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ORIGINAL: Chocodelite4U

Just having fun, and your going to give your sub/slave a good azz burning.  What game do you implement just to spice it up?

At times deck of cards each suit stand for a prop and the numbers equal swats face cards 10 and Jokers 20.

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ORIGINAL: julietsierra

We laugh and we enjoy ourselves. We simply do not engage in the games the OP and others are talking about. We're simply not game playing people. It's not an attack of those who are. It's simply a statement of what WE are. Why do YOU feel the need to attack what others are - or are not?

juliet

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I really really don't have time or energy for dice, cards and "name that implement."

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ORIGINAL: TracyTaken

Nothing like a rousing round of "Name that Implement." 

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ORIGINAL: TracyTaken

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I really really don't have time or energy for dice, cards and "name that implement."

So, why are you posting to this thread?

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ORIGINAL: celticlord2112

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ORIGINAL: julietsierra

We laugh and we enjoy ourselves. We simply do not engage in the games the OP and others are talking about. We're simply not game playing people. It's not an attack of those who are. It's simply a statement of what WE are. Why do YOU feel the need to attack what others are - or are not?

juliet

Lighten up, Francis. The only one attacking is you.

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ORIGINAL: julietsierra

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ORIGINAL: celticlord2112

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ORIGINAL: julietsierra

We laugh and we enjoy ourselves. We simply do not engage in the games the OP and others are talking about. We're simply not game playing people. It's not an attack of those who are. It's simply a statement of what WE are. Why do YOU feel the need to attack what others are - or are not?

juliet

Lighten up, Francis. The only one attacking is you.

I'd say that you're showing a bit of insecurity there yourself celticlord.. Everyone's different. Just because I don't and you do when it comes to game playing, doesn't mean I'm attacking you by saying I don't.

juliet (in bold print just to help you out on the name)

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ORIGINAL: celticlord2112

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ORIGINAL: julietsierra

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ORIGINAL: celticlord2112

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ORIGINAL: julietsierra

We laugh and we enjoy ourselves. We simply do not engage in the games the OP and others are talking about. We're simply not game playing people. It's not an attack of those who are. It's simply a statement of what WE are. Why do YOU feel the need to attack what others are - or are not?

juliet

Lighten up, Francis. The only one attacking is you.

I'd say that you're showing a bit of insecurity there yourself celticlord.. Everyone's different. Just because I don't and you do when it comes to game playing, doesn't mean I'm attacking you by saying I don't.

juliet (in bold print just to help you out on the name)

Lighten up Francis

(From Stripes)

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Not playing is but one option in the game playing choices.

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ORIGINAL: julietsierra

But hey Choco...I just noticed your posting count. I take that to mean you've not read a lot of what I've posted in other threads...So, I'll answer your question a bit more directly.

The games he plays with me.

He plays "abandon the slave" allll the time. It hurts like hell during the game, but in the end, we both win.

He plays "masturbation? What's this thing you call masturbation?" I haven't been allowed to do that in five and a half years now.

Along with that, he plays "WOW AM I BUSY!" This means that he loads a ton of stuff on his plate so that the time he spends with me - at times - is very limited. Let me see...right now - today, it's been three months since we've had any sex (see the game above to understand how that relates). Yes, we've played but sex is a very important part of both our lives. I'm not exactly complacent about this, but if I complain, it'll only take longer for the game to be over. So I get to simply wait and be supportive of what he's doing right now.  I can voice that I'm getting antsy (just about the biggest understatement of the year right now), but no complaining about what he's doing.

We also play "Mind Torture." This is a nifty little game that takes every single one of my insecurities and makes them an integral part of his toybag - kinda like when you were young and your big brother would try to poke at bruises and tease you when you got in trouble - just cause he could and just cause he knew it would hurt. My bruises involve my emotions and every bit of my baggage. This little game involves me being at my most vulnerable and him using every one of my own insecurities to make me cringe and cry more than a little. And when I say I can't take any more, he says "Let me see if I understand. You say you're feeling... tortured?" And I can't help it. I laugh and laugh and laugh, saying YES! I'm feeling tortured!!" And his response is to laugh right along with me while he gleefully says "GOOOD!!! Thank you! You've made my day!!"

And yep... I love ALL of these games - even if they OFTEN make me cry. They're ALL fun to me.

Now... with games like these, tell me again why I am playing with dice? Hell, I'm too busy playing what we enjoy. I really really don't have time or energy for dice, cards and "name that implement."

juliet

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ORIGINAL: Nineveh

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ORIGINAL: julietsierra

But hey Choco...I just noticed your posting count. I take that to mean you've not read a lot of what I've posted in other threads...So, I'll answer your question a bit more directly.

The games he plays with me.

He plays "abandon the slave" allll the time. It hurts like hell during the game, but in the end, we both win.

He plays "masturbation? What's this thing you call masturbation?" I haven't been allowed to do that in five and a half years now.

Along with that, he plays "WOW AM I BUSY!" This means that he loads a ton of stuff on his plate so that the time he spends with me - at times - is very limited. Let me see...right now - today, it's been three months since we've had any sex (see the game above to understand how that relates). Yes, we've played but sex is a very important part of both our lives. I'm not exactly complacent about this, but if I complain, it'll only take longer for the game to be over. So I get to simply wait and be supportive of what he's doing right now.  I can voice that I'm getting antsy (just about the biggest understatement of the year right now), but no complaining about what he's doing.

We also play "Mind Torture." This is a nifty little game that takes every single one of my insecurities and makes them an integral part of his toybag - kinda like when you were young and your big brother would try to poke at bruises and tease you when you got in trouble - just cause he could and just cause he knew it would hurt. My bruises involve my emotions and every bit of my baggage. This little game involves me being at my most vulnerable and him using every one of my own insecurities to make me cringe and cry more than a little. And when I say I can't take any more, he says "Let me see if I understand. You say you're feeling... tortured?" And I can't help it. I laugh and laugh and laugh, saying YES! I'm feeling tortured!!" And his response is to laugh right along with me while he gleefully says "GOOOD!!! Thank you! You've made my day!!"

And yep... I love ALL of these games - even if they OFTEN make me cry. They're ALL fun to me.

Now... with games like these, tell me again why I am playing with dice? Hell, I'm too busy playing what we enjoy. I really really don't have time or energy for dice, cards and "name that implement."

juliet

Hard for me to imagine anyone enjoying the "Wow am I busy" game, but I can certainly see the draw of the rest of them.  Can you throw me a link so I can get a better idea of what "Abandon the Slave" consists of?

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ORIGINAL: TotalState

I do a lot of playing around, actually, both with my sub and with other friends in the community.  We've taken a semi-vanilla sex board game (forget the exact name...it was a game that was intended to get people in touch with their kinkier side) and perverted them, for instance.  Great amounts of fun when you have several couples playing, or if you want to show your vanilla friends the fun side of BDSM!

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ORIGINAL: OrrisKitten

It was a fun night :)

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ORIGINAL: TracyTaken

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Not playing is but one option in the game playing choices.

Yes.  And there are many activities that people enjoy and post about on these boards that I have no interest in and some I would never do.  One option is to hop on those threads and say: I don't enjoy that!  I would never do that!  I don't have time for such nonsense!

I'm guessing that you are having a bad day.