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julietsierra -> RE: Games (2/11/2008 3:27:31 AM)
But hey Choco...I just noticed your posting count. I take that to mean you've not read a lot of what I've posted in other threads...So, I'll answer your question a bit more directly. The games he plays with me. He plays "abandon the slave" allll the time. It hurts like hell during the game, but in the end, we both win. He plays "masturbation? What's this thing you call masturbation?" I haven't been allowed to do that in five and a half years now. Along with that, he plays "WOW AM I BUSY!" This means that he loads a ton of stuff on his plate so that the time he spends with me - at times - is very limited. Let me see...right now - today, it's been three months since we've had any sex (see the game above to understand how that relates). Yes, we've played but sex is a very important part of both our lives. I'm not exactly complacent about this, but if I complain, it'll only take longer for the game to be over. So I get to simply wait and be supportive of what he's doing right now. I can voice that I'm getting antsy (just about the biggest understatement of the year right now), but no complaining about what he's doing. We also play "Mind Torture." This is a nifty little game that takes every single one of my insecurities and makes them an integral part of his toybag - kinda like when you were young and your big brother would try to poke at bruises and tease you when you got in trouble - just cause he could and just cause he knew it would hurt. My bruises involve my emotions and every bit of my baggage. This little game involves me being at my most vulnerable and him using every one of my own insecurities to make me cringe and cry more than a little. And when I say I can't take any more, he says "Let me see if I understand. You say you're feeling... tortured?" And I can't help it. I laugh and laugh and laugh, saying YES! I'm feeling tortured!!" And his response is to laugh right along with me while he gleefully says "GOOOD!!! Thank you! You've made my day!!" And yep... I love ALL of these games - even if they OFTEN make me cry. They're ALL fun to me. Now... with games like these, tell me again why I am playing with dice? Hell, I'm too busy playing what we enjoy. I really really don't have time or energy for dice, cards and "name that implement." juliet

antipode -> RE: Games (2/11/2008 5:29:02 AM)
Huh? What would I need a game for? She'll find out when it hits her...

Chocodelite4U -> RE: Games (2/11/2008 6:25:10 AM)
lol antipode, just to change the pace, Hey maybe I get bored, and want to throw a curve. Its like working out if you do the same work out you'll hit a wall or plataue. The sub doesn't get stuck in a rut with its the same ole thing? This was suppose to be a fun thread. Enjoy

mnottertail -> RE: Games (2/11/2008 6:31:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Chocodelite4U Just having fun, and your going to give your sub/slave a good azz burning. What game do you implement just to spice it up? At times deck of cards each suit stand for a prop and the numbers equal swats face cards 10 and Jokers 20. We have meat raffles in my area at the local bar, it is for the Lions and goes to help the community. I put out the money and she buys 5 tickets EVERY raffle. If she misses a number the next packet is doubled. (left pocket right pocket, her problem to remember which tickets are double) sort the sets in order of number in packs of 5. flip them over. move them around. Pick a number honey. Pick a packet darling. if that number is not in that packet she begs her 5 or 10 (double packets) birchstrokes. She is master of her own destiny. I am a slave to her desires. LOLOLOL. Ron Oh, yeah, I forgot, since she hasnt done it, she wins and she gets to throw that packet away.

celticlord2112 -> RE: Games (2/11/2008 7:10:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: julietsierra We laugh and we enjoy ourselves. We simply do not engage in the games the OP and others are talking about. We're simply not game playing people. It's not an attack of those who are. It's simply a statement of what WE are. Why do YOU feel the need to attack what others are - or are not? juliet Lighten up, Francis. The only one attacking is you.

TracyTaken -> RE: Games (2/11/2008 7:24:10 AM)
quote: I really really don't have time or energy for dice, cards and "name that implement." So, why are you posting to this thread?

TotalState -> RE: Games (2/11/2008 7:29:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TracyTaken Nothing like a rousing round of "Name that Implement." [:)] Ooh, that sounds like fun! I vill steal idea for my own, perverted use, yah! I do a lot of playing around, actually, both with my sub and with other friends in the community. We've taken a semi-vanilla sex board game (forget the exact name...it was a game that was intended to get people in touch with their kinkier side) and perverted them, for instance. Great amounts of fun when you have several couples playing, or if you want to show your vanilla friends the fun side of BDSM!

julietsierra -> RE: Games (2/11/2008 7:52:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TracyTaken quote: I really really don't have time or energy for dice, cards and "name that implement." So, why are you posting to this thread? Not playing is but one option in the game playing choices. And last I heard, it's up to me whether I post or not. Perhaps I just didn't get the information that you're the arbiter of who can and can't post these days. juliet

julietsierra -> RE: Games (2/11/2008 7:55:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: celticlord2112 quote: ORIGINAL: julietsierra We laugh and we enjoy ourselves. We simply do not engage in the games the OP and others are talking about. We're simply not game playing people. It's not an attack of those who are. It's simply a statement of what WE are. Why do YOU feel the need to attack what others are - or are not? juliet Lighten up, Francis. The only one attacking is you. I'd say that you're showing a bit of insecurity there yourself celticlord.. Everyone's different. Just because I don't and you do when it comes to game playing, doesn't mean I'm attacking you by saying I don't. juliet (in bold print just to help you out on the name)

celticlord2112 -> RE: Games (2/11/2008 7:59:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: julietsierra quote: ORIGINAL: celticlord2112 quote: ORIGINAL: julietsierra We laugh and we enjoy ourselves. We simply do not engage in the games the OP and others are talking about. We're simply not game playing people. It's not an attack of those who are. It's simply a statement of what WE are. Why do YOU feel the need to attack what others are - or are not? juliet Lighten up, Francis. The only one attacking is you. I'd say that you're showing a bit of insecurity there yourself celticlord.. Everyone's different. Just because I don't and you do when it comes to game playing, doesn't mean I'm attacking you by saying I don't. juliet (in bold print just to help you out on the name) Lighten up Francis (From Stripes)

julietsierra -> RE: Games (2/11/2008 8:33:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: celticlord2112 quote: ORIGINAL: julietsierra quote: ORIGINAL: celticlord2112 quote: ORIGINAL: julietsierra We laugh and we enjoy ourselves. We simply do not engage in the games the OP and others are talking about. We're simply not game playing people. It's not an attack of those who are. It's simply a statement of what WE are. Why do YOU feel the need to attack what others are - or are not? juliet Lighten up, Francis. The only one attacking is you. I'd say that you're showing a bit of insecurity there yourself celticlord.. Everyone's different. Just because I don't and you do when it comes to game playing, doesn't mean I'm attacking you by saying I don't. juliet (in bold print just to help you out on the name) Lighten up Francis (From Stripes) OMG! I completely forgot that movie! That's been a while!! juliet

TracyTaken -> RE: Games (2/11/2008 8:37:28 AM)
quote: Not playing is but one option in the game playing choices. Yes. And there are many activities that people enjoy and post about on these boards that I have no interest in and some I would never do. One option is to hop on those threads and say: I don't enjoy that! I would never do that! I don't have time for such nonsense! I'm guessing that you are having a bad day. [:)]

Nineveh -> RE: Games (2/11/2008 8:44:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: julietsierra But hey Choco...I just noticed your posting count. I take that to mean you've not read a lot of what I've posted in other threads...So, I'll answer your question a bit more directly. The games he plays with me. He plays "abandon the slave" allll the time. It hurts like hell during the game, but in the end, we both win. He plays "masturbation? What's this thing you call masturbation?" I haven't been allowed to do that in five and a half years now. Along with that, he plays "WOW AM I BUSY!" This means that he loads a ton of stuff on his plate so that the time he spends with me - at times - is very limited. Let me see...right now - today, it's been three months since we've had any sex (see the game above to understand how that relates). Yes, we've played but sex is a very important part of both our lives. I'm not exactly complacent about this, but if I complain, it'll only take longer for the game to be over. So I get to simply wait and be supportive of what he's doing right now. I can voice that I'm getting antsy (just about the biggest understatement of the year right now), but no complaining about what he's doing. We also play "Mind Torture." This is a nifty little game that takes every single one of my insecurities and makes them an integral part of his toybag - kinda like when you were young and your big brother would try to poke at bruises and tease you when you got in trouble - just cause he could and just cause he knew it would hurt. My bruises involve my emotions and every bit of my baggage. This little game involves me being at my most vulnerable and him using every one of my own insecurities to make me cringe and cry more than a little. And when I say I can't take any more, he says "Let me see if I understand. You say you're feeling... tortured?" And I can't help it. I laugh and laugh and laugh, saying YES! I'm feeling tortured!!" And his response is to laugh right along with me while he gleefully says "GOOOD!!! Thank you! You've made my day!!" And yep... I love ALL of these games - even if they OFTEN make me cry. They're ALL fun to me. Now... with games like these, tell me again why I am playing with dice? Hell, I'm too busy playing what we enjoy. I really really don't have time or energy for dice, cards and "name that implement." juliet Hard for me to imagine anyone enjoying the "Wow am I busy" game, but I can certainly see the draw of the rest of them. Can you throw me a link so I can get a better idea of what "Abandon the Slave" consists of?

julietsierra -> RE: Games (2/11/2008 9:09:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Nineveh quote: ORIGINAL: julietsierra But hey Choco...I just noticed your posting count. I take that to mean you've not read a lot of what I've posted in other threads...So, I'll answer your question a bit more directly. The games he plays with me. He plays "abandon the slave" allll the time. It hurts like hell during the game, but in the end, we both win. He plays "masturbation? What's this thing you call masturbation?" I haven't been allowed to do that in five and a half years now. Along with that, he plays "WOW AM I BUSY!" This means that he loads a ton of stuff on his plate so that the time he spends with me - at times - is very limited. Let me see...right now - today, it's been three months since we've had any sex (see the game above to understand how that relates). Yes, we've played but sex is a very important part of both our lives. I'm not exactly complacent about this, but if I complain, it'll only take longer for the game to be over. So I get to simply wait and be supportive of what he's doing right now. I can voice that I'm getting antsy (just about the biggest understatement of the year right now), but no complaining about what he's doing. We also play "Mind Torture." This is a nifty little game that takes every single one of my insecurities and makes them an integral part of his toybag - kinda like when you were young and your big brother would try to poke at bruises and tease you when you got in trouble - just cause he could and just cause he knew it would hurt. My bruises involve my emotions and every bit of my baggage. This little game involves me being at my most vulnerable and him using every one of my own insecurities to make me cringe and cry more than a little. And when I say I can't take any more, he says "Let me see if I understand. You say you're feeling... tortured?" And I can't help it. I laugh and laugh and laugh, saying YES! I'm feeling tortured!!" And his response is to laugh right along with me while he gleefully says "GOOOD!!! Thank you! You've made my day!!" And yep... I love ALL of these games - even if they OFTEN make me cry. They're ALL fun to me. Now... with games like these, tell me again why I am playing with dice? Hell, I'm too busy playing what we enjoy. I really really don't have time or energy for dice, cards and "name that implement." juliet Hard for me to imagine anyone enjoying the "Wow am I busy" game, but I can certainly see the draw of the rest of them. Can you throw me a link so I can get a better idea of what "Abandon the Slave" consists of? I absolutely LOVE watching him get thrilled by a new project. How it takes over his thoughts and actions. How he gives it his all. If that means I'm waiting, then I'm waiting. Sometimes the waiting's difficult. That's when I breathe a bit and remember the gleam in his eye as he talks about his project. And that's when I remember how much I enjoy the WOW AM I BUSY game. Right now, he's working his job, starting a new company, involved with a number of community organizations, has two other jobs he does on a part time basis and is taking a class. His eyes just light up at the whole thing. The links to Abandon the Slave...I really don't recall, but it was relatively recent and in response to someone who was having difficulties feeling abandoned by her Master. juliet

OrrisKitten -> RE: Games (2/11/2008 11:14:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TotalState I do a lot of playing around, actually, both with my sub and with other friends in the community. We've taken a semi-vanilla sex board game (forget the exact name...it was a game that was intended to get people in touch with their kinkier side) and perverted them, for instance. Great amounts of fun when you have several couples playing, or if you want to show your vanilla friends the fun side of BDSM! The game was a game released by playboy, I believe and also had components of a drinking game. Drinking games can be fun when you replace the drinks with getting whacked in some way. We've played with a group of friends where you picked cards and rolled dice and all and if you passed you had options... Each sub picked their own punishment for passing on a card so one had the assignment to drink 2 large glasses of water each time she passed, I was getting flogged 5 times each time I passed, some Dommes were taking shots for each pass. It was an interesting night and fun for a lot of laughter! Some cards were extremely sexual, but as a group we decided if we would pass it and allow the drawer to take another card or get a punishment for passing. I've also had a game with interpreting the settings on a wireless remote controlled egg at the BDSM club we went to... Since it was hard to tell when the settings switched (and the remote had no marker of what setting you were in, grr) I had to show with my body what the egg was doing, showing the level of intensity and the speed and the pulsating. I had to keep my hand at the level of intensity, above my head being highest and at my side for nothing, and show the pulsation by bouncing in time. Then I had to do it with my eyes closed. It was a fun night :)

TotalState -> RE: Games (2/11/2008 12:12:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OrrisKitten It was a fun night :) It sure was! :)

julietsierra -> RE: Games (2/11/2008 12:17:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TracyTaken quote: Not playing is but one option in the game playing choices. Yes. And there are many activities that people enjoy and post about on these boards that I have no interest in and some I would never do. One option is to hop on those threads and say: I don't enjoy that! I would never do that! I don't have time for such nonsense! I'm guessing that you are having a bad day. [:)] Actually, no I'm not and yes it is one of the options. juliet

OrrisKitten -> RE: Games (2/11/2008 1:10:07 PM)
Oh! Just remembered another fun game! Its called Never Have I Ever (and 100 other things I'm sure you all know it from High school and things like that) but the fun comes in when you get a group of people, not all kinky and see their reactions. Of course, when I've played all of the people who were vanilla were warned that there were people into kink and that it may get a bit racy, but everyone joined in and everyone was respected. Also a great way to get beginners to ask questions/start wondering about different things. Another fun one is being told to lay down on the bed and not move, but not be tied down or anything, and seeing if/how your Dom can make you move or squirm of your own accord.

LadyPact -> RE: Games (2/11/2008 1:24:06 PM)
The first thought that came to My mind was the last time I took My sub through a fun little round of the alaphbet game. I decided that he would have to give Me a word related to wiitwd, according to the letters in the alaphbet. If he gave an acceptable word, he got a clothespin put on him. If he couldn't think of a word, he got a lash with a particularly nasty little quirt. Trust Me, he had no problem coming up with that "q" word.

Nineveh -> RE: Games (2/11/2008 1:25:00 PM)
never ever have I ever is fun. Especcially if if you are the only one who has you have to tell the story.

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