Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

RE: Credibility


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: Credibility Page: <<   < prev  1 2 3 4 [5]
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
RE: Credibility - 2/26/2008 2:37:26 PM   
Dnomyar


Posts: 7933
Joined: 6/27/2005
Status: offline 		Ladies I dont know much about my credibility but Im a really incredible person. If you don't believe me ask someone who knows.  Me.

(in reply to Justme696)
Profile   Post #: 81
RE: Credibility - 2/26/2008 2:38:36 PM   
Justme696


Posts: 3236
Joined: 1/7/2008
From: Royal kingdom of the Netherlands
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Ladies I dont know much about my credibility but Im a really incredible person. If you don't believe me ask someone who knows.  Me.


what was the word again...?


_____________________________

~Been there, done that, got the t-shirt

(in reply to Dnomyar)
Profile   Post #: 82
RE: Credibility - 2/26/2008 3:25:36 PM   
LadyHathor


Posts: 775
Joined: 1/2/2008
Status: offline 		Awesome, I am thrilled, this is so cool, so we won't be seeing judgements come through to people who do not have a SO---how cool is that!

_____________________________

Lady Hathor, I am the Mistress Hathor of Orleans, I am what I am, often to the dismay and discomfort of others.

(in reply to SailingBum)
Profile   Post #: 83
RE: Credibility - 2/26/2008 6:32:09 PM   
LadyRainfire


Posts: 6040
Joined: 2/20/2008
Status: offline 		But Justme, if someone spends a reasonable amount of time reading on the boards here, you find out which regular posters post responsible, educated, thoughtful answers like CD. Someone who takes the time to think about what he's saying and keep it pertinent to to the OP's question or comment. It might not be what the OP wants to hear, and it might not be what another poster agrees with or believes, but he's not coming in shooting from both hips, letting it rip without thinking. That's why a lot of people believe CD and others, they've taken the time to build up the trust and credibility here on the boards. In real life? Yes, some of us do know him and would trust him absolutely as well with our lives and bodies. But again, that's a trust he's built up and earned with us. I wouldn't expect you to have that same trust because you don't know him, not that I know of anyway.
 
And it sounds like you take the time to think out your answers too. A good thing. Some thing not always done. LOL....

_____________________________

"Desire is an insatiable beast. Sample your strongest dreams, and you will only crave more." ~ Master

~ one half of "L&L"~

My current state of mind

(in reply to Justme696)
Profile   Post #: 84
RE: Credibility - 2/26/2008 8:01:15 PM   
SailingBum


Posts: 3225
Joined: 12/10/2007
From: Sailin the stormy sea
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: petpete

Hey SailingBum!! It looks like Aiolous the god of the winds has really let his sacks open for You.. Hope your well Popey!!


Waves to pete!  After the ice breaker clears the channel  I will be out sailing again.... middle of april we start getting the boat ready.  May the wind be always at you back dude.

BadOne

_____________________________

The beatings will continue until morale improves.

According to SwithNSpanky
We are all so very lucky to have you with us to impart your great wisdom.

(in reply to petpete)
Profile   Post #: 85
RE: Credibility - 2/26/2008 10:59:11 PM   
masterfixer


Posts: 82
Joined: 3/25/2006
Status: offline 		one is the lonlyest number..

(in reply to azropedntied)
Profile   Post #: 86
RE: Credibility - 2/26/2008 11:41:23 PM   
SailingBum


Posts: 3225
Joined: 12/10/2007
From: Sailin the stormy sea
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyRainfire

Someone who takes the time to think about what he's saying and keep it pertinent to to the OP's question or comment. It might not be what the OP wants to hear, and it might not be what another poster agrees with or believes, but he's not coming in shooting from both hips, letting it rip without thinking. That's why a lot of people believe CD and others, they've taken the time to build up the trust and credibility here on the boards. In real life? Yes, some of us do know him and would trust him absolutely as well with our lives and bodies. But again, that's a trust he's built up and earned with us. I wouldn't expect you to have that same trust because you don't know him, not that I know of anyway.
 


I ain't buying it!  You might talk the best game in the world.  Get real until I meet you it's not real.  Zero props no trust, nada, zero,zip.  Get the picture? 

BadOne

_____________________________

The beatings will continue until morale improves.

According to SwithNSpanky
We are all so very lucky to have you with us to impart your great wisdom.

(in reply to LadyRainfire)
Profile   Post #: 87
RE: Credibility - 2/27/2008 12:41:30 AM   
LadyRainfire


Posts: 6040
Joined: 2/20/2008
Status: offline 		LOL... Yep, you're right, no props to you, BadOne, because I don't know you. Don't know you and don't trust you. You're a picture on a screen and that's it. Maybe a voice in my head on a bad night. Oh wait, thats something else.  I don't have to get real for you because I already am real for those who know me. And it ain't you.

_____________________________

"Desire is an insatiable beast. Sample your strongest dreams, and you will only crave more." ~ Master

~ one half of "L&L"~

My current state of mind

(in reply to SailingBum)
Profile   Post #: 88
RE: Credibility - 2/27/2008 1:02:43 AM   
petpete


Posts: 677
Joined: 7/6/2007
Status: offline 		Thanks Sails!! Good luck when tacking on the wind. If that's Your boat (the one on Your profile You will be really cruising Sailor!! As for credibility checks, ask for there bank manager's advice...

< Message edited by petpete -- 2/27/2008 1:06:53 AM >

_____________________________

Chief: Max, you realize you'll be facing every kind of danger imaginable.
Max: And loving it!


(in reply to LadyRainfire)
Profile   Post #: 89
RE: Credibility - 2/27/2008 3:05:12 AM   
Justme696


Posts: 3236
Joined: 1/7/2008
From: Royal kingdom of the Netherlands
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyRainfire

But Justme, if someone spends a reasonable amount of time reading on the boards here, you find out which regular posters post responsible, educated, thoughtful answers like CD. Someone who takes the time to think about what he's saying and keep it pertinent to to the OP's question or comment. It might not be what the OP wants to hear, and it might not be what another poster agrees with or believes, but he's not coming in shooting from both hips, letting it rip without thinking. That's why a lot of people believe CD and others, they've taken the time to build up the trust and credibility here on the boards. In real life? Yes, some of us do know him and would trust him absolutely as well with our lives and bodies. But again, that's a trust he's built up and earned with us. I wouldn't expect you to have that same trust because you don't know him, not that I know of anyway.
 
And it sounds like you take the time to think out your answers too. A good thing. Some thing not always done. LOL....


Good afthernoon.

Oh it was just een example. I don't know him...but it was a great post. Well thought.
I was just looking at "credebility" from different angels. I never thought so much about the subject. Untill this post.
And his example made me think.

I try to think before I post..lol...thank you for the nice compliment. (Not sure if I always succeed ;) )

_____________________________

~Been there, done that, got the t-shirt

(in reply to LadyRainfire)
Profile   Post #: 90
RE: Credibility - 2/27/2008 5:03:25 AM   
Dnomyar


Posts: 7933
Joined: 6/27/2005
Status: offline 		There is no way you can judge anyones credibility by what they post on these boards. To do so is to assume. We all know what assume means.

(in reply to Justme696)
Profile   Post #: 91
RE: Credibility - 2/27/2008 5:26:28 AM   
Justme696


Posts: 3236
Joined: 1/7/2008
From: Royal kingdom of the Netherlands
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

There is no way you can judge anyones credibility by what they post on these boards. To do so is to assume. We all know what assume means.


that is a very good example of assuming every one knows, thank you ;)

but seriously..yes agree. But in person you cant judge peopel on their stories either. To be sure..you have to see things happen. But then their is trust..that has influence on credibility. And propably there are many more things. A good talker is often accepted as credible (politicians??  lol)

< Message edited by Justme696 -- 2/27/2008 5:33:14 AM >

_____________________________

~Been there, done that, got the t-shirt

(in reply to Dnomyar)
Profile   Post #: 92
RE: Credibility - 2/27/2008 6:57:07 AM   
CreativeDominant


Posts: 11032
Joined: 3/11/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Justme696

quote:

Credibility...am I a credible source for health knowledge? Sure, but there are areas in which I am more credible than others. I've been a chiropractic doctor for 25 years, with additional certification in orthopedics so I'm pretty damn credible if you ask me about traumatic joint injuries or chronic joint problems and I am fairly credible with most health questions. But I would not rely on me for answers about brain surgery.


as example I want to add that even though I believe you...we can't even be sure about your credibility of beeing good in orthopedics..unless we really know you.
So for me the credibility in the orthopedics issue is as big as the brainsurgery....

(just an example how credibility works...not a personal issue of anykind...)


I don't take it personally....  My best answer to that would be "well, you'll never know until you give me a try yourself or speak to someone who's had a condition similar to yours that I've helped."  And of course, the license and the certification themselves do lend some degree of credibility.  But, broadening it out to include other aspects of what was being discussed...as I said and as others have said, look to the person:  do their words make sense?  Is what they say and/or do similar to what others you respect already say/do? 

(in reply to Justme696)
Profile   Post #: 93
RE: Credibility - 2/27/2008 7:20:58 AM   
Justme696


Posts: 3236
Joined: 1/7/2008
From: Royal kingdom of the Netherlands
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

quote:

ORIGINAL: Justme696

quote:

Credibility...am I a credible source for health knowledge? Sure, but there are areas in which I am more credible than others. I've been a chiropractic doctor for 25 years, with additional certification in orthopedics so I'm pretty damn credible if you ask me about traumatic joint injuries or chronic joint problems and I am fairly credible with most health questions. But I would not rely on me for answers about brain surgery.


as example I want to add that even though I believe you...we can't even be sure about your credibility of beeing good in orthopedics..unless we really know you.
So for me the credibility in the orthopedics issue is as big as the brainsurgery....

(just an example how credibility works...not a personal issue of anykind...)


I don't take it personally....  My best answer to that would be "well, you'll never know until you give me a try yourself or speak to someone who's had a condition similar to yours that I've helped."  And of course, the license and the certification themselves do lend some degree of credibility.  But, broadening it out to include other aspects of what was being discussed...as I said and as others have said, look to the person:  do their words make sense?  Is what they say and/or do similar to what others you respect already say/do? 


Of course licenses are a great proof . Sometiems the only credible thing (unless bought on the internet lol)
Agree...study the person....think carefully.....

Do you people think credebility is closely related to trust? or...influenced?

_____________________________

~Been there, done that, got the t-shirt

(in reply to CreativeDominant)
Profile   Post #: 94
RE: Credibility - 2/27/2008 11:57:33 AM   
CreativeDominant


Posts: 11032
Joined: 3/11/2006
Status: offline 		Definitely I think credibility is related to trust...and that can be a dangerous thing.  Let's face it, many con men are as successful as they are because they are good at getting others to trust them.

(in reply to Justme696)
Profile   Post #: 95
RE: Credibility - 2/27/2008 11:58:59 AM   
Justme696


Posts: 3236
Joined: 1/7/2008
From: Royal kingdom of the Netherlands
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

Definitely I think credibility is related to trust...and that can be a dangerous thing.  Let's face it, many con men are as successful as they are because they are good at getting others to trust them.


yes agree...it is/can be dangerous...good example...thank you


_____________________________

~Been there, done that, got the t-shirt

(in reply to CreativeDominant)
Profile   Post #: 96
RE: Credibility - 2/27/2008 12:10:29 PM   
ExSteelAgain


Posts: 1803
Joined: 7/2/2006
From: Georgia
Status: offline 		Con PEOPLE are mysterious and they can blend in easily into various kinds of groups like BDSMers. They can be hard to resist and by the time you figure them out, the pain has happened. They can be attractive enough that you will over look their squirrel like activities.

A great flogger can get away with much and that’s why I try so hard to be a great flogger, but I still strive to be a nice guy who doesn’t present a bad guy fake persona. Nice may not give me the initial mysterious persona, but it usually works best in the long run. Somehow, if I’m my nice self, I don’t have to worry about looking for submissives, it just works out magically that the nice people find me.

_____________________________

You can paint a cinder block bright pastel pink, but it's still a cinder block. (By Me.)

(in reply to CreativeDominant)
Profile   Post #: 97
Page:   <<   < prev  1 2 3 4 [5]
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: Credibility Page: <<   < prev  1 2 3 4 [5]
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.078