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First time in Subspace? - 2/11/2008 3:02:56 AM

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When's the first time you got lost in a trance of submission(subspace) and how did you get there?

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RE: First time in Subspace? - 2/11/2008 3:08:12 AM

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I cant tell you exactly when. Probably the first time I had a D's experience/ All it took was being tied up and a blindfold and some provacative words. Levels of pain get me soaring. When I reach subspace my tolerance level shoots way up. Then soft carresses become more intnse than pain.

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RE: First time in Subspace? - 2/11/2008 5:36:30 AM

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Bondage, blindfold and gag. I float from sens dep, not from pain. Oh and if he throws a blanket over me so I don't get cold, I'll stay there until I fall asleep.

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RE: First time in Subspace? - 2/11/2008 8:27:38 AM

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ORIGINAL: touchofeuphoria

When's the first time you got lost in a trance of submission(subspace) and how did you get there?

October 9th, 2007 at roughly 8:00 PM(Perhaps a tad later), as I recall. My (future) Owner began rather innocently scratching the back of my neck. Four days later, I was her property.

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RE: First time in Subspace? - 2/11/2008 8:37:16 AM

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first "date" with a guy I'd been interested in for a bit... It was full of "Sir"s and "girl"s and we went to my car to "chat" a bit more privately and the next thing I REALLY remember clearly is him telling me I needed to calm down and me being unable to really speak (which was about 45 min-and hour later). After he left I was so completely confused and relieved and excited and elated and floaty and wobbly and tearful inside... I cried for like 15 minutes, and that crash was soooooo hard. I had to call and talk to someone or I thought I was going to totally lose my mind, and I was afraid if I called HIM to talk about it I was just going to lose the tenuous grip on reality I'd gained...

I was SO glad I'd heard about subpsace literally THE DAY before (I had known of it's existence, I'd known subs who got "high" on the submission, but I didn't know what it was called and wasn't even sure if I WAS a sub let alone if I could do that....). If I hadn't known what was going on, I would have totally freaked.

To his credit, I was BEHAVING a lot calmer than I felt, and he thought I was a bit better off than I was. *I* thought I was too til he pulled out of the parking lot. But I refused to call him back because he had more important things to take care of.

I'm grateful for the experience, but it was definitely a scary drive home.

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RE: First time in Subspace? - 2/11/2008 9:21:53 AM

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I started as a sub with an internet Dom. Having him tell me that He was with me always, knew my every thought, was in my head with me no matter what, combined with doing tasks for him, was enough to put me into subspace.

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RE: First time in Subspace? - 2/12/2008 12:55:19 AM

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I started as a sub with an internet Dom. Having him tell me that He was with me always, knew my every thought, was in my head with me no matter what, combined with doing tasks for him, was enough to put me into subspace.

Over the internet, huh? Didn't expect that but it's nice to see that there's such a variety of ways of getting it.

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RE: First time in Subspace? - 2/12/2008 4:10:22 AM

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Yes, that's why we ended the D/s relationship. I wanted to see him in person; he preferred internet only. I needed someone to actually touch me. However, it did teach me that the power of words is enough for some relationships, and since have had some very devoted internet subs.

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RE: First time in Subspace? - 2/12/2008 4:41:53 AM

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August 17, 2003, my first SM experience... it was like coming home

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RE: First time in Subspace? - 2/12/2008 7:09:13 AM

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when i met my Dom for the first time in real life. as soon as i saw him i immediately felt very comfortable, and in our introductory 'chat' i just fell into subspace and gradually lost the ability (or rather, the desire) to use language.

i didn't find out until over a month later reading here what that state of mind was, that it was probably subspace.

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RE: First time in Subspace? - 2/12/2008 9:26:20 AM

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This past fall, as She became so skillful with rattan canes. The thin whippy one. After an hour of gradual warm up, She delivered several hard, welt-raising strikes. I would never have imagined I could take such, let alone crave them. When She was done, I just laid there, under the blanket, floating and unable to speak. My whole body relaxed and for the first time I was completely comfortable with all of me. And felt completely under Her control.

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RE: First time in Subspace? - 2/12/2008 10:00:34 AM

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Almost a year ago, and don't ask for details. I don't remember much of it except a beer bottle and palying with myself in a public bar.

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RE: First time in Subspace? - 2/12/2008 12:20:53 PM

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I don't know that date but it was roughly a little less then 2 years ago i never really experienced a deep state of subspace until i was with my Master. Almost 2 years later he still has the ability to get me there easily. Thank God for aftercare.

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RE: First time in Subspace? - 2/12/2008 6:48:48 PM

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Six years ago with my kind of kinky boyfriend. He would play with me until as I put it back then 'I felt like I was on vicadin.'

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RE: First time in Subspace? - 2/12/2008 10:56:34 PM

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It was through a punishment spanking that after the 3rd implement, out of 8, i just couldn't feel my bottom being punished anymore and i went limp. i think my Dom was a little confused since i do move around a lot during punishments, but yet at the same time he knew where i was (mind and head wise).

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RE: First time in Subspace? - 2/15/2008 1:23:13 PM

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Almost a year ago, and don't ask for details. I don't remember much of it except a beer bottle and palying with myself in a public bar.

haha this made me crack up

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RE: First time in Subspace? - 2/16/2008 7:52:37 AM

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it was many, many, many years ago and it had nothing to do with what we were doing at the time, and everything to do with the fact that for the first time ever in my life, i felt free enough to let go of everything and just be.

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RE: First time in Subspace? - 2/16/2008 3:29:07 PM

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Today! ::blushes:: didn't even know what it was until I asked him. He so calmly said "that's what they call subspace my dear". What brought me there is slightly blurry. Changing between gentle touches and painful slaps and orders... Never felt anything like this.

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