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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 12:38:26 PM

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Damn, I'm no owner, neither am I owned, but I'm going to reply anyway, because it's one of my fave subjects ever. I've decided that the best thing is to fuck someone I love. Nothing like it, to me.

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 12:44:40 PM

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To me it is the person not the act. If your with a the right person, it is ALL making love. And yeah.....a cane CAN be used in foreplay...:)

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 12:45:42 PM

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To me it is the person not the act. If your with a the right person, it is ALL making love. And yeah.....a cane CAN be used in foreplay...:)

Jeff

such a sweet talker...

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 1:20:22 PM

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 1:22:16 PM

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Eh... in my opinion there is nothing "just" about great sex. Love making is wonderful, and it's something that we do but it's not our usual.

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 1:24:36 PM

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Ohhhhhhh this reminds me!! A woman that works for the other company here in the building is addicted to reading the celebritrash websites. She showed me a new "secretly" taped sex tape of Gene Simmons and some young model type that was NOT Shannon Tweed (his wife or whatever she is).

I wonder if old Gene is gonna call that "but honey it was just seeeeeeeexxxx............" as she calls her attorney....

They aren't married - he refuses to marry because of the "happily unmarried not unhappily married" thing, but my understanding is that she knows and doesn't care about his fucking. Which is why he's stayed with her.

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 1:51:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Ohhhhhhh this reminds me!! A woman that works for the other company here in the building is addicted to reading the celebritrash websites. She showed me a new "secretly" taped sex tape of Gene Simmons and some young model type that was NOT Shannon Tweed (his wife or whatever she is).

I wonder if old Gene is gonna call that "but honey it was just seeeeeeeexxxx............" as she calls her attorney....

They aren't married - he refuses to marry because of the "happily unmarried not unhappily married" thing, but my understanding is that she knows and doesn't care about his fucking. Which is why he's stayed with her.

That was my impression as well.

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 2:24:08 PM

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I make sex and just have love.

It's in the eye of the beholder, I think. I'm more likely to feel that sleepy sex (4 am stuff) is making love and hotter, faster, etc., is sex, but it's not "just sex."

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 2:30:34 PM

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I fuck.

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 2:41:00 PM

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 2:41:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: kittinSol

Damn, I'm no owner, neither am I owned, but I'm going to reply anyway, because it's one of my fave subjects ever. I've decided that the best thing is to fuck someone I love. Nothing like it, to me.

What kittinSol said.

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 2:44:02 PM

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I wish Master was here to answer this....I'm interested in what His response would be.

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 3:04:24 PM

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ORIGINAL: BOUNTYHUNTER

I am the type of owner that wants to enjoy my property to the fullest,I make love...The question came up in one of my lifestyle groups so I thought I would post it here....The question is to owners...Do you make love or is it just sex...Does it vary with you mood or what you are into at that moment.....BOUNTY

Not My Lord, or a master, but going to reply anyway.

The answer is YES! A loud resounding YES!! We make love, have sex, fuck, roll in the hay, stir up the sheets, do the mattress mambo...and many, many more!

For us, the sex is a fun thing. Even if we've had the worst day ever, we can at least get laid! At the end of a session, we are usually either both smiling, both asleep, or both!

In all seriousness, if I am in need of tenderness, I ask for it, and vice versa. Otherwise, we get into bed together and see what happens. Our sex life is very spontaneous, very exciting, and mostly, a lot of fun.

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 3:13:07 PM

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Otherwise, we get into bed together and see what happens. Our sex life is very spontaneous, very exciting, and mostly, a lot of fun.

LOL...I can TOTALLY relate to this...Master and I will about half way through our time together, suddenly remember we have toys and kink to play with TOO!.....LOL

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 3:47:35 PM

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I only make love....subsusie just melts when I explain how I'm about to "make love" to her ass and face.

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 4:00:19 PM

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Geez, Domi...and ya only said you'd tap my ass... should I be jealous?

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 4:37:14 PM

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I don't believe I have ever, just had sex..........okay, there was that one time.....

at band camp?

Bounty I really think it depends on whom you are with and the emotions of the moment as Omega's categories pointed out. I can tell you I've had rough, need-satisfying but very enjoyable sex with someone I was in love with and neither of us would have called it "making love." But yeah I personally wouldn't discount a cane as foreplay or pain as not being in the "making love" category.

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 5:04:39 PM

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It can be slow and easy on a rainy Saturday afternoon. It can be fast and rough up against the wall barely getting the door shut in time. It can start in the hallway and go to the kitchen to the living room to the bedroom to the balcony.... It can be a down and dirty quickie or it can be rough and tumble for hours.

It's all called fucking and it's fucking great!

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 5:07:45 PM

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Not a Dom or Owner here, but I think it all depends on the feelings and emotions you have toward your partner, the timing, the situation, lots of stuff. There's a time and place for making love, down and dirty sex, and just plain ole fucking.

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RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! - 2/20/2008 6:34:46 PM

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I do sex to get off.

It takes work to get my love.

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