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Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 1:14:35 AM   
StormsSlave


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Status: offline 		My Love gets a lot of messages from other "doms."  This, in of itself, doesn't piss me off.  What does piss me off is the attitude.  It is the attitude that as a dom they somehow have some sort of right over My love, and consequently an assumption over me, though she has openly stated in her profile that she is mine, as I am hers.

The tone of these messages is that my love must submit to them, as she is a sub, and therefore their sub.

Has anyone else experienced this, and does it not piss you off?  How do you deal with that?

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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 1:17:46 AM   
PrizedPosession


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Status: offline 		Master blocks them. End of story lol.
A lot of people have tried and it gets irritating but He smiles because He know that He gets me and no one else does even though they want it. It's like You said the attitude is the irritating part. But just ignore them and/or block them if after you make it clear that she is owned they still continue.
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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 1:39:41 AM   
Rayne58


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Since I changed my profile to a couple, the number of asshat messages has dropped off to virtually none.  You might want to consider doing that

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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 1:41:13 AM   
Lorelei115


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Status: offline 		A lot of people who respond like that tend to not even read profiles. *shrug* Don't let it get to you, just ignore and move on.

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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 1:45:21 AM   
SailingBum


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quote:

ORIGINAL: StormsSlave

My Love gets a lot of messages from other "doms."  This, in of itself, doesn't piss me off.  What does piss me off is the attitude.  It is the attitude that as a dom they somehow have some sort of right over My love, and consequently an assumption over me, though she has openly stated in her profile that she is mine, as I am hers.

The tone of these messages is that my love must submit to them, as she is a sub, and therefore their sub.

Has anyone else experienced this, and does it not piss you off?  How do you deal with that?

Edited and posted on behalf of  MyLord.


naaaa that is so far down on my piss me off  list it doesn't even hit my radar screen.

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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 2:06:56 AM   
crouchingtigress


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Status: offline 		no....too much energy....for too little payoff.

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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 3:37:48 AM   
smilezz


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Status: offline 		I don't give people that much power over me. Words can only hurt you if you allow them too. While I have fallen into a battle or twelve here and there, what people say about Thorns or i holds no water...in other words:

It's online, It's the world wide web, It's e-mail....etc., etc, etc. and all this from a pixel on the screen that I have never met....so what's to be pissed off about?

It has nothing to do with how Thorns and i live our lives.


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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 3:42:44 AM   
OldBastardly1


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Status: offline 		Nope. Doesn't piss me off at all. It seems to be no more than a trivial annoyance, sometimes a source of humor.

OP, do you have issues with feeling inadequate? When you were a kid, did a bully take your lunch from you?
I hope this helps.

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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 3:42:47 AM   
laurell3


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Status: offline 		Nah...what's the old adage?  Some things you can improve upon, stupidity is rarely one of them.  I pretty much feel sorry for people like that, anger would be wasted on them.

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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 4:08:45 AM   
Justme696


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quote:

ORIGINAL: StormsSlave

My Love gets a lot of messages from other "doms."  This, in of itself, doesn't piss me off.  What does piss me off is the attitude.  It is the attitude that as a dom they somehow have some sort of right over My love, and consequently an assumption over me, though she has openly stated in her profile that she is mine, as I am hers.

The tone of these messages is that my love must submit to them, as she is a sub, and therefore their sub.

Has anyone else experienced this, and does it not piss you off?  How do you deal with that?

Edited and posted on behalf of  MyLord.


Yes it pisses me off...but I dislike it done to every one....  my girl can handle it herself..and afther she responds...mostly they are gone.


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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 4:30:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		It doesn't piss us off. I read them to my Sir and he tells me to either delete or give him hell.

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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 4:45:35 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		I used to love when my subs got those kind of letters. It gave me a chance to play mind games with the idiots.

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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 5:06:57 AM   
TysGalilah


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quote:

ORIGINAL: StormsSlave

My Love gets a lot of messages from other "doms."  This, in of itself, doesn't piss me off.  What does piss me off is the attitude.  It is the attitude that as a dom they somehow have some sort of right over My love, and consequently an assumption over me, though she has openly stated in her profile that she is mine, as I am hers.

The tone of these messages is that my love must submit to them, as she is a sub, and therefore their sub.

Has anyone else experienced this, and does it not piss you off?  How do you deal with that?

Edited and posted on behalf of  MyLord.


...and so, not only can't they ( or dont they ) read, but they also don't live in reality......Yet, you are pissed at their approach.??
wasted energy.
What happens is> a troller types up a basic "email" that says what he wants  and then copies and pastes about 20 -40 of the tag names that "look submisssive enough for him"...hits the send button and waits for the responses to see who bites ...
.....oh wait   I left off LAZY in my description above.






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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 5:09:37 AM   
Bound2One


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Rayne58

*fast reply*
Since I changed my profile to a couple, the number of asshat messages has dropped off to virtually none.  You might want to consider doing that


Same here!

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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 5:19:22 AM   
ShiftedJewel


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Bound2One

quote:

ORIGINAL: Rayne58

*fast reply*
Since I changed my profile to a couple, the number of asshat messages has dropped off to virtually none.  You might want to consider doing that


Same here!


Yep, same here... our couple profile hasn't been looked at in years.
 
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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 5:29:53 AM   
breatheasone


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Rayne58

*fast reply*
Since I changed my profile to a couple, the number of asshat messages has dropped off to virtually none.  You might want to consider doing that

Same here....we get women emailing sometimes. but not men...well MAYBE 1 or 2 but really thats about it.... A Couples Profile will almost eliminate the problem



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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 5:50:00 AM   
sambamanslilgirl


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Status: offline 		it doesn't piss me off when other "dominants" try to woo me away from Daddy. i've heard it all from "He's not a real Daddy" to "I bet I can fuck you better than He can" to "Come away with me and live out your fantasy on an island paradise with me."  they do need to try harder - i don't come cheap!

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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 5:51:53 AM   
IrishMist


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You can block.
You can ignore.
You can delete.

But above all that.

You can NOT let some faceless piece of shit on a computer dictate how you will react to idiotic messages from a complete stranger.



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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 5:58:48 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		Comeon IrishMist. Just because they are a piece of shit dose'nt mean they don't have a face.

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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 6:01:07 AM   
Justme696


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Comeon IrishMist. Just because they are a piece of shit dose'nt mean they don't have a face.


yes agree,,they could have shit faces

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