RE: Topping from the Bottom Misused and Overused?

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LATEXBABY64 -> RE: Topping from the Bottom Misused and Overused? (2/29/2008 8:31:04 PM)
people are like bank cards they are either a debit or credit rofl I just i like making money

adoracat -> RE: Topping from the Bottom Misused and Overused? (3/1/2008 12:54:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SassySarijane quote: ORIGINAL: adoracat so is Daddy. i dont call him evil bastard because he's cute, which he is. giggling kitten laughing I love that type. Wonderfully sadistic with the sense of humor that so perfectly compliments it. he's very sensual, not so much sadistic unless you count him denying me climaxes. which he is very fond of doing. i wouldnt trade him for anything. [:D] kitten

RCdc -> RE: Topping from the Bottom Misused and Overused? (3/1/2008 2:29:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AcademyForSlaves A real sub does not pick and choose when they can be sub. They just ARE. Oh Please.[8\|] We are all human beings. Being sentient means we have the ability to make a choice, not act on instinct alone. There is no 'real' one true wayism, that is such an ancient and misguided lie. And OG is far more polite than I am.[:D] the.dark.

Justme696 -> RE: Topping from the Bottom Misused and Overused? (3/1/2008 2:30:18 AM)
great a real/fake discussion :P thank you for saving us the dark huggggg

Lumus -> RE: Topping from the Bottom Misused and Overused? (3/1/2008 2:56:53 AM)
I are a Dominante. Let the beatings...BEGIN!

SassySarijane -> RE: Topping from the Bottom Misused and Overused? (3/1/2008 6:51:35 AM)
perk Beatings???? I am sooo there [8D]

SubbieOnWheels -> RE: Topping from the Bottom Misused and Overused? (3/1/2008 7:24:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SassySarijane perk Beatings???? I am sooo there [8D] Me too! (But I'll only take them from the One I choose)

beargonewild -> RE: Topping from the Bottom Misused and Overused? (3/1/2008 7:39:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AcademyForSlaves You wrote that a submissive person is "equal" to the Domme/Dom until the sub wants and chooses to submit. There are people who believe that to be sub is to be sub. Period. That they are never "equal". To believe you are equal to a higher authority seems to contradict with being an opposite to them. One is up, the other is down. One is dominant, the other is submissive. One is on top, the other is the bottom. One calls the shots, the other obeys. Etc. Now that doesn't apply to being an equal human being on the planet who deserves human rights, respect, etc. Of course we are all equal in that regard. But we are talking here about a BDSM lifestyle. A real sub does not pick and choose when they can be sub. They just ARE. I'm taking the stance of the Devil's advocate here. After all that is said and done, BDSM is not the end all: be all. It is an enhancement to our lives, the icing on our cake, it does not replace the reality that we are in a relationship in the same manner as outr parents. The only bloody exception is the kink adds a different twist to what would normally be a common vanilla relationship. quote: A real sub does not pick and choose when they can be sub. They just ARE. ???????? Please further elaborate on this.

angelic -> RE: Topping from the Bottom Misused and Overused? (3/1/2008 7:51:15 AM)
~fr~ Gads the 'topping from the bottom' cop out. Being accused of topping from the bottom or some Master/Dom whining their submissive/slave is, simply says the Master/Dom has zero idea how to be a Master/Dom over said submissive/slave. I mostly laugh when I hear that term.

aftershox -> RE: Topping from the Bottom Misused and Overused? (3/1/2008 7:52:36 AM)
quote: Honestly? I find it more of a myth than a reality. Yes it does happen. Yes it can be bad but not always - but when it is used negatively by people making accusations it's because certain people enjoy having power and trying to gain authority of others relationships and telling them what their relationship is - including the infamous quote 'Sounds like topping from the bottom '. It is and has the effect of diminishing and degrading anothers relationship so as to gain their own hold. Sounds to me like this might be TFAB ..Topping From a Busybody. LOL Or perhaps TFT Topping From a Troll. These days, I am being strictly submissive., but I have been known to be bratty and top from the bottom. I have tried being a switch, and so far it has been near impossible for me to top from the top. So my only choices are to submit or top from the bottom.

SassySarijane -> RE: Topping from the Bottom Misused and Overused? (3/1/2008 7:55:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark quote: ORIGINAL: AcademyForSlaves A real sub does not pick and choose when they can be sub. They just ARE. Oh Please.[8\|] We are all human beings. Being sentient means we have the ability to make a choice, not act on instinct alone. There is no 'real' one true wayism, that is such an ancient and misguided lie. And OG is far more polite than I am.[:D] the.dark. Oh come on now the.dark., don't hold back, tell us how you really feel [8D]

SassySarijane -> RE: Topping from the Bottom Misused and Overused? (3/1/2008 7:57:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: aftershox Sounds to me like this might be TFAB ..Topping From a Busybody. LOL Or perhaps TFT Topping From a Troll. Aaaaaaack! Noooooooo! More buzzwords to learn! [sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif] Love it.

SassySarijane -> RE: Topping from the Bottom Misused and Overused? (3/1/2008 9:05:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: beargonewild I'm taking the stance of the Devil's advocate here. After all that is said and done, BDSM is not the end all: be all. It is an enhancement to our lives, the icing on our cake, it does not replace the reality that we are in a relationship in the same manner as outr parents. The only bloody exception is the kink adds a different twist to what would normally be a common vanilla relationship. You make a good point, Bear. Even when one is very hardcore into bdsm, M/s, etc., there's still life that has to be dealt with and sometimes it requires focusing on it rather than bdsm to resolve issues.

RCdc -> RE: Topping from the Bottom Misused and Overused? (3/2/2008 4:04:37 AM)
[:D][sm=news.gif] the.dark.

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