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MsBearlee -> RE: toilet training (2/20/2008 5:16:29 AM)

I like the idea of my boy sitting to pee.  There are a bunch of reasons I like it, the main one being every time he has to go to pee, he remembers that he's mine and gets to 'suffer' the little humiliation of my control as well as the little joy of doing for me as I ask.  I believe it's good for both of us.  If he's out and about, he can pass on the urinal and use the seat...there are actual toilets in the men's room!
 
But I also like the idea because regardless of the aim...a stream coursing into a bowl of water...SPLASHES!
 
I suppose, for a man, having to sit to pee is a bit inconvienent (but surely no more than for a woman), but submissives are always begging for more 'play time'; additional ways to make them feel used or controled, more ways for them to experience yielding to another, still more ways to keep that 'head space' they enjoy.  Of course, I'd also insist they blot when they're finished, which ramps all the above up another notch.
 
It's all good,
MsB
...who wonders how many would be surprised to discover 'watersports' includes sitting to pee!  LMAO



WalterRego -> RE: toilet training (2/20/2008 5:59:49 AM)

Ms. Bearlee, a few years ago I learned that watersports included a lot of things I  was surprized at and had never heard of, or could even imagine why anyone liked. I only spent one weekend with her (long story, it was planned that way) but a few years ago I flew out to LA to see a woman for a whole other type of scene. When we went out to eat, she kept on encouraging me to drink more and more water. I thought she was a water health freak (you know, cleanses the system). When we were going to leave the restaurant I wanted to stop at the men's room but she said no and gave me a look.

Then she took me to her office building (which was closed at night but she had the key). She took me into a Ladies Room, into a stall.  She started making out with me, kissing etc. I was getting pretty nervous, wondering if I was going to be a headline the next day. But all I really wanted to do was pee. She was insistent, not yet,  not yet. Finally I told her I couldn't wait or would piss in my pants. She turned me around and standing behind me, she unbuttoned, unzipped and pulled my jeans and underwear down and then she held "it' while I peed. She also told me a few times to "stop" and then "start" again. And she even did the airplane straif the pink battleship deodorant game with my by then seemingly endless stream.

It was very strange and for me, totally non sexual. I guess for her it was a combination power trip, role reversal thing.



MsBearlee -> RE: toilet training (2/20/2008 7:33:49 AM)

Ahhhhhhhhh, well walter, it sounds like you're having fun.  What galls me is when people, and they do it all the time, come up in their little minds with what they imagine something is...and then tell the world how disgusting such a thing is and that they want no part of anything about it!
 
I like watersports and have been playing that way since my 30's...years and years before I discovered BDSM.  It's usually warm, wet, nasty and yet intimate fun (good clean fun, even).  It's everything from telling your partner how and when they will pee to having one ingest it, I suppose.  But there is so, so much inbetween those ideas. 
 
Again...everything is relative!  (Just like a crop can be used to gently slap and rythmically warm up a butt OR it can be used with very long, hard swings that mark up a bottom just like a cane or a floger can be made to feel like a delicious massage or it can be used to leave just as delicious bloody welts on a bottom.)
 
It's all good,
MsB



WalterRego -> RE: toilet training (2/20/2008 10:38:40 AM)

Ms. Bearlee, I still have a few (personal to me) hard limit squick activities, but I've been amazed over the years at how many things which I couldn't have imagined doing, when for some reason I wound up doing  them or were done to me, were  just fine. Much more than fine. I 've not done much if at all watersports and wish I knew more Dominants into it the way you seem to be, who don't confine it to one thing or type of play or emotion.

We always tend to catagorize things and types of play as one thing or another. Or say that "x' is humiliation, "y" is sensation. So often they may be those, but may also be something entirely different to the people engaged in them. I'd always believed that puppy play was "humiliation". But when a wonderful Mistress wanted to try it, it turned out to be one of the sweetest, warmest most loving things I'd ever experienced as a sub. Even lapping water from a dish on the floor, I'd never felt so loved and treasured in my life. And I gave that back to her in performing every trick and command with the  unconditional love, trust and desire to please of a puppy.  It became a favorite for years and even after we were no longer together, I happily agreed to be her pup for a demo of puppy play at a local club.



DiannaVesta -> RE: toilet training (2/20/2008 12:32:25 PM)

I really enjoy it but also consider it a special and sacred thing. I will piss on cock & balls, body parts, etc. but any time I mix any body fluids its only with a personal slave and serious relationship.



MsBearlee -> RE: toilet training (2/20/2008 12:33:32 PM)

 
Awesome!  Ain't growth fun?
 
Be happy,
MsB

Edited to add: 
Isn't it interesting how different we all are...considering our similarities?  As much as I enjoy watersports (and I do), I wouldn't be pissing on cock & balls or any other body part...unless I was with a personal slave/submissive with whom I had an intimate and serious relationship.  Just me...



laceruffles -> RE: toilet training (3/5/2008 11:15:16 AM)

was never into watersports until i was online serving a Domme and She forced me to pee all over myself. did it a lot after that until i got tired oif doing laundry all the time. i am now very much into bathroom use control but have found that many Dommes get mad or even disgusted when a sub asks Them permission to use the bathroom.



hopelesslyInvo -> RE: toilet training (3/5/2008 2:45:16 PM)

it's not something on my mind very often.  but for the sake of my 2 cents, my thoughts differ a bit than others seem to on what is harder, i'd find it a hell of a lot easier to have the abstract "domme's" urine in my mouth than i would semen.  but people seem more leaning to vicing my versa.  as for the other notion............ yeah, you just get more dots dot dot dot ..... ...dot .... i got dots for days .........



spike19 -> RE: toilet training (3/5/2008 10:48:41 PM)

This may not come as a surprise to anyone who has spoken with me here, but when I think of toilet training it's a HUGE grey area.
Toilet training could be being given the right to use the toilet at all (otherwise being forced/told to use diapers for pee only (I don't do scat unless it's some punishment for something I really deserve and I do my best to avoid that at most costs)).

Toilet training if taken from a very open minded perspective can be thought of as the very first step of training, so I suppose my question to you is this:

Where are you starting from?



MsBearlee -> RE: toilet training (4/7/2008 8:34:48 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHathor

he sits to pee, end of story, ridiculous that in this day and age a man has to stand and play whizzing for dollars--

as for Me, My time in the privy is privy.  


I couldn't agree more...on both counts.  Well, unless we happen to be playing and I feel like peeing on him or in him.  LOL  
 
But yeah, I prefer having my guy sit to pee.  In the act, they cannot help but remember their station in life, huh?   Besides, there is less splashage (speaking of ick!)
 
And, likes2...you crack me up!  That was a funny comment!  True, but funny.
 
MsB



MistressOfGa -> RE: toilet training (4/7/2008 8:51:22 AM)

quote:

she would press her head against the door from the outside and whimper
 
That would be enough for me. There is nothing better than hearing a sub whimper and paw [sm=afraid.gif]



Susancrane -> RE: toilet training (4/7/2008 10:07:10 AM)

When I move on to toilet training, my boy has to sit down to use the toilet himself.  This is simply a control thing and is a regular reminder of our relationship.  He also cleans me when I have used the toilet.  He is instructed to lie on the floor in the toilet with his head near my feet.  When I have finished using the toilet I move and squat over his face and he uses his tongue to clean me.  When I am satisfied with his efforts he kneels and replaces my pants then I leave him to flush the loo and put the lid down.  I think this is very effective in helping him understand the nature of our relationship.
 
I don't do scat and I would not be involved with someone who had or who had allowed himself to be used by multiple partners.  I would be far too concerned that if he cared so little for his own health he may show equal lack of care for mine.
 
Susan 



Pyrrsefanie -> RE: toilet training (4/7/2008 10:29:35 AM)

I'll just be happy when I can train him to use air freshner after he drops a deuce.  [8|]

Seriously, just because he has no sense of smell doesn't mean the rest of us have to suffer....



pupofMoGa -> RE: toilet training (4/7/2008 6:33:45 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

quote:

she would press her head against the door from the outside and whimper
 
That would be enough for me. There is nothing better than hearing a sub whimper and paw [sm=afraid.gif]


<scratches and whimpers at the door, waiting for Mistress to allow me enter the room>



KindLadyGrey -> RE: toilet training (4/7/2008 6:41:39 PM)

If I ever played with a submissive who was not toilet trained, I'd drop him like a bad habit. No way I'm gonna have boys pissing on my carpet, no matter how cute they are. I have two children and I already change their diapers, so that ain't happenin either. If you haven't learned how to use the poddy yet, you got issues.

;)

Oh, is that not what you were talking about?

Nevermind.



liks2plzlf -> RE: toilet training (4/7/2008 10:09:07 PM)

But Ms B
  Its true. A vanilla gf taught me that. It doesn't seem fair that the ladies don't put the seat up when their through. Why do the women always win!!



MsBearlee -> RE: toilet training (4/8/2008 5:51:42 AM)

Ladies don't put the seat UP when they are through, because both the seat AND the lid belong down! 
 
It cracks me up when I see shows regarding people trying to sell their homes and when the agent comes through to view the home, they actually show bathrooms with either or both the lid and seat up; it looks messy and uninviting. 
 
I go into the bathroom for more than using the toilet...what makes anyone think looking deep into the bowels of a toilet is appetizing when brushing teeth?  Ugg
 
Keep both the seat AND the lid down... or you'd be using a litter box in the mud-room, instead!
 
MsB



GoddessTeaze -> RE: toilet training (4/8/2008 7:24:39 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: irishdan

taughts on this? is it safe? do dommes enjoy it? do males?

I'll b happy to finally feed My slut
in May when Wwe meet again.
It will be a first for Me !!!
he is afraid he will drop it [:D]
I will be having so much fun :D
Can't wait for it!

Have a good one Yyou Aall!

GoddezzT`





spike19 -> RE: toilet training (4/9/2008 8:31:28 PM)

I could say so very much about this..., I love this website...



Leatherist -> RE: toilet training (4/9/2008 8:35:57 PM)

The last girl who told me to put the seat DOWN in MY house got to spend her weekend in diapers.



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