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Paulsgirl -> RE: what is cuckholding and SCA (2/19/2008 11:16:36 AM)
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ORIGINAL: novice7
dear Sirs and Mistress' can someone please tell me what cuckolding and SCA is thank any who might enlighten me
Adapted from Informed Consent:
A cuckold (or cuck) referred to a married man with a sexually unfaithful wife. In current usage it refers to non-married couples as well, although the common and traditional meaning was a man who was a victim of his wife's adultery.
The term has acquired additional meanings among sexual fetishists, referring to couples where a dominant female takes on additional partners, while a submissive male is either monogamous to her, denied sex altogether, or only allowed to perform a restricted range of sex acts with her.
However cuckolding is now not gender specific: it may also be part of the practice of male dominant-female submissive couples. A submissive wife may be "naughty" with another man with her husband's knowledge and permission, then return to tell him about the betrayal and submit to punishment from the husband.
Cuckolding among female-dominant couples differs from the original definition of cuckolding in that many of these men are "voluntarily" "cuckolded" by their Dommes, as part of the submissive's sexual fantasy of gaining sexual pleasure from being humiliated; indeed, the submissive may even be the instigator of this practice, raising questions about who is truly the dominant partner.
In the fantasy realm, the wife of a cuckold is sometimes referred to as a hotwife. In a broader context, the contrast between a cuckold and bull is sometimes used to summarize an individual's personality or behaviour; the male third party, or "bull" representing an aggressive alpha male and the cuckold suggesting vulnerability.
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