ocilla -> RE: The submissive is not getting enough "play time"... (2/21/2008 12:14:15 AM)
A combo of Tammyjo's response of a sub communicating and actively working with and collaborating with the Dom(me) to manage the obstacles is a great approach. Sometimes the needs do not match up though and in such a case I think termsandconditions approach is a good one...And I also have no problem arranging or being open too my sub being topped or played by another person with my permission and such.
crouchingtigress -> RE: The submissive is not getting enough "play time"... (2/21/2008 12:46:33 AM)
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What is the proper way for a submissive to ask for more play?
humbly, nakedly, transperantly and not attached to an outcome.
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Or should a submissive not ask for more?
no i think there always needs to be a door way to ask for needs, we are not mind readers and unanswered needs easily fester.