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Do you serve more than one? - 2/24/2008 2:02:56 PM   
DommeKimberly


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Status: offline 		How many subs/slaves serve more than one Dom/me?  
Do they know about it?
How do you think they would  react to finding out?
Thanks


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RE: Do you serve more than one? - 2/24/2008 2:09:16 PM   
catize


Posts: 3020
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Status: offline 		There are two dominants in my life.  They don’t know details about each other but are aware that I am not exclusive.  They are not exclusive either.

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RE: Do you serve more than one? - 2/24/2008 2:11:50 PM   
Looking4aToy


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Joined: 2/13/2008
Status: offline 		I belong to one Daddy and one Daddy alone. Because he knows what a cock whore I am, he will allow me to fuck men from time to time once given permission but the number one rule is the men CAN NOT be dominant. I have only had one other Daddy... but the rule with him as well was if he owned me... I was his and his alone. I find it hard to believe that a Dom/me would share a sub or slave... unless perhaps they were a couple. But that's just my experience.

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RE: Do you serve more than one? - 2/24/2008 2:33:46 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DommeKimberly
How many subs/slaves serve more than one Dom/me?  
Do they know about it?
How do you think they would  react to finding out?
Thanks

Not now, but yes in the past.  And my fem sub has her husband who is also her primary dominant.

Know?  Yes, it would have been tough to hide considering they all lived together.

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RE: Do you serve more than one? - 2/24/2008 4:07:58 PM   
tahlly


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Status: offline 		Sometimes my owner will lend me out for an extended period of time for non-sexual service; I never initiate by myself though; he always takes care of things like that.
 
If I was to do something without his knowledge or consent ( and by something I mean service of some kind to another ); I would be cast out without a second chance. No if's and's or but's about it.

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RE: Do you serve more than one? - 2/25/2008 2:01:45 AM   
petpete


Posts: 677
Joined: 7/6/2007
Status: offline 		i dont know and i hate to feel the way i felt up to now. i was trained online by a Dominant Lady who i respect very much for who she is. She has been my mentor and everything that i needed as a newbie when my local community Dominants had turned there back at me and had black listed me. When i met Her in real life the fact that very important issues about Her health where neglected from Her behalf made me very uncomfortable about our future life together and if W/we could have any future of whatsoever.. During the last year i came in contact with a Lady which i was longing to serve and become accustomed to but the very thought of my ex and a miss interpretation of myself and my abilities to serve her drove me to the rocks.. i still have a need to know of how my past relationships are going, and it would please me to know that they are doing fine and better then myself.

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RE: Do you serve more than one? - 2/25/2008 5:20:34 AM   
sambamanslilgirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DommeKimberly

How many subs/slaves serve more than one Dom/me?

me with Daddy's permission since He owns me

quote:

Do they know about it?

yes Daddy knows about him and he knows all about Daddy however details of what i do with the other is kept confidential

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How do you think they would  react to finding out?

Daddy's not surprised that i attract certain types of men however He does have the final say if i'm permitted to meet and/or be with them. the person i'm seeing doesn't mind that i have Daddy ...in fact he respects the relationship i have with Him.

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RE: Do you serve more than one? - 2/25/2008 6:04:37 AM   
silvermuse


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Joined: 6/8/2007
Status: offline 		At one point I had my Master and a secondary dom, that was not only with my Master's permission but under his roof.



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RE: Do you serve more than one? - 2/25/2008 6:30:58 AM   
Mercnbeth


Posts: 11766
Status: offline 		this slave used to serve, non-sexually, a parent, 3 offspring, an employer, her local community and a handful of friends.
 
they all knew about each other and were quite happy to share a willing servant.
 
currently, however, she serves one relationship, and it is THE most important relationship in her life...with Master.

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RE: Do you serve more than one? - 2/25/2008 12:08:07 PM   
JoanieHoney2001


Posts: 44
Joined: 7/14/2007
Status: offline 		My husband is my Dom but I also submit to another Dom and his Switch wife. When we get together my husband requires it to be all 4 of us. Having been married for 20 years and only in the Lifestyle for a little over a year we are still finding our footing, but we just sort of "clicked" with the other couple.

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RE: Do you serve more than one? - 2/25/2008 12:25:42 PM   
RCdc


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Status: offline 		I serve many.
I submit only to Darcy.
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RE: Do you serve more than one? - 2/25/2008 12:51:24 PM   
PapiNsweet


Posts: 36
Joined: 10/12/2005
Status: offline 		i serve, as well as submit to, many men...Dominants and non-Dominants alike. it is all according to my Master's will and demand, it is important to him that i am able to adjust and accomodate the needs of many different men.


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RE: Do you serve more than one? - 2/25/2008 1:02:31 PM   
branbran77


Posts: 24
Joined: 2/12/2008
Status: offline 		I have one Daddy, he is my Dom ...if i want sex i can go get it...but he wants to hear about it....if another Dom is interisted in me he must get my Daddy's permission...Their is a Dom going to meet whit my Daddy soon about borrowing me....I'm a newbie and they have both been teaching me things about this lifestyle........It makes me feel special that my Daddy would meet whith a stranger to discuss me...

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RE: Do you serve more than one? - 2/25/2008 1:26:18 PM   
hopelesslyInvo


Posts: 522
Joined: 2/10/2008
From: the future
Status: offline 		i can serve many for various lengths or reasons, but they do not overlap.  there's only room for one collar, and i wouldn't use one person to fill in the gaps of time or characteristics of another.  if i split my efforts in half, there are 2 people who should be getting double the devotion i have offered.  it would be something i could only do if it were seen as satisfying to what she wanted, it's possible but i am highly unexpectant of it.


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RE: Do you serve more than one? - 2/25/2008 1:38:00 PM   
HeavansKeeper


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DommeKimberly

How many subs/slaves serve more than one Dom/me?  
Do they know about it?
How do you think they would  react to finding out?
Thanks



I will answer for My Pet:

She serves both me an a mistress.  We all know, as we often play together the three of us.  My Pet is clearly the bottom, above her: mistress, and above her: master.  All manner of 1v1v1, 2v1, and 1v1 combinations occur.

Before we opened our doors to a third, My Pet and I were exclusive.  It was not an understood thing, it was spoken about and agreed to.  If she (or I for that matter) broke that bond it would create a huge rift in trust.  I've always been very relaxed when she has told me truths that were hard to say.  In return I expect her to be able to tell me anything.

If I found out she was playing around without telling me, I'd demand to contact him, and leave her in his care until further notice. 

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RE: Do you serve more than one? - 2/25/2008 5:28:16 PM   
madshysoul


Posts: 105
Joined: 2/25/2008
Status: offline 		I identify as a submissive. There are several Tops that I play with as time and interest permit. I am open about being non-exclusive with all of them.  

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RE: Do you serve more than one? - 2/26/2008 11:20:47 PM   
MasterFireMaam


Posts: 5587
Joined: 3/1/2006
From: Charleston, WV
Status: offline 		My girl has a sexual dominant in addition to me. she also has permission to play with others. she also has a husband, but that's pretty much a vanilla relationship. I trump them all.

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RE: Do you serve more than one? - 2/27/2008 12:10:34 AM   
sub4sub123


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Status: offline 		I submit only to one person, but if he asked me to, I would submit to others.  Although he respects me enough that he would ONLY ask me to submit to someone else if it was imparitive that I do so.  It would most likely be non-sexual.

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RE: Do you serve more than one? - 2/27/2008 7:38:40 AM   
sublizzie


Posts: 1252
Joined: 5/26/2004
Status: offline 		I used to be an active member in a group where all of the submissives served all of the Dominants. So, yes, I have served multiple Dominants. Now, however, I am in a 1:1 relationship. I may still give non-sexual service to other Dominants, depending on the situation, but I *serve* only the one.

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RE: Do you serve more than one? - 2/27/2008 11:43:48 AM   
littlesarbonn


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Joined: 12/3/2005
From: Stockton, California
Status: offline 		At any one time I'll serve one dominant. Or I serve no one.

Unless the multiple dommes were working with each other and completely cognizant of what is going on, I'd never be looking for more than one dominant at a time. I have served multiple dominants in the past, but that's just because that's what THEY wanted, and I happened to be lucky enough to be a part of the package deal.


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