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OmegaG -> RE: Is it making love or just sex!!! (2/20/2008 9:23:03 AM)
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I'm going to be lazy and post a blog I wrote a while ago:
In my opinion there are 3 distinctive ways of having intercourse, each type has it’s purpose for it nurtures a part of the essence that creates the whole, the balance. Though individual equations vary, every person needs some of each type of intercourse to achieve total fulfillment.
Making Love- the Soul; this is gentle intercourse, where the emotion is fed. This is the tender time, the soft caresses, the butterfly kisses. During this process the show of love is the prevailing focus. I liken it to first thing in the morning sex, when the night has been spent in a lover’s embrace.
Having Sex- the Body; this is the most simplistic, most direct form of love making.love. We have sex when we are physically aroused and we need release. There is only one focus of this type of intercourse and that is the orgasm. How one gets there is not nearly as important, in other words—this is all about the destination and little thought is given to the journey. I think of this as afternoon sex, when one rushes home from work and rips off their clothes as well as their partner’s.
Fucking- The Mind; My personal favorite. This is when you have mind blowing sex, to put it succinctly. Sure physical sex is good, emotional love making is sweet, but getting the mind into the act creates an experience that can leave a person weak in the knees- literally. Fucking is about experimenting, playing, exploring limits. It can be the most base level savage lust filled act to a convolution of role play and toys. For some a bit of erotic talking will grab them—others have to delve a bit deeper to really achieve total mind-blowing orgasms.
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