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sweetwenchie -> RE: Anal Play? (2/17/2008 9:36:48 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Noah
I'm curious after seeing two posters suggest that sexual activity and D/s are mutually exclusive categories.
Has sexual activity nothing to do with D/s? Then how about, say, Cooking? Eating? Playing? Travelling? Dressing? Undressing? Doing Laundry? Gardening? Which ones have anything (really) to do with D/s, as you see it?
To me each of them does if it is undertaken by the s at the behest of the D. I think D/s is a matter of the will. One submits her will to another (your pronouns may vary). But matters of the will are often, perhaps usually, manifested in behavior. That's where the "having to do with" comes in.
If getting laundry done can be conceived as submissive, is it such a stretch to conceive of getting your rump done as submissive?
my point was that you can have anal sex without it being D/s, you can have anal sex and it has everything to do with D/s. Anal sex, or any sexual activity, in and of itself is not reserved for those in this thing we do. Neither is day to day chores such as cleaning and cooking. It is the reason behind the actions that make it D/s or not.
just my own thoughts and how i view such matters. i certainly do not expect all to see things as i do, nor would i want that.
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