RE: The submissive is not getting enough "play time"... (Full Version)

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ocilla -> RE: The submissive is not getting enough "play time"... (2/21/2008 12:14:15 AM)

A combo of Tammyjo's response of a sub communicating and actively working with and collaborating with the Dom(me) to manage the obstacles is a great approach.  Sometimes the needs do not match up though and in such a case I think termsandconditions approach is a good one...And I also have no problem arranging or being open too my sub being topped or played by another person with my permission and such.  




crouchingtigress -> RE: The submissive is not getting enough "play time"... (2/21/2008 12:46:33 AM)

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What is the proper way for a submissive to ask for more play? 


humbly, nakedly, transperantly and not attached to an outcome.

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Or should a submissive not ask for more?


no i think there always needs to be a door way to ask for needs, we are not mind readers and unanswered needs easily fester.





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