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RE: Introvert or Extrovert - 2/25/2008 11:06:47 AM

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I think the best thing to happen to Me was doing sessions in front of people. It cleared the way for SOOOO much in My mind...I became more confident knowing that I could make people gape at the things I pace My girl with....I think its even better when they see Me with a paddle....

Interesting that you would say that! I started my leather-life onstage. Bottomed for a year & a half for training to a local dom friend of mine. We performed with the local fetish troupe (Bravo) every week. After 1 1/2 years, I moved to the dominant side (more chocolate!) & still performed. Funny, scening takes me to a place in my mind where outsiders do not exist; just me & my bottom. I see nothing else. Even though I don't get up on stages anymore, too old & warty & too arthritic to climb stairs!LOL!

I just think that there is something about watching the other people react...I think it feeds Me even more than just the doing it...It makes Me go all silly inside.

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RE: Introvert or Extrovert - 2/25/2008 8:37:12 PM

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Wooooohooooooooooo!!!! I have an evil twin!

As an extrovert I would enjoy fucking you both...Twin sex....Mmmmmm I believe I would find it to be an overall favorable experience.

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RE: Introvert or Extrovert - 2/26/2008 3:28:57 PM

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I swear....you crack me up. You even make "extrovert" sound much like "pervert"....hmmmmm...come to think of it.

Introvert, extrovert, pervert.....perhaps they are all related?

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RE: Introvert or Extrovert - 2/26/2008 7:22:08 PM

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KindLadyGrey's post struck a chord with me, I do the poetry writing and stuff too. I am very much an introvert. When in too large of a group (read-more than six other people, lol) I withdraw into myself. I often have to make myself talk to people. Whenever I feel myself shying away from talking I force myself to go over and do it. Occasionally it pays off for me. I mostly just keep to my little corner of life, reading books, observing life and watching the extroverts in awe at the ease in which they strike up conversations with strangers. Wow, I'm pitiful, lol.

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RE: Introvert or Extrovert - 2/27/2008 7:55:52 AM

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i am an introverted extrovert , or perhaps i am more of an extroverted introvert.

That about covers me as well. I work from home now, love to have my space around me and believe it or not (considering the number of posts I make) don't easily talk to other people until I get to know them. Then the caution that has always been a way of survival for me drops away and I shine through.

I can dom anywhere or dance anywhere, once that space has been entered, nothing else exists around me and my focus is total.

So Introverted Extrovert fits me, but then again I am also an Optimistic Pessimist.

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RE: Introvert or Extrovert - 2/27/2008 10:00:46 AM

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ORIGINAL: NaiveTempest

KindLadyGrey's post struck a chord with me, I do the poetry writing and stuff too. I am very much an introvert. When in too large of a group (read-more than six other people, lol) I withdraw into myself. I often have to make myself talk to people. Whenever I feel myself shying away from talking I force myself to go over and do it. Occasionally it pays off for me. I mostly just keep to my little corner of life, reading books, observing life and watching the extroverts in awe at the ease in which they strike up conversations with strangers. Wow, I'm pitiful, lol.

You aren't pitiful. Some of my best friends are authors who have been dead for decades or even centuries. Don't undervalue your friends just because other people don't get it.

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RE: Introvert or Extrovert - 2/27/2008 11:18:46 AM

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I am introverted from the word go, though when I tell this to some of my co-workers and new friends, they respond with disbelief. At first I found the confluence of dominance and introversion to be rather confusing. I am not a "walk into a crowded room and take charge" type of person. My domination is very much marked by my introversion, and more specifically that I am an INFP on the Myers-Briggs Personality Sorter. I've always been interested in D/s "from the inside out." I love getting inside someone's head and tinkering around with him. I know of some dominants who very much focus on behaviors and forms. This seems like an odd way to proceed for me (though I love how well-trained submissives coming from those people can be), and I suspect that those are extroverted behaviors.

I tend to gravitate to men who are introverts, because we have similar ways of operating in the world. I think that my type of dominance makes less sense to an extroverted person. It can seem to him like nothing is happening, or that I'm not controlling enough.

This questions reminds me of a related question of my own. I've speculated that a website for BDSM, because it can be visited in the privacy of your own home, would disproportionately attract introverts. For me there is great pleasure in being able to travel in my imagination and "meet" interesting new people while being in my introverted comfort zone. People on the boards often suggest to get out in the community and meet people. While I realize this is sound advice, it does make the introvert in me shudder. (smiling)

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