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ORIGINAL: MsCfromMelbourne

I know there are many beautiful Egyptian Mistresses.  Is she Egyptian?  If not, you two might have some language difficulties.  Your English is not bad, by the way.

Is she coming to Alexandria or are you travelling to her?  Or you both live in Alex?  If you are travelling to her, can I suggest you travel with a friend.  The friend should be your "safe call", so you can call someone to rescue you if the Mistress turns out to be a bad person. 

You should not let her take you somewhere strange or tie you up unless you really trust her.  You might be robbed by her boyfriend or worse.  This has happened in Australia so it might happen in Egypt.

You might actually like the pain.  You will never know until you try it.  Impact play is much more sensual than , say, dropping a brick on your toe.  But as others have said, she should give you a safeword like "red".  And make sure you can run away if she does not stop.

I hope she is everything you hope for, but sadly some people do not tell the truth over the internet.    

Many years ago, my submissive fell deeply in love with a Mistress online who said she was a single, 26 year old policewoman in real life.  After months of adoring her, she told him to go to a place to finally meet.  He waited and waited for hours, but she never came.

Later she admitted she was in the cafe the whole time, watching him from another table.  She was 46 not 26 and her husband was a policeman, not her.  She was just a bored housewife who wanted some kinky romance over the internet.  My submissive was heartbroken. 

I really hope this does not happen to you.

What should you give your new owner when you meet?  Has she suggested you must have a gift?  If not, some flowers would be a nice gift in my culture, but I cannot advise you what is appropriate in Egypt.  I have only spent a month in your country.  Perhaps something handmade such a peice of pottery from your home town would be a nice gift if she is visiting from another country or you are visitingher outside Egypt. 

I personally love those sleek ceramic cat statues and you do not have to get the expensive kind.  She will not know the difference! 

If she is a foreigner visiting you, you could offer to take her to museums and sightseeing.  Her visit does not have to be all about her doing BDSM things to you in her hotel room.  She will probably like you more if you are a gentleman and (pretend!) you do not expect her to play with you at all.

Good luck