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Do you ever? - 2/6/2008 8:03:13 PM   
LivingForce


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Status: offline 		Do you ever look at people and try to determine if they have submissive or Dominant tendancies?  People on the street are sometimes a bit harder to get a good idea about...  I am thinking along the lines of Celebs.. 

I was listening to Howard Stern this am and Tito Ortiz, an MMA fighter, and his girlfriend Jenna Jameson, a porn star, were on.  Now the whole time I am listening I can just hear it in JJ's voice that shes submissive to Tito... Tito had this way of saying something and JJ would just get quiet about it or slide away from it very quickly while Howie was interviewing them. 

I could always be wrong but just the dynamic of both people makes sense...  Tito is a Fighter and is natrually Dominant.  JJ is a porn star and I can see her as a switch but with Tito all I hear is submissive. 

Either way... do any of you do that same thing trying to read into Celeb type people?
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RE: Do you ever? - 2/8/2008 8:36:57 AM   
Taintedblood


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Status: offline 		i personally have never tried to do this but occasionally try in real life.

i'm usually quite a good judge of character

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RE: Do you ever? - 2/8/2008 8:52:23 AM   
sweetwenchie


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Status: offline 		When i see pictures or footage of Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes i get the feeling that she is submissive to him.  It is something in her body language.

i do not purposefully try to figure out who is kinky and who is not, but sometimes there are people i meet, see pictures of, what have you, and i get the niggling feeling that they have a certain type of dynamic going on.  Could be entirely wrong and off base of course, it would not be the first time

i could sit for hours (and have) simply watching people as they go about their lives, people can be so fascinating!

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RE: Do you ever? - 2/9/2008 12:44:20 AM   
paincyprus


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Status: offline 		i completely agree with tom and katie.
i also try to determine this but its not easy to tell.

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RE: Do you ever? - 2/9/2008 1:00:15 PM   
MsVampirella


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Status: offline 		Knowing JJ, you are correct... She is Dominant in some parts of Her life but JJ is submissive to Tito without a doubt.  It's a natural thing for them.... :D

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RE: Do you ever? - 2/11/2008 7:41:40 AM   
Taboo4Two


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Status: offline 		Personally I'd prefer to see howard getting the business end of a Sadistic Dominatrix's whip while dressed in a Little Bo Peep outfit. Even if his missogyny is an act he deserves the worst.

Domino

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RE: Do you ever? - 2/11/2008 1:22:46 PM   
xonemasterx


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From: Boston, Massachusetts, USA
Status: offline 		When I see Tom and Katie I just feel a little sick. Drugs might be death but cults can really screw you up.

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RE: Do you ever? - 2/11/2008 4:06:54 PM   
obedientkayla


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Status: offline 		Personally I think everybody has dom/sub qualities, whether they recognise it or do anything about it is a different story.  I often times look at people I know or work with and 'label' them.  For some folks, it's so obvious they might as well have a neon sign hanging over their head, with others, it's not so easy to spot. 

I see some celebs and wonder hmm - what are they like when they are away from the camera...I'd like to think Nick Cage is dominant - but maybe that's just a self serving fantasy....
kayla

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RE: Do you ever? - 2/13/2008 2:20:53 PM   
sub4hire


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Status: offline 		Never have, I guess I've never really cared.  If I want to know that bad I generally ask the person.


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RE: Do you ever? - 3/6/2008 7:24:41 PM   
SPOILEDOMINA


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Status: offline 		Aside from general "people watching" as a "sport" I love love love to play the game, "What's your kink?" It's kinda like the Sub/Dom thing but much broader. Just where ever you are look around at the people surrounding you and guess "What's their kink". I play with my friends or sometimes just amuse myself. The best thing is that in this game you ALWAYS win. Sadly since I live in the suburbs so most of the time I don't imagine the general population into anything more taboo then a bj in a public place.

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RE: Do you ever? - 3/7/2008 2:09:38 AM   
subboi3382


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Status: offline 		yea i do it all the time, i used tokinda do it before i even knew of the lifestyle

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RE: Do you ever? - 3/7/2008 5:54:39 AM   
tsatske


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From: Louisville, KY
Status: offline 		I think, being in the lifestyle, it causes us to sometimes have that perspective on the world. I do it both with celebrities, people on the street and people I interact with. I annoy my (very vanilla) sister all the time by telling her she tops from the bottom. (conservative Christian lifestyle). My Dad and step mom are vanilla, but, trust me, I lived with them for a while, hang around and you will have no doubt that my dad is submissive in the relationship, even though I know they are vanilla. ( How do I know? We talk.)
Master tells me that he has read that one of his favorite TV personalities, Rachel Ray, is in the lifestyle and is submissive. (I am sure that is serious fantasy fodder for Himself). My favorite author has woven a considerable amount of BDSM into her storylines, even to the point of, not just Kinky sex, but specifically lifestyle, being in the lifestyle, the social dynamics of the lifestyle. On top of that, her dedications to her husband would make me suspect she was kinky (Stuff like - 'for always accepting my darkest side and letting it bloom', ect.), but wouldn't convince me beyond a doubt. What absolutely convinced me was hearing an interview with her. After her book in which one of the characters was active in the local BDSM community, going to community social functions, ect; the interviewer made a joke with her about that part of the book, said something about 'being on Top', or something - she let the joke fall flat and claimed not to get it. She was saying that she didn't know what a 'Top' or 'bottom' was, ect. If she were not in the lifestyle, her books, by that time, would have taught her that much in research. It was a case of 'protesting too much innocence'. I do not know, however, if she is sub, Domme, or switch. (Laurrell K. Hamilton, BTW).

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RE: Do you ever? - 3/7/2008 9:01:35 AM   
Phoenix2raven


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Status: offline 		I always wondered if Quentin Tarantino has a foot fetish.

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RE: Do you ever? - 3/7/2008 9:28:28 AM   
Daddyslilpookie


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Status: offline 		I do this all the time like when Master and I are out someplace like the aquarium or something with our daughter it's fun 

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RE: Do you ever? - 3/7/2008 4:17:33 PM   
angelbluewingsz


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Status: offline 		Tom cruise makes me sickkk. uck..... But I would tie katie up and spank her any day of the week.....

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