile and message me constantly. At first I would kindly reply "thanks for the message, but I'm looking for someone closer to my own age." Now I just don't respond at all and still get messages from them.... It's like their carrying on a conversation with themselves. I think that everyone is welcome to their own things, but I DO NOT have a daddy complex.... why is this so hard for some people to understand?

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RE: The hardest to understand - 2/7/2008 7:04:21 AM

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No short men,
no foreigners

oh ya, no switch, no bi's.

it would take me all day to list em.

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RE: The hardest to understand - 2/7/2008 10:43:45 AM

MsIncontrol

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NOT LOOKING FOR ON-LINE RELATIONSHIPS!! RT ONLY!
It is that big and in that color...yet people seem to not be able to see it. I also have a line in there about married/cheating and local..that is regularly ignored also.

Oh well...at least I know if they can read or not.

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RE: The hardest to understand - 2/7/2008 10:32:23 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

Perhaps they beg because you said regretfully, and don't sound serious about not wanting any more boys, but then again maybe their just desperate and will beg any one lol.

*smile* Well I was trying to be polite, perhaps I need to be a bit more blunt, NO means NO.

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RE: The hardest to understand - 2/7/2008 11:36:20 PM

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The line about them needing to at least be in Australia gets totally ignored! I am just not keen to go through the hassles of importing a sub/slave from a foreign country ... just what would I put on the sponsorship form??

Maam Jay aka violet[A]

Edited to add: And yes, America IS a foreign country to Me! Just because AUS and USA have the same letters ...

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RE: The hardest to understand - 2/8/2008 6:52:43 AM

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I enjoyed reading this thread very much. Thank you to the OP and all who replied.

My profile is currently hidden, but the most ignored line was that I was looking for LTR and single men. Every couple of weeks to once a month I would recieve cell phone numbers, questions like, "Are you feeling dirty today?", stuff like that. Oh yeah, and the fact that my profile said I was straight. Do you really think I was lying? LOL. When I said I was interested in talking with Dominant women, I ment just that. Talk. I wasn't trying to use some sort of induendo.

If I put my profile back up, I'll have to edit it again and be even more blunt and specific. Not that it will make a difference.

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RE: The hardest to understand - 2/8/2008 9:35:12 AM

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The 1st part of my profile is in capitals and says Only looking for friends. I can count on one hand the amount of people who has messaged me looking for the same. On average I get 4 messages a day and they are full of crap, its fun to read when I am bored.

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RE: The hardest to understand - 2/8/2008 10:54:24 AM

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but without those moments of comic relief, when we sit and read these yahoos'emails, whatever would we do? they perform a service, court jester, jackass, whatever tag you wish to give them. and yes, 90% of the profile views i have are from men, a surprizing number of dominant men at that. you would think that first line of my profile would be a big hint.

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RE: The hardest to understand - 2/15/2008 12:49:17 AM

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You are right about that, PA. I'm currently amusing Myself with the sixth email with someone who can't figure out that 'not interested in anyone who isn't local' (except for friendship). I'm just wondering how many times I'll have to write back that I will be happy to talk with you..... When you are in GA.

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RE: The hardest to understand - 2/15/2008 1:36:13 AM

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I must be lucky becuase I rarely get email from strangers.

But this one made me laugh and laugh

" I would like to make you a permanent addition to my dungeon. You will wear chains and a collar 24/7...."

The first line of my profile is Female Dominant and I say "Note: not looking for a submissive or slave at this time - sorry! I am just here so I can post in the forums"

Maybe I should add "not planning to switch either"?

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