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Daddy's and Daddy's Girls - 2/10/2008 12:26:14 AM   
DaddyAndCarina


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Status: offline 		Some one  made a comment about so many Daddys girls in a thread the other day. I got to thinking about it, there are a ton of us that actually admit to it but what I would like to see what it is that triggers this in some of us.

I think it is for me the inability to  actually please the one from who's seed I  became a reality... Still to this day he has issues with actually being able to  compliment or say even good job. For me this is about the mind set a good daddy can instill. The nurtuing he can provide ... and the discipline in daily life

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RE: Daddy's and Daddy's Girls - 2/10/2008 1:16:33 AM   
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Status: offline 		haven't delved as deep as i could. but just from knowing myself, i respond to the nurturing and discipline, i revel in the "good girl" my father never told me that as far as i remember. i was never treated as special. a daddy does that with loving and yet keeps the borders clear.

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RE: Daddy's and Daddy's Girls - 2/10/2008 1:25:05 AM   
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Status: offline 		I also had /have a crappy relationship with my biological dad to put it mildly. I am quite certain that is why I need my Master to also be my Daddy....and He is a natural at it...He is VERY nurturing, kind, and understanding. He will discipline me when I need it, and He gives me structure. 

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RE: Daddy's and Daddy's Girls - 2/10/2008 9:22:59 AM   
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Status: offline 		my dad rocks. i wasnt aroung him much, but we always had a good time, maybe the only 'down-side'
was him teaching me things most 'girls' dont need to know how to do... (back in the day thinking-thats crap, i know, but it irritated the hell outta my mom).

my daddy treats me like the girl i didnt really get to be while growing up. and when i start acting to tough or independant, he reminds me (oh boy does he remind me) that i am a girl and i do need him.



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RE: Daddy's and Daddy's Girls - 2/10/2008 9:31:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		i spent a lot of time with my Father, but i don't remember calling him Daddy since i was about 5...Father seemed so much more appropriate for him...he was the most brilliant human i have yet to meet & i always knew that he loved me unconditionally...he was of the mind that if i decided something was cool, it must be, by definition...we had the most fascinating talks...not once do i remember him ever saying the words, "I love you"...

when i am seeking, i look for a Master who's a Daddy at heart...don't know what that has to do with my relationship with my Father...i just love the teaching & the nurturing of a Daddy....

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RE: Daddy's and Daddy's Girls - 2/10/2008 9:59:24 AM   
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Daddy isnt about age play. I enjoy it more for the feeling of structure and of safety. Of being taken care of while still being controlled. Of being cherished while still being taught. Im still me, not roleplaying anything, but its the dynamics of who he is to me.


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RE: Daddy's and Daddy's Girls - 2/10/2008 10:33:00 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have to admit, the whole Daddy-dominant idea confuses me. I just don't understand the dynamic, I guess.

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RE: Daddy's and Daddy's Girls - 2/10/2008 10:46:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		i like older men...i like a nurturing, yet strict Dom...if i combine the two it could be like a D/s Reese's peanut butter cup...yum....i totally get it!

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RE: Daddy's and Daddy's Girls - 2/10/2008 11:33:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		thinks for a second...because im intersexed.... i can be a Daddy and a Daddys girl at the same time! 

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RE: Daddy's and Daddy's Girls - 2/10/2008 11:59:57 AM   
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i like older men...i like a nurturing, yet strict Dom...if i combine the two it could be like a D/s Reese's peanut butter cup...yum....i totally get it!


Okay, so.... if a "daughter" submissive is being disciplined, does the "Daddy" speak to her as a child? I'm not being silly, here, I genuinely don't understand.

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RE: Daddy's and Daddy's Girls - 2/10/2008 1:51:08 PM   
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RE: Daddy's and Daddy's Girls - 2/10/2008 1:58:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		hey i'm just thinkingof the dynamic myself...but i suppose the word "daughter" was kind of like a bucket of iced water.  i like the whole Daddy's girl, little girl, babygirl thing...but "daughter" too ummm...familial.  I don't think Daddy Doms refer to their girls as "daughter"...do they?

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RE: Daddy's and Daddy's Girls - 2/10/2008 2:11:32 PM   
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hey i'm just thinkingof the dynamic myself...but i suppose the word "daughter" was kind of like a bucket of iced water.  i like the whole Daddy's girl, little girl, babygirl thing...but "daughter" too ummm...familial.  I don't think Daddy Doms refer to their girls as "daughter"...do they?


Ugh, no, I imagine not .

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RE: Daddy's and Daddy's Girls - 2/10/2008 2:25:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		might depend on if they enjoy incest fantasies and role playing. 

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RE: Daddy's and Daddy's Girls - 2/10/2008 2:29:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		I need a Daddy, a man who can without skipping a beat control me yet guide me, one who is not afraid to say, "little one think about what you are doing and why you are doing it." A man who can nurture and love me, guide me and teach me, own and possess me, all while he holds the reigns so to speak.

There is nothing familial about the dynamic in my opinion, and I think referring to me as "daughter" would throw me, there are terms that I personally will never be comfortable with and that would be one.

You see I seek a Daddy, not a Father, I had one of those and that is not what I need. I need the man whose lap I can sit upon and sort out the mess of the day when I have had a rough day one evening, and the next be naked besides his collar and leash and feel more secure and covered than I ever have. It is a strength with nurturing that I need and that seems to be what is found within a Daddy/babygirl dynamic for me.

Do I think I seek this due to a lack of relationship with the man who donated the sperm to create me? I suppose that could be a small part of it, but I would not heap it all into one basket, I think in a relationship I have always had a need for nurturing and guidance. Just someone who can hold me upon his lap and listen to my bad day tirade, even though in the back of his mind there is a gnawing thought that he is just dying to bend me over the ottoman that his feet rest upon. And I need him to do just that when we finish up........

I dunno if that helps at all but thats my two cents.

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RE: Daddy's and Daddy's Girls - 2/10/2008 2:33:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp
i like older men...i like a nurturing, yet strict Dom...if i combine the two it could be like a D/s Reese's peanut butter cup...yum....i totally get it!

Okay, so.... if a "daughter" submissive is being disciplined, does the "Daddy" speak to her as a child? I'm not being silly, here, I genuinely don't understand.



Okay  I am having a not so  great day  but I am going to try to  reply to  this BTW I am also Daddy & Carina

Yes at times a 'lil girl" can be treated as just that  a child.... in the manner he speaks to her to  the manner he treats her. Some dont see it as any more than fetish attire and spanking. But for many  of us it is about the discipline/structure/nuturing Sometimes we push to  feel the stronger parts.... sometimes we just screw up a bit. And it may be required. As I have said I  believe my need for it is because it is something I missed as a child / But then again  I  got beated as a child to oand I  think I  find the BDSM aspects of this as a way to  control the past. Who knows ... I am actually pretty  well rounded . I  just know that  with Daddy I find a comfort level and he pushes me in the right places to  go  further than I  believe I can. One of those push places is my writing I have written for ten years ... I am now in the place I am ready to put it out and try to sell it ... I would have never gone there without him. Okay I  so  got off the subject but YES  it can ean at times a *lil girl* maybe talked to  as tho she was a child at times in the relationship she truly is

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RE: Daddy's and Daddy's Girls - 2/10/2008 2:45:22 PM   
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might depend on if they enjoy incest fantasies and role playing. 


True, wenchie; I wonder how many that are in Daddy/little girl relationships have that aspect?

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RE: Daddy's and Daddy's Girls - 2/10/2008 2:49:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		i get the feeling that it is a bit more rare, and generally looked down upon by those that enjoy the Daddy/little girl dynamic.  From what i have read of other's views, they tend to see the typical D/lg dynamic as one of nurturing, safety, growth, etc.   Just a generalization, i know that each D/lg relationship has it's own personal way of interpreting the dynamic. 

me, i'm just a sick bitch that gets off on things that are taboo. 

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RE: Daddy's and Daddy's Girls - 2/10/2008 2:49:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		i love being a daddys girl but my situation is somewhat ironic because im a lesbian . however at the moment i am with a trans man so it all works out :) i havent really had a solid relationship with my father but i more like the idea that it is a nurturing caring scene while still overpowering me

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RE: Daddy's and Daddy's Girls - 2/10/2008 2:53:50 PM   
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I dunno if that helps at all but thats my two cents.

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It does help some, Jaded, thank you.

Would you (or anyone) say then, that the "Daddy" is basically a gentle dominant? Does sadism/masochism ever come into play in these kind of dynamics?

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