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RE: A WONDERFUL NEW GAME I discovered: - 2/26/2008 4:54:48 PM

Paulsgirl

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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

I got the impression that this is just a fun thing to do. Not every instance of play has to be so intense that the threat of damage is present. My God...do some people ever have just a good old fun time without safewords and plotting out the scene beforehand?

i agree...girls just wanna have fun, ohhh girls just wanna have fun......no scripts, passwords or safe words with Master.......He just loves to bash the geek outta me......

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RE: A WONDERFUL NEW GAME I discovered: - 2/26/2008 4:57:07 PM

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My sub/slave will write "You win" on my desktop, and save the text-file but password lock it. Then, I strap them in, and I have to get the password out of them. Oh, the fun I've had! Spanking, figging, tickling, teasing them silly, keeping them on the edge of orgasm! You see, the first few times they agree to give the password, it is a lie, but it gives them a break as it requires me to walk over and enter it in the computer. And after a while, I don't believe them anymore. And while I never go to far, no safe-words are allowed! It's so much fun!

oh with respect i don't think you discovered THAT game...i think the Microsoft Corp did it first on a global scake

ed to correct Microsoft Crop to abbreviated corporation

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RE: A WONDERFUL NEW GAME I discovered: - 2/26/2008 6:20:47 PM

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I think that's a cute game :) I've also gotten into that "no I can't believe you stage" and it can be hysterical.

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RE: A WONDERFUL NEW GAME I discovered: - 2/26/2008 7:41:57 PM

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I just have to say that if you really know and trust your partner then no safeword is needed. I have been with my Master for almost 2 years and have never once used a safeword nor felt the need to use one. It all comes back to communication and trust.

Sounds like a great game though.

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RE: A WONDERFUL NEW GAME I discovered: - 2/26/2008 7:42:03 PM

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This does sound like fun and I agree with those who've argued that the safeword is built in. After all if the sub really wanted the torture to stop, it's within his/her control. Unless they forgot the password I guess.

See, if I were a sub I'd take it one step further. I'd not make the text file read "you win" but rather something like "fuck you!" so that the dom would just be more motivated to come back and beat me more. But that's topping from the bottom isn't it? Oh wait, wrong thread. Good thing I'm not a sub then I guess, I'd be pretty infuriating.

By the way, Steel, I really like what you wrote about the idiocy of the concept of safewords...that idiocy being that instating one means you can do whatever you want as long as that word isn't said. Obviously that's not the case. I believe they are rather more "false sense of security" words than anything "safe." But alas, that's not what this thread is about.

And to Aileen - what are you thinking? Of course no one still has that kind of fun, we're too busy worrying about all this other stuff.

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RE: A WONDERFUL NEW GAME I discovered: - 2/26/2008 8:47:03 PM

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I just have to say that if you really know and trust your partner then no safeword is needed. I have been with my Master for almost 2 years and have never once used a safeword nor felt the need to use one. It all comes back to communication and trust.

Sounds like a great game though.

I don't think anyone needs a safeword at any time, with the possible exception of some non consensual consent scenes.

But you MAY need to stop a scene due to an unexpected issue at any point- 2 monthts or 2 decades into a relationship. All the communication and trust in the world doesn't stop a cramp.

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RE: A WONDERFUL NEW GAME I discovered: - 2/26/2008 8:50:10 PM

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I've played a similar game....Only it is getting the code to her ATM card....There are no safewords. Usually she is bound gagged and tied to a chair...A blow torch usually does the trick. It's great fun!!!

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RE: A WONDERFUL NEW GAME I discovered: - 2/26/2008 10:21:55 PM

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Considering the purpose of a safeword is to stop things completely, the password completely fulfills the need. That is, assuming the need exists.

As for the 'need' for safewords, for me it's a matter of my comfort versus the sub's. If I'm with a sub who says that they really want me to go hog wild on them, I have a hard time enjoying myself unless I know that there's a pre-established way that they can stop things. That being said, if I'm with someone and there's no question in my mind of hitting a hard limit, I don't feel the need if the sub doesn't want one.

To me, there's something satisfying about the trust involved with giving the 'out' and never hearing it used.

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RE: A WONDERFUL NEW GAME I discovered: - 2/26/2008 10:47:41 PM

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i'm sooo happy my Dom doesn't read these forums. We've played a game like this before and it turned out to be "interesting" to say the least.

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RE: A WONDERFUL NEW GAME I discovered: - 2/27/2008 4:43:40 AM

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ORIGINAL: shysub0951

i'm sooo happy my Dom doesn't read these forums. We've played a game like this before and it turned out to be "interesting" to say the least.

then why is it good he doesn't read? Perhaps I misunderstood, but can you explain?

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