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MrRandallspe -> Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 8:39:04 AM)
Why do so many female submissives/slave post that they are needing a Dom or even a Master to serve and obey right away. Their profile and comments drip with them almost begging and crying to belong to a Dom/Master,,for a man to take them in,own them and that they will serve with total obedince..Even those that claim they will relocate anywhere,,even at their cost. Yet, they read my response,,I do not get the slighest response from them. Not even a :"sorry..I seek someone closer", "sorry, I seek someone....?" No response at all. They want a man with experience,,,I have 30 years of experience. They want an older man and at 50,I am within their age range. If they are just playing,it would be great to get them off odf here. As well,,if they have been collared,put them in a different catagory....

Drummerpunk7 -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 8:46:44 AM)
I believe the term is "princess". All talk but no real submission or intent to. The girl who introduced me to D/s is a princess. I'm not with her anymore oddly enough.

MiladyElaine -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 8:56:30 AM)
Perhaps they didn't like your response or your picture.

crouchingtigress -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 8:59:00 AM)
Well i dont have the answer that you are looking for because only they know what is going on with them Can you do things differently? i am sure there will be a litany of posters with ideas along those lines My take is differnt...you are doing everything right by being true to yourself. Dont loose sight of the fact that though you are writing to many, you are only seeking one.... And that one for what ever reason, she is still in the process of becoming ready to have you in her life...and you are still in the process of becoming ready for her. Until you are ready, you can not meet, and nothing can change that,. When the time is right, you will meet, your heart will open and explode, and you will know....and you can't change that either.

Drummerpunk7 -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 8:59:30 AM)
or what MiladyElaine said...

Aileen1968 -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 9:01:30 AM)
Most likely those kinds of profiles are either pure fantasy or they are men pretending.

juliaoceania -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 9:03:55 AM)
I haven't read many submissive profiles on here, but the ones I have read were not as you described. Perhaps there have been one or two that sound this way and those were the ones you chose to focus upon? If someone sounded that desperate I would wonder why you would email them in the first place.

Raechard -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 9:04:33 AM)
Trial and error isn't it. More error than trial at times. Also trial would be nice from time to time.[:D] So it isn't at all like trial and error, just error.

Justme696 -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 9:11:38 AM)
many are just bedroom subs....

LadyHathor -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 9:12:28 AM)
This is no different than being in life-- people flirt, rebuff, play and use.

SubbieOnWheels -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 9:18:13 AM)
I just perved your profile, and a very nice one it is. Gotta tell you, if you lived in southern California I would be so all over you![grin] Perhaps the women you contact are so busy they don't have time to respond. Perhaps they have their mail settings set so you go directly to their "bulk" folder because you are outside their preferred description, and they delete that folder without reading. I'm one, BTW, who reads even my bulk mail and responds to any that are decently presented, even if I only say, "thanks, but ..."

utterlybutterfli -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 9:19:24 AM)
Hm, Just because someone doesn;t have a specific criteria written into their profile, doesn't mean they aren't there. It may seem wrong, but if I put EVERYTHING I did and didn't want, then there would be not much room for anything else. Mabe some of them didn't like your profile, maybe some of them didn't like your message, maybe some of them were not turned on by your appearance, mabe some of them were chatting to another Dominant at the time, maybe, maybe,maybe Just because a man is living in my locality and in my specified age bracket doesn't mean that I am going to be interested in his profile. No matter how much I might want a Dominant, I also want what I want and I'm not prepared to go for less just because hes 'local and about the right age'. I am prepared, however, to go to the very ends of the earth and back again for the one that I want. I'm sure, if you're persistent, charming and honest, you'll find one. Theres a peg for every hole. **Edited to add. I am a princess, and I'm twue.

breatheasone -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 9:23:10 AM)
Its been said before regarding this matter...."No response, IS a response."

juliaoceania -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 9:29:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Justme696 many are just bedroom subs.... Yes, I always email back men I have no interest in because to do otherwise would give them the opinion I am only justa bedroom sub... we all know how despicable bedroom submissives are[8\|]

Justme696 -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 9:32:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: ORIGINAL: Justme696 many are just bedroom subs.... Yes, I always email back men I have no interest in because to do otherwise would give them the opinion I am only justa bedroom sub... we all know how despicable bedroom submissives are[8\|] well you could have read my remark as non "negative" too I don't mean beeing a bedroom sub is bad. But many chose it..nothing wrong with it. But they just write their profile as they crave for 24/7 submission.

Missokyst -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 9:56:18 AM)
That was dead on! Kyst quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania I haven't read many submissive profiles on here, but the ones I have read were not as you described. Perhaps there have been one or two that sound this way and those were the ones you chose to focus upon? If someone sounded that desperate I would wonder why you would email them in the first place.

Noah -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 10:04:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 Most likely those kinds of profiles are either pure fantasy or they are men pretending. Yeah, right, Duane.

Aileen1968 -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 10:06:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Noah quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 Most likely those kinds of profiles are either pure fantasy or they are men pretending. Yeah, right, Duane. My name's actually Eric. Not Duane.

Noah -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 10:06:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: ORIGINAL: Justme696 many are just bedroom subs.... Yes, I always email back men I have no interest in because to do otherwise would give them the opinion I am only justa bedroom sub... we all know how despicable bedroom submissives are[8\|] I'm all about the Breakfast Nook subs. And I've never contacted one who hasn't pretty quickly fallen naked and moist at my feet. Why do you suppose that is?

juliaoceania -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 10:12:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Noah quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: ORIGINAL: Justme696 many are just bedroom subs.... Yes, I always email back men I have no interest in because to do otherwise would give them the opinion I am only justa bedroom sub... we all know how despicable bedroom submissives are[8\|] I'm all about the Breakfast Nook subs. And I've never contacted one who hasn't pretty quickly fallen naked and moist at my feet. Why do you suppose that is? You know, I wouldn't know because I am a garage submissive since my Daddy bought me a pallet and put it next to his car

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