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Wouldn't it be funny if all slaves went 'pro' - 2/6/2008 5:15:22 PM   
Urza


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Oh look, browsing through to find a good slave on a BDSM profiles site, only to find all the slaves are 'tribute' or 'pro' slaves. Haha. Sorry.

I think at least 60% of Dominant Women on Collarme are now 'tribute' based.

Pffft. WTF!

        


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RE: Wouldn't it be funny if all slaves went 'pro' - 2/6/2008 5:20:46 PM   
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It's called supply and demand...
You will find that many female subs and slaves are treated extremely well, also....

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RE: Wouldn't it be funny if all slaves went 'pro' - 2/6/2008 5:21:37 PM   
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Yes,all the subbie guys need to wake up and jump the fence-that'd show the bitches.

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RE: Wouldn't it be funny if all slaves went 'pro' - 2/6/2008 5:37:17 PM   
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I haven’t cruised femdom profiles so have no idea what the percentage of femdoms are looking for tribute, but I suspect that it’s less than the percentage of malesubs looking for the services of a professional dominatrix without the fees. 

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RE: Wouldn't it be funny if all slaves went 'pro' - 2/6/2008 5:50:53 PM   
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I suspect that it’s less than the percentage of malesubs looking for the services of a professional dominatrix without the fees. 



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RE: Wouldn't it be funny if all slaves went 'pro' - 2/6/2008 5:51:35 PM   
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So don't pay and hide their profiles so that they won't come up for you again.

Personally, I'd be a pro-sub if there was a market for it and I had permission.

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RE: Wouldn't it be funny if all slaves went 'pro' - 2/6/2008 5:53:50 PM   
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There is quite a large market for that, depending on where you live.

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RE: Wouldn't it be funny if all slaves went 'pro' - 2/6/2008 5:56:23 PM   
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I've heard that, but I've often wondered whether a pro sub/slave wouldn't be at greater risk from abuse due to their intrinsic vulnerable nature. Would they need a bodyguard?

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RE: Wouldn't it be funny if all slaves went 'pro' - 2/6/2008 5:57:07 PM   
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Really? I think that would be quite lovely. Of course, there would be things I'm not willing to do, which brings up an interesting point... does the paying sub control the scene more or less than the paying dominant?

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RE: Wouldn't it be funny if all slaves went 'pro' - 2/6/2008 6:00:32 PM   
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I knew a pro switch years ago.  She said that when she bottomed, there was always a male bodyguard present in the room, and the limits of the scene were carefully negotiated.  She was a student, and said a lot of the pros were -- a part time job, do it a few hours a day, a couple days a week.

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RE: Wouldn't it be funny if all slaves went 'pro' - 2/6/2008 6:14:55 PM   
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I was training to be a pro-Switch for awhile myself.. I was suprised by how many pro subs are out there, but many of them seem to switch.. More possible income if you're willing to do either. Many of the ones I've met thus far actually get paid more than some Fem-Dommes, but there seems to be less of a demand for it.. I suppose being pro-Switch would give you the benefit of both worlds =P

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RE: Wouldn't it be funny if all slaves went 'pro' - 2/6/2008 6:18:53 PM   
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hmm....a pro sub.....is that like ...a sub at subway with provitamins???




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RE: Wouldn't it be funny if all slaves went 'pro' - 2/6/2008 6:35:11 PM   
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quote:

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I haven’t cruised femdom profiles so have no idea what the percentage of femdoms are looking for tribute, but I suspect that it’s less than the percentage of malesubs looking for the services of a professional dominatrix without the fees. 


So true!!!
I guess I stand a little corrected.


I'm just maybe a little annoyed at the complete oversaturation of love for money. Maybe I should view sub male profiles and see why this is happening.


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RE: Wouldn't it be funny if all slaves went 'pro' - 2/6/2008 6:45:53 PM   
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oh yes.......all the female Dommes would cry and go away! Really, it scares me to think what it must be like to find a relationship sub on here, you want to go half and half on the bill for a cup of coffee??????? cheapskate! The lifestyle Dommes are so easy to spot, y'all just bitter that hot 20 year old in the bikini or Domme in the 600$ leather corset are either asking for money or pro.....hey I resemble that remark.....are not here for you 3" cocks, hmmmmmmm Learn how to get game and take a Lady out! If I hear one more whiner who wants the lifestyle Domme to split or foot the bill......I will give you a session free, only on MY terms and we do what I want which means you will do much worse then eat my shit! pathetic......treat her like the queen she is worm you are lucky to be in her presence.....I love my sisters in the Lifestyle, send any my way who need to be schooled, I will happily take care of them

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RE: Wouldn't it be funny if all slaves went 'pro' - 2/6/2008 6:48:49 PM   
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I would so be a pro sub...hmm *evil grin* but ok, to become a pro Domme I had to go through so much training, I wonder what the clients ask for...and hmm interesting!

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RE: Wouldn't it be funny if all slaves went 'pro' - 2/6/2008 6:53:21 PM   
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And yeah. guys get over yourself. If you are oh so great and hot that we are lucky to have you then you wont have trouble now will you???  Your brothers have ruined it and you have to prove yoursel,f just the way it is...SO tired of these threads...

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RE: Wouldn't it be funny if all slaves went 'pro' - 2/6/2008 6:54:46 PM   
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I've dated two lifestyle Dommes in the last six months.  In both cases I offered to pay for everything.  In both cases they refused, and enjoyed buying some of the meals, fetish party entry fee, etc.  Of course, both of them understood that people are humans before they are sex roles.  That was why they interested me.  I'm sure it gets really really borrrrrring hearing everyone asking for a special session, but the reality of search-for-life-partner is that there's a lot more hanging out than scening, and in the 21st Century, women pay for things too.

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RE: Wouldn't it be funny if all slaves went 'pro' - 2/6/2008 6:54:46 PM   
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zara...we'll pro sub together.....we can get $1000 a night... cause it costs extra for double the fetish 

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RE: Wouldn't it be funny if all slaves went 'pro' - 2/6/2008 6:55:34 PM   
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Just going from our experiences (and no, we don't ask for money unless they run up bills here) - a lot of guys out there looking for Dommes are really looking for a kinky piece of ass on the side; someone to play with and have no attachment to; one or two sessions and then cut off all contact.  They want to experience the kinks without the service.  I can't tell you how many guys have contacted us here, on alt (when we were on there) and bondage with the message "I'm passing through your area and thought I'd offer my services to you" - said services typically are limited to an available ass to beat and violate with a strapon, and normally come with the requirement of "discretion" d/t a wife or girlfriend at home.  And then there are the ones who live in the area and message with "my wife/girlfriend is going to be away this weekend - want to have some fun?" or something similar.  I can't say that I really blame the ones who request/require tribute.  Honestly, I'm thinking about starting to require a tribute of sorts as well ... not money or gifts, but something like a postcard from their area or something - just something that requires a bit of effort on their part.

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RE: Wouldn't it be funny if all slaves went 'pro' - 2/6/2008 6:58:22 PM   
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l the female Dommes would cry and go away! Really, it scares me to think what it must be like to find a relationship sub on here, you want to go half and half on the bill for a cup of coffee??????? cheapskate! The lifestyle Dommes are so easy to spot, y'all just bitter that hot 20 year old in the bikini or Domme in the 600$ leather corset are either asking for money or pro.....hey I resemble that remark.....are not here for you 3" cocks, hmmmmmmm Learn how to get game and take a Lady out! If I hear one more whiner who wants the lifestyle Domme to split or foot the bill......I will give you a session free, only on MY terms and we do what I want which means you will do much worse then eat my shit! pathetic......treat her like the queen she is worm you are lucky to be in her presence.....I love my sisters in the Lifestyle, send any my way who need to be schooled, I will happily take care of th
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oh yes.......all the female Dommes would cry and go away! Really, it scares me to think what it must be like to find a relationship sub on here, you want to go half and half on the bill for a cup of coffee??????? cheapskate! The lifestyle Dommes are so easy to spot, y'all just bitter that hot 20 year old in the bikini or Domme in the 600$ leather corset are either asking for money or pro.....hey I resemble that remark.....are not here for you 3" cocks, hmmmmmmm Learn how to get game and take a Lady out! If I hear one more whiner who wants the lifestyle Domme to split or foot the bill......I will give you a session free, only on MY terms and we do what I want which means you will do much worse then eat my shit! pathetic......treat her like the queen she is worm you are lucky to be in her presence.....I love my sisters in the Lifestyle, send any my way who need to be schooled, I will happily take care of them



Oh oh oh, come on. It's not quite like that.

If i went out with a dominant lady for a meal, of course i'd pay the bill. Same with the Cinema etc, like any man should for the one he adores and loves.

It's not like I'm saying men shouldn't have to pay for anything :P I'm just a little annoyed at yet another hour-long search through profiles leaves me fustrated and annoyed that yet more people are pouring into this scene in it for the money. That ultimately ruins a person!

Sure Pro-Dommes exist and they should, you know it's a great service they provide for some men, and i support it. Tribute queens and unrealistic 'Dommes' which i'm finding MORE AND MORE of are just getting to me. I mean every 30 seconds someone must be putting a fake or ridiculous profile up on this site and i'm just aggitated at some of the junk profiles out there. Should Collarme be a haven for this?

My apologies if i offended anyone whos values are true and decent in the BDSM world, i'm merely stating how fustrating it gets, trudging through all the nonsense profiles of women who are purely in it for the money and not the experiences and joys of what to some of us is still a lifestyle.     


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