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RE: The way of the Dom - 10/10/2005 8:29:33 AM   
IronBear


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ORIGINAL: JustaTop

How about the Kevlar underwear as well?


No that goes with the stainless steel jockstraps with sub/slave proof locks as required in the "Ask a Master Forum" "sub = sheep........" Thread. besides do you really want to have Six scratching his balls all the time??????

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RE: The way of the Dom - 10/10/2005 8:33:15 AM   
JustaTop


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Status: offline 		I just suggested keeping them intact from the predation of "dominos" guy.

(entimology of "domino"- domi=Domme/minor- with a tendency to always want things thier way (no)-often poses as a submissive sheep for camoflage purposes) It also not only refers to game pieces (more games, again?), but to a small mask that only partially conceals the face of the wearer.

But as far as Six goes,self maintanence is HIS problem,not mine!

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RE: The way of the Dom - 10/10/2005 9:06:24 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SirSix72

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ORIGINAL: CaptCraig

Yo Fury, you beat me to it, but don't you agree, not a bad shot for a 23 year old. The thing that got me was the underlying theme,"I thought I was a Dom but I have just been dumped, told off, insulted, exposed.....or whatever.....by a sub and here I am wallowing in self pity."
When I was 23 I had just read the "Story of O" with a perpetual hard on and that was 39 years ago. Man have I learned a lot since then. At 23 I couldn't have been a Dom even under hypnosis but I thought I was. Ah youth, the problem is it's wasted on the young. But keep a stiff upper and forge ahead...Excelsior!


Must be hard on you man with the weight that chip on your shoulder weighs,,it dosent matter the age or the sex it is the emotional makeup of an individual...........I have seen 60 year olds act like children under the age of three.......age is but a number

Master Six


No chip here young pup, must be the mote in your own eye. You obviously fit the profile of a know it all. Time will straighten you out, you'll see. In the meantime here's a hint, don't get too hung up on emotional makeup.

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RE: The way of the Dom - 10/10/2005 11:00:34 AM   
Wolfie648


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If we had a spell checker on site, then what version of English would it be in?? Bet your bottom bippy that it would be in US English.. Naaaa I'll stay with Word, I have it set to Australian English. Sheesh man just how much longer does it take you to write in word and do a cut & paste???


I would only hope the spell checker would be US English (I am Canadian btw ;-). Extra u's area waste of time and inconvenient - as is switching between Word and my browser.

:-)

D (owner of j)

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RE: The way of the Dom - 10/10/2005 11:14:13 AM   
ownedjulia


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Do we chase? Or is chasing something a Dom does not do?
Whatever you enjoy doing is what you do as a dom.


Damn right.

In my mind a dom does what he wants, how he wants, when he wants and he doesn't give a toss.



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RE: The way of the Dom - 10/10/2005 11:15:19 AM   
SirSix72


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Status: offline 		Nah not a know it all.........I dont suffer from the Top's disease.....unlike alot here on the forum boards.....emotional maturity has something to say about a person's integrity............im not quite as uneducated as you might find me either........im a realist............maybe I misunderstood you but from the way you jump around the boards picking out someone else's opinon and giving your thoughts on where they are wrong and you are right gives the impression that maybe you are a Dogmatist....I would think that you life experience on the subject matter of the thread would be better appericiated....you tried to bait me then flame me which I really dont mind if you would like a pissing contest I dont mind that either but if you decide not to look at the facts laid out before you then you truly are a Dogmatist....maybe some self reflection would be helpful....I tewnd to do it alot.....as far as me being a young pup I had mentors from both aspects of this lifestyle so I dont come here uninformed about the information or life experience that I commment on pertainng to the threads.........

Master Six

lmao at Iron Bear and JustaTop you guys help me to find the amusement in life sometimes......some of these people need to just learn to live a littel a laugh

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RE: The way of the Dom - 10/10/2005 11:21:21 AM   
Guest
 Please leave the personal attacks off forum.Please read the TOS.
And lets leave condecending tones in private.

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RE: The way of the Dom - 10/10/2005 11:34:27 AM   
IronBear


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ORIGINAL: SirSix72

lmao at Iron Bear and JustaTop you guys help me to find the amusement in life sometimes......some of these people need to just learn to live a littel a laugh


As a psych major (as I seem to remember), you are well aware of the value of humour as I am. I find that in many forums, something humourous by one or twp oeople, often helps to pour oil on troubles waters and soothe the raging beast. It is a tad hard to remain too angry if you are laughing at some sillines perpetrrated by some who love taking the micky out of themselves and the situation.... I'm glad my friend you say the sillyness and were amused. Dont forget your new custom soap box minus kevelar undies.

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RE: The way of the Dom - 10/10/2005 11:41:15 AM   
SirSix72


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Status: offline 		I can agree with you my freind IronBear, laughter brings energy and helps to ease a days worries........Im glad that I have found friends such as yourself and JustaTop...........lifee tends to be a lot more fun with the two of you around to post here with many others that I have met from the message boards.....I would like to think that we all bring a little reality to those that are uninformed and those that would like to bring their life experience here for us all to read and get to know each and every one a little better than you would playing in a chatroom where sometimes Drama rules the day

Master Six

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RE: The way of the Dom - 10/10/2005 11:41:22 AM   
IronBear


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ORIGINAL: CaptCraig

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ORIGINAL: SirSix72

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ORIGINAL: CaptCraig

Yo Fury, you beat me to it, but don't you agree, not a bad shot for a 23 year old. The thing that got me was the underlying theme,"I thought I was a Dom but I have just been dumped, told off, insulted, exposed.....or whatever.....by a sub and here I am wallowing in self pity."
When I was 23 I had just read the "Story of O" with a perpetual hard on and that was 39 years ago. Man have I learned a lot since then. At 23 I couldn't have been a Dom even under hypnosis but I thought I was. Ah youth, the problem is it's wasted on the young. But keep a stiff upper and forge ahead...Excelsior!


Must be hard on you man with the weight that chip on your shoulder weighs,,it dosent matter the age or the sex it is the emotional makeup of an individual...........I have seen 60 year olds act like children under the age of three.......age is but a number

Master Six


No chip here young pup, must be the mote in your own eye. You obviously fit the profile of a know it all. Time will straighten you out, you'll see. In the meantime here's a hint, don't get too hung up on emotional makeup.


CC, your a cantancerous old fart just like I am what say we let the young pups keep on digging up bones, run about barking at everything as is the want of pups as they find their way.. Sure they'll gave a grizzle at old ones but that to is something we did when we were younger.. If the truth be known, we probably were worse that they are now.. Some times it's more satisfying to look at a new bone/er and inspect a new piece of tempting ass and not let on what we have found.... Cheers mate if you were closer I'd slip a can of Fosters in your paw...

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Your attitude, words & actions are yours. Take responsibility for them and the consequences they incur.

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RE: The way of the Dom - 10/10/2005 11:43:03 AM   
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ORIGINAL: IronBear
Some times it's more satisfying to look at a new bone/er and inspect a new piece of tempting ass and not let on what we have found.... Cheers mate if you were closer I'd slip a can of Fosters in your paw...

As if we don't know...

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RE: The way of the Dom - 10/10/2005 11:47:10 AM   
IronBear


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ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2


quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear
Some times it's more satisfying to look at a new bone/er and inspect a new piece of tempting ass and not let on what we have found.... Cheers mate if you were closer I'd slip a can of Fosters in your paw...

As if we don't know...


<tries to look innocent> Awwww Em, now I'm confuzzled.. Are you refering to the bone/er, piece of ass or the can of Fosters? You want to join in? sheesh I'll share which ever one you were think on or the whole lot if you like....


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RE: The way of the Dom - 10/10/2005 12:35:23 PM   
ExistentialSteel


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Status: offline 		As a relatively new poster, it seems that we are all too ready to jump on a particular poster’s comments about the way he/she lives D/s in attempts to look wise, powerful and omni scientific. On the one hand, we all say we believe in to each his own, but in our posts we will dissect a post with snide comments about age…young I particularly notice…types of relationship or whatever, often neglecting the original poster’s point. I think we would all rally around an outside attack on any particular method of the lifestyle, but we tend to forget the same loyalty when on the message board. Is this just me or do others see this too? (Ha, I can’t wait for the deluges of “it is me.”)

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RE: The way of the Dom - 10/10/2005 12:42:52 PM   
JustaTop


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Status: offline 		Well I don't have any hair left to tear out (I even shave my head now) so the only alternative is to laugh!

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RE: The way of the Dom - 10/10/2005 12:43:59 PM   
JustaTop


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Status: offline 		Naw,it's more that some people have a fetish for ornyness. Try not to take it too seriously-it only leads to ulcers.

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RE: The way of the Dom - 10/10/2005 3:53:05 PM   
LordODiscipline


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ORIGINAL: IronBear

Don't EVER make a statement like that whereby some may immagine I'm included in it... I would see that as a gross insult.


Um - I did not and I would not... (not sure why this is in response to my posting).

~J

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RE: The way of the Dom - 10/10/2005 4:04:30 PM   
slvruncrn69


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Status: offline 		Would LOVE to share a Fosters and a good gut renching laugh. (I am loooong overdue)

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RE: The way of the Dom - 10/10/2005 6:04:30 PM   
CaptCraig


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ORIGINAL: IronBear


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ORIGINAL: CaptCraig

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ORIGINAL: SirSix72

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ORIGINAL: CaptCraig

Yo Fury, you beat me to it, but don't you agree, not a bad shot for a 23 year old. The thing that got me was the underlying theme,"I thought I was a Dom but I have just been dumped, told off, insulted, exposed.....or whatever.....by a sub and here I am wallowing in self pity."
When I was 23 I had just read the "Story of O" with a perpetual hard on and that was 39 years ago. Man have I learned a lot since then. At 23 I couldn't have been a Dom even under hypnosis but I thought I was. Ah youth, the problem is it's wasted on the young. But keep a stiff upper and forge ahead...Excelsior!


Must be hard on you man with the weight that chip on your shoulder weighs,,it dosent matter the age or the sex it is the emotional makeup of an individual...........I have seen 60 year olds act like children under the age of three.......age is but a number

Master Six


No chip here young pup, must be the mote in your own eye. You obviously fit the profile of a know it all. Time will straighten you out, you'll see. In the meantime here's a hint, don't get too hung up on emotional makeup.


CC, your a cantancerous old fart just like I am what say we let the young pups keep on digging up bones, run about barking at everything as is the want of pups as they find their way.. Sure they'll gave a grizzle at old ones but that to is something we did when we were younger.. If the truth be known, we probably were worse that they are now.. Some times it's more satisfying to look at a new bone/er and inspect a new piece of tempting ass and not let on what we have found.... Cheers mate if you were closer I'd slip a can of Fosters in your paw...

Right you are mate, I like the cut of your jib, I had you figured as someone who has been on the pointy end but screw the Fosters, I like a bitter ale with a shot glass of rum dropped in, just to make it full bodied :)
I am a sarcastic old bastard and I earned it. I once asked a less than nimble student as we were performing a manoeuvre at M 1.5+, which hand he used to wipe his ass with, surprisingly, he responded,” My left" So I said, "No wonder you can't fly this fucking airplane, I have control." devil made me do it. A really good instructor never ever uses sarcasm and ridicule without a modicum of fear thrown in for good measure. Remember my motto, Old age and treachery will beat youth and skill every time.
I'm really just a snarling marshmallow, really! Just look at my picture, don't I look like a harmless fuzz ball?

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RE: The way of the Dom - 10/10/2005 9:23:19 PM   
IronBear


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ORIGINAL: LordODiscipline


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ORIGINAL: IronBear

Don't EVER make a statement like that whereby some may immagine I'm included in it... I would see that as a gross insult.


Um - I did not and I would not... (not sure why this is in response to my posting).

~J



G'day LoD,

Nope, I know you wouldn't. I was replying to the Op who made the following statement which you had highlighted in your post immediatly prior to mine (hence my post showed me replying to you.

quote:

For in this, we are truly nothing without those who consider themselves our subs/slaves. As every person needs air to breathe, we as Dominants owe our existance to the very ones that make up our other half, our submissives. For what are we without them? And vice versa.


Sorry for the confusion.

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RE: The way of the Dom - 10/27/2005 12:27:04 PM   
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I usually won’t buy into the age thing for the simple reason that in most cases people of the same age have a large spread (no not legs) of experience and MATURITY. I remember being a highly trained (by the Australia and the US Armies) Spec. Forces Combat Officer. I landed in ‘Nam with confidence BUT I had the brains to be educated by a couple of Master Sgts both doing their third tour. They weren’t “Old” in years but sheesh they were far older in experience. They took the time to take my green carcass and hone it and show me my trade.

So if you forget the chronological age bit and look to the experience and maturity age, then the “old” dog will run rings about a puppy every day. Why? Because he knows all the tricks and safe shortcuts and wear the pup out and then walk up and nip the youngster in the arse with impunity. Bit like the tale of the Old Bull and the Young Bull isn’t it?

IronBear


i find myself able to see myself more clearly now, at 52, than ever before. Such insight means i can break old patterns and be open to what i seek, rather than pushing such Men away. i feel so much lighter, able to be funny and safe...all through my own doing...it is a source of pride i did not expect to feel.

pinkpleasures

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