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RE: first time buying anal toys - 2/20/2008 2:05:02 AM

Lorelei115

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ORIGINAL: bigtrouble1

(i'm a guy)

so i'd like to have my first session with a domina very soon. but i'd rather have my own toys. if i'm a total beginner and i wanna buy some toys for assplay what would you recommend?

i know things have to go slow, but i am (at least i think i am) interested in strap-ons, vibrating toys, and the possibility of being prostate milked.

also, whats the best way to not be nervous about buying this stuff in public? (i'm living abroad and ordering by mail isnt an option)

You can try some smaller size anal beads or a very slim vibrator. If you want to do some prostate play you can get a slim vibe with a slight curve at the end, like a woman's "g spot" vibrator.

As someone else said, don't forget LOTS and LOTS of lube. I forget who said it, but "If it's not dripping off the ceiling you're not using enough."

There is no way to not be nervous. But you can either let the fear dictate what you will do, or you can overcome it. Just remember... these people have literally seen it ALL and honestly they could care less what you are buying those anal beads for.

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RE: first time buying anal toys - 2/20/2008 4:58:14 AM

MissLily

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Hi,
If you're a beginer, START SMALL, no matter what your fantasies are. If you want to get to live them, you're going to learn to take things up your tush. Lots and lots of lube will help.

Your trainer should understand that since you're virgin, She should go small, get you used to have something inserted and all that.

As for shopping, I'm pretty the Stockroom.com will ship anywhere. Hell, they even ship in Canada! And they have really cool stuff. But I've been around the Internet shopping too, and shipping really is not an issue.

Good luck!

Miss Lily

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