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RE: Do you serve more than one? - 2/27/2008 1:38:58 PM

Gleegal67

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ORIGINAL: DommeKimberly

How many subs/slaves serve more than one Dom/me?
Do they know about it?
How do you think they would react to finding out?
Thanks

I serve many, my family, my business, my friends...but Dominants...that's an ever changing number.

I have a primary Dominant, I will always drop everything (within reason!) to serve him, since his time is very limited. He knows I play with others, and honestly he doesn't want to hear about them, nor see their markings on me. I would never play with another in public, out of respect to him and his standing in the community.

I do have other Dominants that I play with. They all have very limited time, and none of us have the time, nor the desire, to devote to a relationship beyond what we have already established. They all know that I service others, and these gentlemen always are curious to what occurs when they see marks from another. At times, I believe that there is a bit of friendly competition between them all in who does what.

One works in law enforcement and he witnesses the ugly side of humanity, time with me is always a breath of fresh air, and I do everything in my power to make it an amazing memory for the short time we have. Another is in a high profile and stressful career, I am able to give him an outlet to let out his "darkside" with no fear of judgement. Another has responsibilities that are very involved and time consuming, his time with me is his Oasis of Pleasure and Serenity. Another has a crazy travel schedule and is constantly on the go, airport time with him is always an adventure that he looks forward to.

Every single wonderful Dominant that I have had the joy of serving are still great friends and I know they always will be. I know that I was there to assist them during a challenging time in their lives, whether it was a chosen path, or one that was chosen for them. I may not necessarily "play" with everyone of them everytime, but they all want to spend what little time they have, with another that understands their Dominant nature and their needs.

Other submissives wonder how I can be emotionally available for multiple Dominants. It is very easy for me to be "in the moment" with my partner. They deserve for me to be emotionally/phsycially available to them during our time together. My goal is to always be a joy to them and make sure that an amazing memory is created for them.

Their pleasure is my pleasure.

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~always the gleeful one~

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RE: Do you serve more than one? - 2/28/2008 5:58:04 AM

mhawk

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well i serve both my Lord and my Mistress,they are husband and wife,so yeah they know about it. i enjoy the fact as much as they do that my service for both of them is different for each of them. it also helps with things not being the same exact type of service for them both.

part of serving my Mistress is helping Her twice a week at Her job finishing the little things that need to be done so that way She comes home 2 to 3 hours earlier than She normally would have.

serving my Lord is helping Him with projects around the house that are in need of being done.

all other aspects of my daily service is the difference of how they each flog me and call upon me for sexual service as well.

all in all it's wrking out really well.

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RE: Do you serve more than one? - 2/28/2008 10:14:07 AM

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i serve 2 one is my M'Lady and the other is my wife. they both know each other and have had dinner over x-mas. my M'Lady is married but i am not submissive to him but i respect him all the same. A/all of U/us are happy with the arrangement. this is a kind of pollyamory with a V type( where the parties are separate, as opposed to a O type where all are in the same place) this works for U/us it doesn't always work out as it takes allot of effort and maturity to manage it. W/we all of us are very happy in O/our lives.
my M'Lady wouldn't play with me until my wife talked with her and allowed it W/we are very open and honest in our relationships.
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RE: Do you serve more than one? - 2/28/2008 11:49:20 AM

littleone35

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I could not serve more than my one Master. He would not lend me out even for non sexual service (and certinly not for sexual service). Even after reading all the responses i don't see how others can serve another(unless of course their Dom ordered them to). I can only wear one mans collar.

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RE: Do you serve more than one? - 2/28/2008 1:49:21 PM

kallisto