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nella -> Other than apperance. (9/19/2005 7:22:42 AM)

Ok we are having a discussion on how apperances affect atraction to a possible partner, but what aboute other things. i might be shallow but i am mostly atracted to pepole that have at least some intrest and knowledge aboute the spiritual, occultists and occult knowledge is to me werry sexy, a man can e as ugly as the elefant man, but if he practice magick, is spiritual or into the occult, he is sexy in my book, while a hunk of man meat, that might be eye candy is totaly uninteresting if he dont have ny spiritual intrest or knowledge. anyone else have anyhting other such things that deterime atraction to somone?



EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: Other than apperance. (9/19/2005 7:43:08 AM)

I don't use things to "determine attraction" other than what is there with the person and with myself. If it's there, it's there.

However, as I state in my profile, there tend to be common characteristics between the people I become deeply involved with: overly smart and educated, high drive to succeed, musical talents, science/computer geek, spirituality and energy interests.

My decision to get to know someone is based on a gazillion things, some of which are rational and some of which are not. They change depending on my situation at the time, their situation at the time and more. It can be everything from practical issues like religious background, financial stability, family status, to personal issues like smells and fashion sense.



perfection20005 -> RE: Other than apperance. (9/19/2005 7:53:59 AM)

I'm not really sure about what attracts me to others. I just know when I meet someone and we start talking if I'm going to like them or not. Their physical looks may have something to do with it at first, but looks really don't matter after I get to know them. Also, like Emerald said, it does change depending on my situation at the time and my mood at that time.



greenie -> RE: Other than apperance. (9/19/2005 8:19:55 AM)

If He doesn't have a sense of humor it will NEVER work. i spent too many years of my life not knowing how to laugh and now that i can i refuse to give it up. We can't take ourselves serious all the time and if we can't now and then laugh at ourselves who can we laugh at? lol. He has to be able to laugh at himself and with me at me at times. If a man can make me laugh then he's half way to my heart already.



nella -> RE: Other than apperance. (9/19/2005 8:22:52 AM)

i agree aboute that one greenie, humor is inportant. [:D]



KatyLied -> RE: Other than apperance. (9/19/2005 8:34:23 AM)

He must have a sense of humor. If he can laugh at me, others and most importantly at himself, it's good. And he needs to be articulate, I like to talk. A lot. I can't stand yes, no, uh huh answers. So a guy who is expansive in communication skills is great.



greenie -> RE: Other than apperance. (9/19/2005 8:45:00 AM)

oh yes! He has to be able to carry a conversation! There is nothing worse then talking with someone and carrying the whole conversation myself. i've done all the talking throughout and then at the end i'm left feeling like i need to pull another topic out of my ass because i've run out.



teapaw -> RE: Other than apperance. (9/19/2005 8:57:18 AM)


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ORIGINAL: greenie

oh yes! He has to be able to carry a conversation! There is nothing worse then talking with someone and carrying the whole conversation myself. i've done all the talking throughout and then at the end i'm left feeling like i need to pull another topic out of my ass because i've run out.



What?! [:-] you mean having whle conversations with ones self is not ok? LOL Ones ass does tend to run out of things to say. [;)]
Or worse one feels that takling is gettting you nowhere...LOL
pamela



nella -> RE: Other than apperance. (9/19/2005 9:18:51 AM)

Indeed and he must not be the type that say yes, yes, yes okey now we ahve had dinner can we have sex now?



Sartoris32801 -> RE: Other than apperance. (9/19/2005 9:43:21 AM)

Over a long exhaustive period of time and experience, I've finally been abled to narrow the selection process to three simple characteristics, only one of those having any remote connection to physical appearance.

First : She must me a wanton shamless, lustful, licentious slut.( Is any of that redundant)?

Secondly: She must be capable of mixing "the perfect dry martini" shaken not stirred. Of course it has be second nature for her to do this tending completely naked; possible exception of collar, leather restraints of some type, maybe a bell that jingles when she walks....still getting that worked out completly, but you get the idea.

And thirdly, here is where my shallow nature rears its ugly head.She must look vulnerable and delicously decadent standing naked with her arms tied over head.


So, since I've narrowed this all down I can now do a google search for the perfect woman.. ...wanton dry martini decadently standing tied and naked. Now one would think with narrowing my search to the bare bones I would be sucessful. Alas no! google keeps fucking with me.
Sartoris



nella -> RE: Other than apperance. (9/19/2005 10:02:19 AM)

What exactly is a martini? is that that clear drink whit a olive in it that James Bond drinks all the time? And that Tabitha`s enchanted living doll mixes in Passions?

(edited to corect a few things.)



Sartoris32801 -> RE: Other than apperance. (9/19/2005 10:31:04 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: nella

What exactly is a martini? is that that clear drink whit a olive in it that James Bond drinks all the time? And that Tabitha`s enchanted living doll mixes in Passions?

(edited to corect a few things.)



It's a "spiritual" drink!

Sartoris



stormie -> RE: Other than apperance. (9/19/2005 1:10:54 PM)

It's a "spiritual" drink!

Sartoris
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~Grinz~
Orders Two Of them...and sits back sippping them...Laffs



Mylee -> RE: Other than apperance. (9/19/2005 1:16:52 PM)

For me it's all about whit, if a man can't beat me or at least give me a run for my money with word play then i think i would have a hard time taking him seriously with a paddle in his hand...

* winces, waiting to get flamed*
~my'lee



IronBear -> RE: Other than apperance. (9/19/2005 3:53:43 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: nella

What exactly is a martini? is that that clear drink whit a olive in it that James Bond drinks all the time? And that Tabitha`s enchanted living doll mixes in Passions?

(edited to corect a few things.)


Forget the Martini .. and head for schnapps it is even more "spiritual"



fastlane -> RE: Other than apperance. (9/19/2005 4:11:16 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

He must have a sense of humor. If he can laugh at me, others and most importantly at himself, it's good. And he needs to be articulate, I like to talk. A lot. I can't stand yes, no, uh huh answers. So a guy who is expansive in communication skills is great.



I like to talk a lot? Damn, no wonder I can't get a Friken word in edgewise!

Fastlane runs to the "Gag section of the store!"



nella -> RE: Other than apperance. (9/19/2005 4:18:05 PM)

Well alochoilc drinks is not my strong point.



fastlane -> RE: Other than apperance. (9/19/2005 4:20:34 PM)

all submissives are a turn on to me! I may only choose one to be with, but they all turn me on, because they are.....well, submissive.



MstrHellsFury -> RE: Other than apperance. (9/19/2005 5:53:26 PM)

well just call me the chicken inspector...I like the legs..and breastests..oh yeah..and chicken lips...feet...sometimes where the egg comes out...well alot where the egg comes out...and also some wings...what the heck...just give me the whole dang bird...no matter the shape or size...I'll find a way to get my fill...(wink)...


Fury



KatyLied -> RE: Other than apperance. (9/19/2005 7:30:57 PM)

quote:

Fastlane runs to the "Gag section of the store!"


No need to go shopping. In your birthday bag. Purple.



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